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Remora
July 3rd, 2014, 11:41 AM
I'm really scared, i don't know why, and i kind of feel like showing it off, but, laws...

so anyways, i'm 14, was born on the eleventh of September in 1999 (yes, my grandfather rushed in on my second birthday and told us to turn on the television, it was a fun birthday), am 6 feet tall, weigh 160 pounds and, let's get straight to the point, my penis is 7.2 inches long with a girth of 5.5 inches when erect. I'm only 14! Besides, when flaccid it is only about 2 inches with a girth of 2 inches, too. It's a complete METAMORPHOSIS and it just freaks me out!
I only found out two days ago, but it's such a big impact on my life already, it both gives me a burst of confidence but also makes me feel like i am (have) a monster inside(down there).

This doesn't effect my ability to ejaculate though. I mean, it doesn't change it for the better(?), it's just one big glob of semen, but this might be because i spend way too much time masturbating... heh.

I eat healthy, i live healthy and whilst i have a slow digestion system or whatever it is that makes you store more fat, i'm relatively athletic. I exercise, all that shizzle, fitness twice a week and play badminton...

I don't know why i supplied all those details. I thought they might help you guys answering my question;
Is this normal? It doesn't seem normal. It's definitely not normal for me, at least. I'm scared. I shouldn't be scared, should i? Others would be happy and are yelling "ignorant bastard" at me right now trough their screens.

TL;DR i have relatively big genitals and am only 14 years old, is this normal?

crazyBoyjJ
July 3rd, 2014, 11:53 AM
Why the hell are you scared u should be happy with what u got. Girls luv big dicks so stop freaking out. And be HAPPY!!!!

Remora
July 3rd, 2014, 11:55 AM
Why the hell are you scared u should be happy with what u got. Girls luv big dicks so stop freaking out. And be HAPPY!!!!

1. because i'm only 14 D: that thing is as long as the tip of my middle finger to the bottom of my palm
2. girls aren't so much my audience :C
3. I AM TRYING NOT TO FREAK OUT

thanks for the reply though C:

Devillain
July 3rd, 2014, 11:58 AM
You are totally normal. You can feel yourself lucky to be gifted with this size at age 14. Your flaccid size will probably grow, and remember, you could simply use this difference to positively suprise others.😀

Remora
July 3rd, 2014, 12:01 PM
You are totally normal. You can feel yourself lucky to be gifted with this size at age 14. Your flaccid size will probably grow, and remember, you could simply use this difference to positively suprise others.😀

heh, positively surprising people... that sounds really good though ;_; I don't feel gifted this much because my brother and father are pretty big too (don't ask me how i found out)

crazyBoyjJ
July 3rd, 2014, 12:02 PM
1. because i'm only 14 D: that thing is as long as the tip of my middle finger to the bottom of my palm
2. girls aren't so much my audience :C
3. I AM TRYING NOT TO FREAK OUT

thanks for the reply though C:

U shouldn't be worried. OK I'm 15 and 6.5-7" (PS. Never measured lately) and I'm just thank full its OK. U don't have to study the average shit. Ur u and be gr8tfull

Remora
July 3rd, 2014, 12:10 PM
U shouldn't be worried. OK I'm 15 and 6.5-7" (PS. Never measured lately) and I'm just thank full its OK. U don't have to study the average shit. Ur u and be gr8tfull

I'm just scared of what others might think, and i'm pretty sure others on these forums have been thinking i were lying (i mean i thought people that were 15 and 7"+ were lying before i found out about myself)

crazyBoyjJ
July 3rd, 2014, 12:17 PM
I'm just scared of what others might think, and i'm pretty sure others on these forums have been thinking i were lying (i mean i thought people that were 15 and 7"+ were lying before i found out about myself)

Then I guess u should keep it to urself and not talk about it much. Ppl will think ur showing off. Talk to someone about it who u can trust.

fast8
July 3rd, 2014, 02:58 PM
Your fine don't worry about it some guys grow bigger then others some start growing penis first and fast then it stops so it maybe done growing or may not be

Tyler97
July 3rd, 2014, 04:24 PM
don't worry you probably hit puberty earlier than most and your growing is nearly over. Most guys would love to have a large penis, but I agree too big can be a problem, but I wouldn't worry.

