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Lord Of Curiosity
July 7th, 2014, 06:04 PM
hey guys,
I've been a little worried about how my life is going during puberty.
I'm constantly horny and wanking solves that for mabey an hour. I've got almost no friends so I'm very lonely right now, it's kinda depressing. I'm aslo very bored all the time and almost crave to have sex for the first time. I will be gping to a brand new school at the other side of the country which means I have to live on my own. That is super scary as I never go to parties or go out on a friday night or whatever. Also, all people at the new school will be ar least 18 or much older while I am 17.
Are all of these feelings part of puberty? Do any of you think it'll get better? Do any of you think I'll be able to connect and make friends with such old people? is this loneliness just a phase? I certainly hope so.
P.S. move the thread if its placed wrongly please
SillyShyGuy
July 7th, 2014, 06:24 PM
hey guys,
I've been a little worried about how my life is going during puberty.
I'm constantly horny and wanking solves that for mabey an hour. I've got almost no friends so I'm very lonely right now, it's kinda depressing. I'm aslo very bored all the time and almost crave to have sex for the first time. I will be gping to a brand new school at the other side of the country which means I have to live on my own. That is super scary as I never go to parties or go out on a friday night or whatever. Also, all people at the new school will be ar least 18 or much older while I am 17.
Are all of these feelings part of puberty? Do any of you think it'll get better? Do any of you think I'll be able to connect and make friends with such old people? is this loneliness just a phase? I certainly hope so.
P.S. move the thread if its placed wrongly please
Things will get better buddy. Your hormones are making you feel the way you do. Wanking is fine as long as you do not over do it. Make friends and see if some of them would like to talk about puberty things with you. Message me, I can be your friend :)
bigp0599
July 7th, 2014, 06:34 PM
Yes I would say it's normal but keep your head up and it will be ok
Second Chance
July 8th, 2014, 12:23 AM
I think your basic problem is not having friends meaning that you are spending a lot of time alone thinking about sex which leads you to jacking off. What you need to do is find a group of people who share your interests so that you're not alone. Drinking and partying is not the answer to your issue, but you should find people who care about you and who you're comfortable with so that you don't feel alone. If you have real issues connecting with people, then there is no shame to seek out counseling to figure out what you can do to reach out to people. I would hold off on sex until you can develop a good circle of friends because if you get laid without having emotional connections, then that is not a good thing.
hockeyfan
July 8th, 2014, 01:57 AM
These thing r harder to deal with during puberty.
I suggest u spend more time do extra curricular activities. That is how u make new friends.
Join a club, volunteer ur time to a charity, shelter or animal shelter. Not only will u meet ppl but ur live will have more meaning and b more for filling.
U may also become too busy to spend time thinking about sex, as a result ur sexual urges may decrease.
Harryboh
July 8th, 2014, 03:16 AM
when you meet new people it will stop you wanking so much
CrazyPerson101
July 8th, 2014, 12:00 PM
hey guys,
I've been a little worried about how my life is going during puberty.
I'm constantly horny and wanking solves that for mabey an hour. I've got almost no friends so I'm very lonely right now, it's kinda depressing. I'm aslo very bored all the time and almost crave to have sex for the first time. I will be gping to a brand new school at the other side of the country which means I have to live on my own. That is super scary as I never go to parties or go out on a friday night or whatever. Also, all people at the new school will be ar least 18 or much older while I am 17.
Are all of these feelings part of puberty? Do any of you think it'll get better? Do any of you think I'll be able to connect and make friends with such old people? is this loneliness just a phase? I certainly hope so.
P.S. move the thread if its placed wrongly please
Yes these feelings are part of puberty. If you're horny, go ahead and do what you have to do to relieve your self, Its probably cause by raging hormones that will slowly .... back down ( basically you won't feel the need to "wank" as much ) Just don't over do it. Being the new kid in school can be tough but try to make some friends, Be yourself and some people there will like that about ya and you'll have friends :) Good Luck
JamesSuperBoy
July 8th, 2014, 12:14 PM
hey guys,
I've been a little worried about how my life is going during puberty.
I'm constantly horny and wanking solves that for mabey an hour. I've got almost no friends so I'm very lonely right now, it's kinda depressing. I'm aslo very bored all the time and almost crave to have sex for the first time. I will be gping to a brand new school at the other side of the country which means I have to live on my own. That is super scary as I never go to parties or go out on a friday night or whatever. Also, all people at the new school will be ar least 18 or much older while I am 17.
Are all of these feelings part of puberty? Do any of you think it'll get better? Do any of you think I'll be able to connect and make friends with such old people? is this loneliness just a phase? I certainly hope so.
P.S. move the thread if its placed wrongly please
For sure as others say if you were not bored etc it would be different as you would have things to do. If or not how you feel and friends or lack off is a puberty thing then have you simply felt more alone or grown aways from friends. It would be natural to feel a bit anxious about the change to another school so perhaps that makes you want to masturbate and just escape the deal a bit.
Its a new school and a huge change but one you can enjoy and form friendships - enjoy it all and if you need help ask for it. maybe check if the school has a peer mentor thing or counselors.
Soxman97
July 8th, 2014, 12:26 PM
hey guys,
I've been a little worried about how my life is going during puberty.
I'm constantly horny and wanking solves that for mabey an hour. I've got almost no friends so I'm very lonely right now, it's kinda depressing. I'm aslo very bored all the time and almost crave to have sex for the first time. I will be gping to a brand new school at the other side of the country which means I have to live on my own. That is super scary as I never go to parties or go out on a friday night or whatever. Also, all people at the new school will be ar least 18 or much older while I am 17.
Are all of these feelings part of puberty? Do any of you think it'll get better? Do any of you think I'll be able to connect and make friends with such old people? is this loneliness just a phase? I certainly hope so.
P.S. move the thread if its placed wrongly please
I am the same way I don't have friends so I'm bored a lot so I jerk off I know how I feel
overobsessiveteen
July 8th, 2014, 03:33 PM
It's fine. Just wait until you're 18 and then try to date someone. If dating doesn't workout, become a player and then Fuck like a rabbit.
Lord Of Curiosity
July 8th, 2014, 05:18 PM
thanks guys, your answers are a great help :)
ChrisA1998
July 28th, 2014, 11:14 PM
hey guys,
I've been a little worried about how my life is going during puberty.
I'm constantly horny and wanking solves that for mabey an hour. I've got almost no friends so I'm very lonely right now, it's kinda depressing. I'm aslo very bored all the time and almost crave to have sex for the first time. I will be gping to a brand new school at the other side of the country which means I have to live on my own. That is super scary as I never go to parties or go out on a friday night or whatever. Also, all people at the new school will be ar least 18 or much older while I am 17.
Are all of these feelings part of puberty? Do any of you think it'll get better? Do any of you think I'll be able to connect and make friends with such old people? is this loneliness just a phase? I certainly hope so.
P.S. move the thread if its placed wrongly please
Friends wont come over to u by miracle, you will have to come up to them to make some ;-)
Life is much more fun when you can do stuff with friends rather staying alone ;-)
GoGoDiego
July 29th, 2014, 07:58 AM
Make some friends in your area, you wont feel that alone
Snydergate
August 3rd, 2014, 11:53 PM
Im 19 and am going through literally the exact same thing, excluding the moving. But I always feel lonely and dont have many friends. I end up jerking alot because I am so horny and have never had sex. I dont know what to say since I havn't figured it out for myself yet
Nicola14Swaggy
August 6th, 2014, 02:29 PM
It'll get better you'll find some friends try to interact first and find something in common with these older guys.(dont fap that much)
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