I'm confused and need help "kissing"

[greenstar]

So the other day, i was with my girl friend and we were swimming with her family. And we were making out here and there when all of a sudden she goes and kisses one of her cousins on the lips. And i freaked out so much like what in the world did you just do.It bothered me so much because its something i have always found so nasty and dirty. I consider it incest. After she kissed her cousin she comes and kisses me and i felt a horrible sensation. Like she told me i was her first kiss but technically i think it was a lie because no matter who it is, a kiss is a kiss. I just find it really dirty and even after we talked about this situation,it still bothers me so much. What should i do? :confused::confused::confused:

[drunkbanana]

Well , in Greece people kiss each other instad of a handshake to greet them , only in the cheek . I guess its something that she and her cousin do from a long time ago when they started experimenting and they keep doing it . Now if it bothers you really much you should talk to her and express your upset feelings .

[Living For Love]

It's just a kiss on the lips, even mothers sometime kiss their babies gently on the lips, it's not a big deal. If they're comfortable with it, and if they've been doing it for a long time, I don't think she would like you to just tell her to stop or say that it's not correct. Maybe just tell her that you would appreciate if she didn't do it in your presence, or, since you're now dating, you think they shouldn't do it so often, but don't let it interfere in your relationship.

[Karkat]

It's just a kiss on the lips, even mothers sometime kiss their babies gently on the lips, it's not a big deal. If they're comfortable with it, and if they've been doing it for a long time, I don't think she would like you to just tell her to stop or say that it's not correct. Maybe just tell her that you would appreciate if she didn't do it in your presence, or, since you're now dating, you think they shouldn't do it so often, but don't let it interfere in your relationship.

Precisely. It's not as if she was having sex with him or anything- that would definitely be incest.

In some places/cultures, it's common to kiss people you're close to on the lips, and seeing as she did it in front of you, she obviously thought nothing of it.

[CharlieHorse]

And i freaked out so much like what in the world did you just do.It bothered me so much because its something i have always found so nasty and dirty. I consider it incest.

Time to make some decisions! :D
This next question is for 25,000 dollars.
(lights dim and sweep down)

Alright, the next question is, what will you do?
A. Get over it, it's just a kiss.
B. Don't get over it, and let yourself make it a huge problem in your relationship.
C. Kiss her cousin