LokaChris
July 3rd, 2014, 04:36 PM
Just cz its big dsnt mean youll be good in bed(and its doesnt mean youll be bad either)just dont get cocky{punn not intended}

(just a word to the wise)

And to answer ur question,, youre pretty lucky and nothing to be conserned about

itsthat0n3kid
July 3rd, 2014, 06:06 PM
dude thats completely normal. you are probably just an early bloomer.

Hermes
July 3rd, 2014, 07:00 PM
That will be above average for a 14 y/o but people vary both in their final size and exactly when and how fast they develop and I am sure that is within the bound of normal.

Remora
July 3rd, 2014, 11:44 PM
Your fine don't worry about it some guys grow bigger then others some start growing penis first and fast then it stops so it maybe done growing or may not beI'm still growing in length, and *only* 6 feet tall, which is small compared to the other men in my family.

don't worry you probably hit puberty earlier than most and your growing is nearly over. Most guys would love to have a large penis, but I agree too big can be a problem, but I wouldn't worry.
I know i'm an early bloomer but i'm not going to stop yet :( im only in pfanner stage 4.

Just cz its big dsnt mean youll be good in bed(and its doesnt mean youll be bad either)just dont get cocky{punn not intended}

(just a word to the wise)

And to answer ur question,, youre pretty lucky and nothing to be conserned abouti know! i should be happy, too. but i did get cocky, that is, nearly murdering someone for harassing a friend.

dude thats completely normal. you are probably just an early bloomer.
I know, i am, i'm in pfanner stage 4 when 14 but it just... its not supposed to happen xD

That will be above average for a 14 y/o but people vary both in their final size and exactly when and how fast they develop and I am sure that is within the bound of normal.
it's above average for an adult male, that's why it scares me.

Thanks for all the replies though! ^^

fast8
July 4th, 2014, 12:30 AM
You will be fine your body will most likely grow in to

Remora
July 4th, 2014, 07:22 AM
You will be fine your body will most likely grow in to

Grow into what? D: You left the sentence unfinished and now i'm even more scared because you could have had a heart attack and somehow hit alt+s or pressed "Submit Reply" but you probably just forgot something ;_;

it would help alot if i could actually put it to use, heheh

NeuroTiger
July 4th, 2014, 07:58 AM
That's a big thing down there for a 14 year old cat! Lol! :P
Indeed it's big but no need to be scared...just take good care of it ;)

Remora
July 4th, 2014, 10:09 AM
That's a big thing down there for a 14 year old cat! Lol! :P
Indeed it's big but no need to be scared...just take good care of it ;)

I am taking good care of it ^^ (if you know what i mean huehuehue) but why shouldn't i be scared? I mean, it can hurt others, it's just inconvenient at times and hell, it hurts me too when i'm having a spontaneous erection in school ( i have those D: )

itsthat0n3kid
July 4th, 2014, 12:50 PM
I'm still growing in length, and *only* 6 feet tall, which is small compared to the other men in my family.


I know i'm an early bloomer but i'm not going to stop yet :( im only in pfanner stage 4.

i know! i should be happy, too. but i did get cocky, that is, nearly murdering someone for harassing a friend.


I know, i am, i'm in pfanner stage 4 when 14 but it just... its not supposed to happen xD


it's above average for an adult male, that's why it scares me.

Thanks for all the replies though! ^^

who says its not supposed to happen? everyone grows at different paces and in their own ways, one guy could finish growing at 14 while another doesnt finish until he is in his early 20s. All in retrospect, my friend.

