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AllTimeLoser
July 4th, 2014, 08:32 PM
I hadn't cut since Wednesday... on Thursday my bf dumped me and today, Friday night, I cut again... I still am and I cant stop, somebody please..

Dark_Desires
July 4th, 2014, 09:29 PM
That really sucks that He dumped you and i know how you feel i was the same after my ex dumped me.But cutting because someone dumped you is not worth it trust me i have been there.You may feel like hell now but time will heal things and it will get Better.

Cutting is a temporary solution and in the long run it won't help but it may for a short time.

If you can't stop Try to distract yourself by Listening to Music or going for a Run or doing something outside or hanging out with a friend or family even if its something as boring as watching tv just anything to distract yourself.

I'm sorry if my advice isn't that Great but most of it is what i wish i said to myself when i when't through the same kinda situation.Good Luck hope its works out and if you ever need do talk i'm here and things do get Better :hug:

AllTimeLoser
July 5th, 2014, 04:46 AM
That really sucks He dumped you and i know how you feel i was the same after my ex dumped me.But cutting because someone dumped you is not worth it trust i have been there.You may feel like hell now but time will heal things and it will get Better.

Cutting is a temporary solution and in the long run it won't help but it may for a short time.

If you can't stop Try to distract yourself by Listening to Music or going for a Run or doing something outside or hanging out with a friend or family even if its something as boring as watching tv just anything to distract yourself.

I'm sorry if my advice isn't that Great but most of it is what i wish i said to myself when i when't through the same kinda situation.Good Luck hope its works out and if you ever need do talk i'm here and things to get Better :hug:

thank you...

diddykong53
July 11th, 2014, 09:21 PM
You'll be OK :) almost there :)

shiney00100
July 14th, 2014, 02:25 AM
Hey sweetheart. First things first. If he is going to leave you because you self harm, then he needs to get his dick turned into a vagina for being a little bitch. He should love and care for you more, and encourage you to stop self harming, and be happy with him. Not leave you to do whatever your mind happens to lead you to. i would know about this... so many of my boyfriends have done this. it will be okay. Show him that you're happier without him, and that him leaving, was the best thing for you. He will try to come back to you, but don't you let him. you're way too good for him. Trust me on this. now, if you need someone to talk to, i will always be here, or if you have a kik, kik me at shiney00100. okay?? stay strong babygirl. <3

beverley
July 21st, 2014, 03:29 AM
you shouldn't do that.. after all if he never thinked about you why you are doing this bad thing... they never understand you.. just flush him from your life.. make a new morning every thing going good.. one day a person said me that his g.f dumped him... but now he is happy.. because some come to his life.. who love him alot.. so dont cry for the person who never understand you

CrazyPerson101
July 21st, 2014, 09:24 AM
I hadn't cut since Wednesday... on Thursday my bf dumped me and today, Friday night, I cut again... I still am and I cant stop, somebody please..

Hey sweetheart. First things first. If he is going to leave you because you self harm, then he needs to get his dick turned into a vagina for being a little bitch. He should love and care for you more, and encourage you to stop self harming, and be happy with him. Not leave you to do whatever your mind happens to lead you to. i would know about this... so many of my boyfriends have done this. it will be okay. Show him that you're happier without him, and that him leaving, was the best thing for you. He will try to come back to you, but don't you let him. you're way too good for him. Trust me on this. now, if you need someone to talk to, i will always be here, or if you have a kik, kik me at shiney00100. okay?? stay strong babygirl. <3


I agree with shiney00100 all the way, If he can't see you for you & didn't and or won't help you by encouraging you to quit, then it's his loss. Im sure that you're a awesome person once someone get's to know you so go find another person.... Through life, you will have to kiss alot of frogs untill you find your prince. Hope this helped

AllTimeLoser
August 7th, 2014, 05:25 PM
I agree with shiney00100 all the way, If he can't see you for you & didn't and or won't help you by encouraging you to quit, then it's his loss. Im sure that you're a awesome person once someone get's to know you so go find another person.... Through life, you will have to kiss alot of frogs untill you find your prince. Hope this helped

thanks it really did help

MatiasKun
August 14th, 2014, 03:48 PM
Just think that whatever happens you will get over it, your are not the first person geting dumped and u wont be the last one. think that everybody has gone through it and cutting is not the best solution