What is she trying to tell me? Boys and girls opinions wanted!

[justalittleboy]

Okay so a few weeks ago I got a little drunk with a few of my friends and ended up telling the girl that I like at the moment how I feel about her. She responded with saying

"Aha I definitely think you will regret this later but I'm flattered anyway! Are you okay?"

As of then she responded quickly and we had a bit of a conversation but it was quickly over as it was late and we both wanted to go to bed. I tried starting a conversation the next day when Facebook Messenger told me that she was "active now" but she didn't respond for hours. I don't know if this feature works that we'll but she never responds within 3-4 hours of me sending her a message despite it telling me that she's been doing things during that time. I don't know what this means, this has been going on for a while now and I've not even seen her since our school has broken up. She's not really made much of an effort to continue a conversation at all.

Put plainly, I want to know your advice on what I should do and what she thinks of me. Should I ask her what she thinks of me, stop talking to her...?

Before all his happened we weren't really friends but we were cool with each other, we have good mutual friends but it was very out of the blue, when I told her how I feel.

[Living For Love]

I think the best thing to do is ask her if she remembers that moment and if she feels the same for you. In case her answer is negative, you can always say you were a bit drunk and weren't properly thinking about what you were saying at that time, just as a way to avoid making it too awkward.

[justalittleboy]

I think the best thing to do is ask her if she remembers that moment and if she feels the same for you. In case her answer is negative, you can always say you were a bit drunk and weren't properly thinking about what you were saying at that time, just as a way to avoid making it too awkward.

And then after that, what? If she feels the same then great, I'll try to carry it on but if it fails do I try to move on?

[SillyShyGuy]

She is clearly ignoring you. That is mean for her to post things and not reply to your message. You should not talk to her anymore if she is going to act stuck-up like a child. You deserve better, you should move on.

[justalittleboy]

She is clearly ignoring you. That is mean for her to post things and not reply to your message. You should not talk to her anymore if she is going to act stuck-up like a child. You deserve better, you should move on.

Are you sure? Shouldn't I try to confront her or anything first?

[SillyShyGuy]

Well if she is not willing to talk to you, then how can you confront her? You will be waiting to speak with her and she will just ignore you more :(

[justalittleboy]

Well if she is not willing to talk to you, then how can you confront her? You will be waiting to speak with her and she will just ignore you more :(

I don't know, I'd still appreciate a few more suggestions from people, that just sounds a bit harsh to me :/

[SillyShyGuy]

Well you sound like a guy some girls dream about. You show compassion and patience, but do you see how this girl treats you? Okay maybe message her again and see if he wants to talk. Do not give up if you really like this girl

[justalittleboy]

Well you sound like a guy some girls dream about. You show compassion and patience, but do you see how this girl treats you? Okay maybe message her again and see if he wants to talk. Do not give up if you really like this girl

Hahaha, thanks man! I know what you mean I just want to see if I can fix any problems rather than getting rid of the whole thing and if it doesn't work then I might have to leave it

[Living For Love]

And then after that, what? If she feels the same then great, I'll try to carry it on but if it fails do I try to move on?

Well, you can always say that, despite being drunk, you were honest, but if you think she's not as interested in you as you are in her, then I guess it's better to just move on.

[SillyShyGuy]

You are welcome. Try to fix things and see if they get better between you and her.

[Gumleaf]

The vibe I get is she isn't interested. She's likely feeling a bit awkward by the moment you spilt your guts to her and probably needs time to process that. I would maybe leave it a few days and then try and talk to her again. I would be focussing on rebuilding the friendship more then anything else if it were me.

[justalittleboy]

So the overall message I'm getting here is generally that I should speak to her a bit more to try to sort it out and if it doesn't work, just leave her and move on?

[justalittleboy]

How about something like this?

"Right, time to be honest, this clearly isn't working and I don't, and I'm sure you don't, really want to be just talking to you like this for longer without anything doing at all other than the "conversation" getting slower and more awkward :/ The message I'm getting, and it took me too long to get really, is that you don't want this to carry on and I'm not surprised, if I was in your position I'd probably be pretty weirded out too if somebody randomly said that they liked me and started speaking so I'm just going to leave it. I appreciate that you've been speaking and all that jazz and I'm kinda sorry I started all this off, especially seeing as I'm me and I don't really stand a chance :') Thanks and bye, I guess!"