CrazyPerson101
July 4th, 2014, 01:04 PM
^^ I agree floof, Everyone grows at different rates & sizes, Im 7 hard and im 15 ( started puberty at 11 ) and genetics play a big role in the family. Be glad whatcha get and don't throw a fit is what I say :)

Remora
July 4th, 2014, 01:12 PM
who says its not supposed to happen? everyone grows at different paces and in their own ways, one guy could finish growing at 14 while another doesnt finish until he is in his early 20s. All in retrospect, my friend.

Well, i sure hope it ends soon (okay i really don't but still) as i'm already in pfanner stage 4 C:

^^ I agree floof, Everyone grows at different rates & sizes, Im 7 hard and im 15 ( started puberty at 11 ) and genetics play a big role in the family. Be glad whatcha get and don't throw a fit is what I say :)

i am glad! i'm kind of beginning to like what i have down there, hehe... but yeah, thanks.

CrazyPerson101
July 4th, 2014, 01:19 PM
i am glad! i'm kind of beginning to like what i have down there, hehe... but yeah, thanks.[/QUOTE]


You're welcome :D

drunkbanana
July 4th, 2014, 01:28 PM
Dude first calm down . Its all in natural . Penis size changes 'till you're 21 . That doesn't mean it will go steadily , e.g. 1 cm per year or whatever . You can have that size of penis now , and propably it won't change for a lot of time , or you can have a 10cm penis till you're 18 and by going 19 you will have 16cm penis .

Remora
July 4th, 2014, 01:34 PM
You're welcome :D

No, really, all these positive replies are doing a great deal of work ^.^

CrazyPerson101
July 4th, 2014, 01:36 PM
No, really, all these positive replies are doing a great deal of work ^.^

Well thats great :D Im Happy that you're happy

Remora
July 4th, 2014, 01:42 PM
Dude first calm down . Its all in natural . Penis size changes 'till you're 21 . That doesn't mean it will go steadily , e.g. 1 cm per year or whatever . You can have that size of penis now , and propably it won't change for a lot of time , or you can have a 10cm penis till you're 18 and by going 19 you will have 16cm penis .

But i already have a 18-19cmish penis D; And i'm 14! that's the whole point. I think you misunderstood, i was talking in inches hehe

drunkbanana
July 5th, 2014, 02:58 AM
Well propably it won't grow any more .

NeuroTiger
July 5th, 2014, 03:17 AM
I am taking good care of it ^^ (if you know what i mean huehuehue) but why shouldn't i be scared? I mean, it can hurt others, it's just inconvenient at times and hell, it hurts me too when i'm having a spontaneous erection in school ( i have those D: )

Bear with it, dude. It's part of the price to pay to own a penis ;)
What kind of underwear do you wear?
I don't think you'll hurt others with it...

Remora
July 5th, 2014, 03:50 AM
Well propably it won't grow any more .

Well, i -am- still growing in length so i'm still in puberty, so i think it'll keep growing :0

Bear with it, dude. It's part of the price to pay to own a penis ;)
What kind of underwear do you wear?
I don't think you'll hurt others with it...

Hehe... i wear boxer briefs mostly, i have a single brief that i never touch and 30+ pairs of boxer briefs haha

ksdnfkfr
July 5th, 2014, 03:57 AM
being 6 feet tall and having a 7 inch penis doesn't sound the least bit out of proportion to me. Now I'm almost 14 and only 5 feet tall, so if I had a 7 incher, that would be too big. But for you it sounds normal.

CassnovA
July 5th, 2014, 03:59 AM
end of the day averages are a middle ground. 7 isnt uncommom just like 5 isnt (people just dont brag about that one). be happy youre above average, but theres nothing wrong.

Remora
July 5th, 2014, 04:14 AM
being 6 feet tall and having a 7 inch penis doesn't sound the least bit out of proportion to me. Now I'm almost 14 and only 5 feet tall, so if I had a 7 incher, that would be too big. But for you it sounds normal.

Okay, that makes sense...

end of the day averages are a middle ground. 7 isnt uncommom just like 5 isnt (people just dont brag about that one). be happy youre above average, but theres nothing wrong.

You're right about the averages u v u and i guess it's okay, yeah.

thank for the replies guys, really appreciate it!

