Concern on Virginity for female

[Ricky.h]

I'm 17 and I've been known to be a man whore and get around a lot, and for some time a this girl who's 14 and a family friend (her parents are friends with my parents) has been flirting with me and begging me to do stuff with her. Since my girlfriend allows me to have sex with other girls today I took the girl's virginity!

I was really thinking with my dick and just as a man, because for a guy (for the most part) virginity is just something to lose, but for girls it is more special and sacred

So my question is :

Should I have taken her virginity?

Do you think there is a double standard in virginity for guys and girls?

When did you lose your virginity?

[Karkat]

Virginity isn't necessarily more "sacred" for girls. It is largely a social construct, honestly, and yes, the way society views virginity does put a double standard into place.

As far as 'whether or not you should've done it', that's not really my place to judge. If your girlfriend was aware and ok with this, and the girl was consenting, I see no problem, honestly.

[Ricky.h]

Virginity isn't necessarily more "sacred" for girls. It is largely a social construct, honestly, and yes, the way society views virginity does put a double standard into place.

As far as 'whether or not you should've done it', that's not really my place to judge. If your girlfriend was aware and ok with this, and the girl was consenting, I see no problem, honestly.

At the time I really wasn't thinking clear, but now thinking about it 14 is young

[Karkat]

At the time I really wasn't thinking clear, but now thinking about it 14 is young

14 isn't terrible, honestly. Most of the members on this site seem to have lost it before 15. It's her body, and her choice, and your choice as well. No reason to dwell on stupid mistakes, it's not like you raped her.

[Ricky.h]

14 isn't terrible, honestly. Most of the members on this site seem to have lost it before 15. It's her body, and her choice, and your choice as well. No reason to dwell on stupid mistakes, it's not like you raped her.

Thanks for the advice !

[Karkat]

Thanks for the advice !

No problem :)

[SillyShyGuy]

Virginity is very sacred in most cultures outside the United States and a woman should keep her chastity until they gets married. Fornication is still frowned upon in other countries. The fact that you have a girl friend and still laid with this other girl makes me confused.

[Ricky.h]

Virginity is very sacred in most cultures outside the United States and a woman should keep her chastity until they gets married. Fornication is still frowned upon in other countries. The fact that you have a girl friend and still laid with this other girl makes me confused.

My girlfriend allows me to sleep with other girls, because it's just sex as long as I'm not getting emotionally attached and going on dates etc it's ok . Like just having one night stands and things like that

[SillyShyGuy]

That is how my girlfriend cheated on me: she touched another guy on our one month anniversary and I broke up with her. You and your girlfriend have strange morals. Use protection.

[Ricky.h]

That is how my girlfriend cheated on me: she touched another guy on our one month anniversary and I broke up with her. You and your girlfriend have strange morals. Use protection.

She doesn't have sex with other guys though, it's just me and it works because all I'm doing is having sex with other girls and I let her know that instead of cheating...it works for us we have an open relationship well mostly me

[LitBlackRose]

Well for some girls it's something that they can keep close but really in the us and Europe it's really just a society standered. But that seems really young to lose it and she might regret it later if she finds one. It's up to her and you really

[Ricky.h]

Well for some girls it's something that they can keep close but really in the us and Europe it's really just a society standered. But that seems really young to lose it and she might regret it later if she finds one. It's up to her and you really

So what's your opinion in virginity ?

[LitBlackRose]

So what's your opinion in virginity ?

It's different for everyone so it's up to you and her

[AdrianField]

I dunno. I feel like if you take a girls virginity she should mean something to you.