Zach1702
July 5th, 2014, 06:12 PM
my closest best friend is moving away to Canada (I live in the uk)
Do any of you guys have any relation to this?
Yes I have 2 other close friends who are in our group thing, my relationship with them though is not nearly as established as it is with the guy who is leaving!
The last time a best friend of mine moved to a different country (Sweden) it took about two years for me to fully recover and in that time I made such a bad reputation for myself.
Yes I know I will probably be as miserable as hell for a couple of weeks but I don't want it to last for two years!
Any advise?
Thank you
Melodic
July 5th, 2014, 07:02 PM
Living in a sucky town, I have had a fair share of friends moving here and there .
Best thing to do is keep in contact with that friend, while building a new group with your other friends!
Dennis98
July 5th, 2014, 07:23 PM
You must continue your life as usual ... Just dont think about your friend .... I know that it is hard , but you must continue to live. ... I know that it is hard , I "suffered" ( although I didnt suffer anything special ) friend loss about 1.5 year ago ... My best friend ( we were friends since my 3 year ) , died in car accident ... He was driving motorcycle on his side ( he was very careful in traffic ) but some truck tried to overtake some car , and that truck suddenly moved to right side and hit my friend ... My fiend died instantly ( people said that truck cut his body on two parts ) , so accident was big , but truck driver was guilty because he was drunk ... I didnt feel anything because of my psychic condition ( I am psychopath ) , so as cold-blood peron I can not feel or suffer any losses in my life ( good side of psychopaths ) , like "normal" ( although I am not retarded or crazy ) people can ... So , I can not describe you my feelings , because I dont have it , not just for me , but for everyone ... So , I think that your friend moving to another city is not some special loss , he/she is still ALIVE ... So , that is most important .. And yeah , I dont know why are you said that you need some recover after that ( I can not understand because of my psychic condition ) , you still have FB , Skype , Viber , Whatsapp and other social services ...
As human beings , we are here to do life "mission" because we are born , and so , we live and die ... - my view of life
And yeah , I can not give you any advise about this , you must think alone about life and your friend "loss" , because life is too short , we dont live forever and in every point of your life you will have loses ( on every side ) , and you must learn life deffinition , so you can "survive" in this live on truth way , without big emotions and suffering , because , remember , we are here only to do some "mission" and after that we dissapear on same way we are born , quietly and slowly ....
-If you dont have life ship , than swim !! Success is matter of attitude ... - that was I talked about , you must build your life "ship" in your head , so you can survive . If you dont , you will have to swim , so basicly you will suffer much more in life , because you didnt build your own life "ship" , life salvation ship ....
-You can not choose how are and where you going to die . One is sure , you can choose how are you going to live ....
-If you want rainbow in your life , you must reconcil with rain ...
-While I was thinking about past and dream about future , I didnt notice that wounderful present time , passed next to me ...
Theese are my lifetime messages for you , you can acept or refuse them .... If you acept them , you acepted really hard life principles , although you may not understand them on begining ... To understand them you must think every day about them , and one day you will surely understand them , from that day , you are going to understand sense of your life or you can builded your "lifetime" ship on time ... If you refuse them , nothing special ... Than , you are person that think about future and past , but not about present ... Some people says that future is way of understanding life , I know that they are wrong , only way of understanding life is present and nothing more ... Never think much about past , past is not much important , but you can orient in past how to avoid bad things ... And never think too much about future , because it is unknown and uncertain , because you never know what brings day or what brings night . Dont understand me wrong , I didnt say that you should never think about past and future , no . I said that you should not think too much about them , because, your wonderful present time is going to pass next to you ... On the end , If you refuse thoose messages , you will probabbly understand them in some late point of your life , but it will be too late for building lifetime " ship " ....
Reagrds ....
JamesSuperBoy
July 5th, 2014, 08:19 PM
For one ry and make time for some time or treat together - organise how you can stay in touch - and you can build new friendships.
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