NeuroTiger
July 5th, 2014, 04:23 AM
Hehe... i wear boxer briefs mostly, i have a single brief that i never touch and 30+ pairs of boxer briefs haha

Great! Boxer briefs are much better and more comfortable than briefs...
Don't wear tight jeans or clothes...

herokidd
July 5th, 2014, 05:29 AM
Just be glad with your endowment :)) I know I am

Remora
July 5th, 2014, 02:10 PM
Just be glad with your endowment :)) I know I am

I slowly but surely am learning to... C:

Great! Boxer briefs are much better and more comfortable than briefs...
Don't wear tight jeans or clothes...

How about boxers? They're like "commando shorts", right?

jmw99
July 5th, 2014, 02:16 PM
im 15 and only 6 inches and im fine with that. you are well endowed and just be happy about it.

Remora
July 5th, 2014, 04:12 PM
im 15 and only 6 inches and im fine with that. you are well endowed and just be happy about it.

hehe, i guess i am.. just a little happy ^.^ als i added endowed to my vocabularmtbjy hnu

deregisterme
July 5th, 2014, 04:21 PM
I'm really scared, i don't know why, and i kind of feel like showing it off, but, laws...

so anyways, i'm 14, was born on the eleventh of September in 1999 (yes, my grandfather rushed in on my second birthday and told us to turn on the television, it was a fun birthday), am 6 feet tall, weigh 160 pounds and, let's get straight to the point, my penis is 7.2 inches long with a girth of 5.5 inches when erect. I'm only 14! Besides, when flaccid it is only about 2 inches with a girth of 2 inches, too. It's a complete METAMORPHOSIS and it just freaks me out!
I only found out two days ago, but it's such a big impact on my life already, it both gives me a burst of confidence but also makes me feel like i am (have) a monster inside(down there).

This doesn't effect my ability to ejaculate though. I mean, it doesn't change it for the better(?), it's just one big glob of semen, but this might be because i spend way too much time masturbating... heh.

I eat healthy, i live healthy and whilst i have a slow digestion system or whatever it is that makes you store more fat, i'm relatively athletic. I exercise, all that shizzle, fitness twice a week and play badminton...

I don't know why i supplied all those details. I thought they might help you guys answering my question;
Is this normal? It doesn't seem normal. It's definitely not normal for me, at least. I'm scared. I shouldn't be scared, should i? Others would be happy and are yelling "ignorant bastard" at me right now trough their screens.

TL;DR i have relatively big genitals and am only 14 years old, is this normal?

Sounds like you've just developed quite early. going from a small to a large size soft to erect just means you're a "grower". Some people are "showers" (when they don't change in size soft to hard). I hit puberty early (boners at 10, am 6 inches hard now and haven't really changed much in the last few years. I had a growth spurt early, though am only 5 feet 5 inches (similar height to parents), then watched as my peers grew making me feel short now! I can't tell if you're just done early or if you will still change, but there's nothing wrong with your height or size.

Remora
July 6th, 2014, 11:35 AM
Sounds like you've just developed quite early. going from a small to a large size soft to erect just means you're a "grower". Some people are "showers" (when they don't change in size soft to hard). I hit puberty early (boners at 10, am 6 inches hard now and haven't really changed much in the last few years. I had a growth spurt early, though am only 5 feet 5 inches (similar height to parents), then watched as my peers grew making me feel short now! I can't tell if you're just done early or if you will still change, but there's nothing wrong with your height or size.

oh! thanks c: i knew about the grower and shower bit but still thought a difference that big was insane.

NeuroTiger
July 6th, 2014, 12:58 PM
How about boxers? They're like "commando shorts", right?

