Long Distance (Please Answer)

[MichaelIsCool]

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[KieranRules]

So when I was young (7) my mom made friends with this one woman who had a daughter the same age as me. So as they hung out, we would hang out. We would play in her room all the time and when I was like 8 she would dress me up in panties and girls clothes (we were both 8 so no nasty comments).

I think when I was around 9-10 I developed a little crush on her and it grew till we were both 11. Then it was about as big as an 11 year old crush could be. Well a few months later she moved to Phoenix (we lived in Texas) and I didn't see or here from her for 3-4 years. I thought about her all the time, even 4 years later.

Then out of the blue one day (today) she gets on Instagram and starts following me. So one thing led to another and we texted each other for about 12 hours.

She just had to go to bed (it's 1:40 AM and I live in New York now) but I can't get her out of my head. I can't believe all those feelings were dormant for 4 years but now there all rushing back.

I live in New York and she lives in Arizona (we're both 15). I love this girl but I don't know what to do. Please help

Just talk to her mate, just talk about things and when some time has passed tell her how you feel, but when you're ready. It would seem a bit weird for you to say you love her after 4 years of not seeing her. I'm sure you were amazing friends but if that's how you feel towards her then you get on skype and get things going (not in that way). I'm sure she will be honest back but don't expect her to say: "me too". Else you may feel down and if that is the case then think about this... You just met a friend from 4 years ago bro! I wish that could happen to me haha! But yeah, main thing is just to give it a bit longer and tell her when you're ready. Hope this helps and I hope it all works out! :)

[hockeyfan]

Old feelings comeback with old flames.

Does she know how u feel?

As a fellow teenager u have my sympathy. Distance is very difficult to over come at our age. Does ur mom and her ur crushes mom still c eachother or communicate?

[anrigirl]

This is a very difficult thing, I believe long distance relationships can be made to work, but both of you should be happy about it. Good luck!

[MichaelIsCool]

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