A female opinion

[Gumleaf]

Although I've been in a couple of relationships in the past, I've never actually asked anyone out before. I'm just asking for a general opinion, because I realise every situation is different. But how far into getting to know someone would you find that being asked out is not creepy? I hope that makes sense, i'm finding it hard to word what I want to say.

[SillyShyGuy]

I would say one month. As long as you talk to them several times a week. It depends.

[Karkat]

Hmm, well I'd say probably at least a couple weeks minimum, but I typically don't date people I'm not comfortable with. :P I may be a female, but sometimes it seems everyone else is on another planet entirely.

[Gumleaf]

Hmm, well I'd say probably at least a couple weeks minimum, but I typically don't date people I'm not comfortable with. :P I may be a female, but sometimes it seems everyone else is on another planet entirely.

Yeah thanks. I should have given a little history. I've known her for about a year. But we don't see each other or have the chance to talk that often. But when we have talked, it's been really friendly and the convo has always flowed which is something coming from 2 introverts. But i'm hoping to have contact with her much more often, but at the same time I don't want to be creepy.

[Karkat]

Yeah thanks. I should have given a little history. I've known her for about a year. But we don't see each other or have the chance to talk that often. But when we have talked, it's been really friendly and the convo has always flowed which is something coming from 2 introverts. But i'm hoping to have contact with her much more often, but at the same time I don't want to be creepy.

Hmm, doesn't seem creepy to me. I wouldn't be weirded out if I was her, is what I'm saying.

[Gumleaf]

Hmm, doesn't seem creepy to me. I wouldn't be weirded out if I was her, is what I'm saying.

Ok, thanks for your thoughts. :)

[anrigirl]

I'll guess wait a couple of weeks :) It all depends on circumstances