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PinkFloyd
July 3rd, 2014, 12:12 PM
I have a friend named Oleg. he has a crush on his close friend Hanna, and she knows it. She has more than once told him that she sees them as only friends and would like to keep it that way.

This is where I come in. Yesterday, we were hanging out at my friend Chris' house. It was me, Chris, Oleg, Hanna, and Chris' girlfriend Bri. Hanna was making subtle flirty hints towards me and I was not acknowledging them for two reasons. One is because I have a girlfriend and I don't cheat. Two is I honestly wasn't sure. When we were all watching netflix, Hanna went over to me and sat on my lap. Literally just sat down on my junk like it's nothing. I didn't do anything about it because I was tired and didn't want to deal with it. The next morning, (today) Bri, being the straight forward person she is, told me that Hanna wants me badly. I really do feel bad about all of this.

So here's Oleg, this guy who has a crush on a girl who has a crush on a guy who is off limits. I overall just feel bad for Oleg and needed to get that out.

Freckles
July 3rd, 2014, 12:24 PM
I would tell Hannah how you feel and that she's hurting Oleg's feelings by her passes. If she doesn't care she isn't much of a friend to either of you.

Horatio Nelson
July 3rd, 2014, 12:38 PM
Damn, I wish I had girls wanting to sit on my lap...

But seriously, I think you should tell this girl your situation and why you can't be with her, and give a little hint about your friend liking her.

CrazyPerson101
July 4th, 2014, 04:08 PM
I have a friend named Oleg. he has a crush on his close friend Hanna, and she knows it. She has more than once told him that she sees them as only friends and would like to keep it that way.

This is where I come in. Yesterday, we were hanging out at my friend Chris' house. It was me, Chris, Oleg, Hanna, and Chris' girlfriend Bri. Hanna was making subtle flirty hints towards me and I was not acknowledging them for two reasons. One is because I have a girlfriend and I don't cheat. Two is I honestly wasn't sure. When we were all watching netflix, Hanna went over to me and sat on my lap. Literally just sat down on my junk like it's nothing. I didn't do anything about it because I was tired and didn't want to deal with it. The next morning, (today) Bri, being the straight forward person she is, told me that Hanna wants me badly. I really do feel bad about all of this.

So here's Oleg, this guy who has a crush on a girl who has a crush on a guy who is off limits. I overall just feel bad for Oleg and needed to get that out.

I would tell Hannah how you feel and that she's hurting Oleg's feelings by her passes. If she doesn't care she isn't much of a friend to either of you.

I agree ^^