Is It Safe??

[Uranus]

So I am in a relationship with this girl and I love her so much. But I am having a problem. I hangout with a lot of my friends but also other girls. Two girls that are my age, are my best friends, of the female gender. And two others who are real good friends. But I am wondering if its safe to text and call them even thoug I am in a relationship. They're my best female friends and I can't just say "I un-Friend you"....I don't wanna cheat but I don't want to loze friends too.....what do I do?

[Hudor]

Being in a relationship doesn't mean you have to estrange yourself from other relationships which are possibly older and deeper. It is up to you to manage your time between your friends and gf but i don't see why you need to un-friend them now that you've got a gf because that would be unspeakably rude and selfish. If you think you need to spend more time with her you could tell your friends so. If they're really good friends they should be able to understand.

Also idk what kind of conversations you have with your friends but usually it is safe to text/call your friends even if you're in a relationship..

[brybrymanc]

You shouldnt have to lose the people that mean a lot to you. Jus be open and honest with your gf and she will feel good about your relationship xx

[Karkat]

I'm not saying your girlfriend is this way, I'm just talking in general, but if your girlfriend is so possessive that she won't let you talk to other girls, she's not worth it.

As long as you aren't cheating on her with them, it shouldn't be a big deal.

[JamesSuperBoy]

I think as you seem doubtful maybe the best thing to do is to introduce your gf to these friends.

[Uranus]

Thanks for all your replies! And in reply to some, I am a heavy texter and I usually have almost daily calls. Also my gf hasn't complained or anything like that. It just came to my mind seeing as I am a heavy texter and talker I just don't wanna risk my relationship, by falling into a bad spot and having to deal with a big problem.. as a guy, HELL YEA ILL CHEAT, but as a bf to m gf and her lover, I wouldn't wana cheat on her. We all know how guys are, I am just trying to be safe, and not wanting to hurt her.(my gf) Because she's dealt with a lot of other problems, that I don't wanna talk about, and the last thing I want, is her to have to deal with another problem, which she doesn't deserve. She means a lot to me. I'm just tryna be safe. Still I would like some more advice...

[SillyShyGuy]

You can have lady friends as long as you set boundaries. Hugs are fine but anything more than that might make your girlfriend jealous. Make sure you talk about your girlfriend around them so they know you only want her and not your friends.