Yeah...but I don't find them comfortable especially if you need to walk fast or run,
It's like the motion of a pendulum (iykwim)

Remora
July 6th, 2014, 01:54 PM
Yeah...but I don't find them comfortable especially if you need to walk fast or run,
It's like the motion of a pendulum (iykwim)

Good point. I cannot stand my balls going everywhere ;(

eggs2006
July 6th, 2014, 02:57 PM
heh, positively surprising people... that sounds really good though ;_; I don't feel gifted this much because my brother and father are pretty big too (don't ask me how i found out)

How did you find out?

end of the day averages are a middle ground. 7 isnt uncommom just like 5 isnt (people just dont brag about that one). be happy youre above average, but theres nothing wrong.

Smartest way to look at it.

Posts merged. Next time please use the "Edit" or "Multi" button. ~Hannah

Remora
July 6th, 2014, 11:33 PM
How did you find out?

My brother doesn't give a damn and just walks around naked at times, whereas my father uses tbe bathroom with the door wide open, hehe

NeuroTiger
July 7th, 2014, 02:09 AM
Good point. I cannot stand my balls going everywhere ;(

Yeah...same here.

hockeyfan
July 7th, 2014, 02:36 AM
Plz pull urself together. At 15 yrs of age and only six inches hard in a sec I might need some comferting myself....lol

Remora
July 7th, 2014, 02:35 PM
Yeah...same here.

So you just don't wear boxers? D:

Plz pull urself together. At 15 yrs of age and only six inches hard in a sec I might need some comferting myself....lol

I don't understand you, what do you mean? u v u

Cloud_Strife
July 7th, 2014, 03:31 PM
Is this normal? It doesn't seem normal. It's definitely not normal for me, at least. I'm scared. I shouldn't be scared, should i? Others would be happy and are yelling "ignorant bastard" at me right now trough their screens.

TL;DR i have relatively big genitals and am only 14 years old, is this normal?

Hi Simon,

Just wanted to say that it is only one aspect of you. Don't become too fixated upon what is only one part of you - in this case, certainly not what people would usually use as a defining point of another person. When one becomes too preoccupied with one thing, it is often to the detriment of neglecting other more important things which are present.

So while it is certainly a good thing in that it provides you with a lot of self esteem and confidence, don't forget to focus on the other pertinent characteristics which define you as a person to other people. Realising this will probably make you a far happier person, I think.

Hope that helps. Take care mate.

Remora
July 7th, 2014, 04:17 PM
Hi Simon,

Just wanted to say that it is only one aspect of you. Don't become too fixated upon what is only one part of you - in this case, certainly not what people would usually use as a defining point of another person. When one becomes too preoccupied with one thing, it is often to the detriment of neglecting other more important things which are present.

So while it is certainly a good thing in that it provides you with a lot of self esteem and confidence, don't forget to focus on the other pertinent characteristics which define you as a person to other people. Realising this will probably make you a far happier person, I think.

Hope that helps. Take care mate.

holy poop, thanks! yeah.. i was getting a bit off on the other important functions in my life c:

NeuroTiger
July 9th, 2014, 12:30 AM
So you just don't wear boxers? D:



No boxers...but boxer briefs and briefs...

Remora
July 9th, 2014, 04:54 PM
No boxers...but boxer briefs and briefs...

Could you layer them? Wearing briefs under them and boxers over them? Doesn't that defeat the whole purpose and only make it tighter?

Bump as i'm still experiencing this as an issue... ehm, again.

nascar_alex
August 6th, 2014, 01:17 PM
No need to be scared instead be proud

Remora
August 6th, 2014, 01:45 PM
No need to be scared instead be proud

carry my bulge with proud? if i've got it, flaunt it? D:

deregisterme
August 6th, 2014, 03:48 PM
Bump as i'm still experiencing this as an issue... ehm, again.

you're fine. Has much changed recently?

Sean4U
August 8th, 2014, 10:56 AM
I am taking good care of it ^^ (if you know what i mean huehuehue) but why shouldn't i be scared? I mean, it can hurt others, it's just inconvenient at times and hell, it hurts me too when i'm having a spontaneous erection in school ( i have those D: )

Not sure what you mean by "hurt others." I'm 17, about 7" and my brother is 19 and is 9". Both of us were the same size when we were about 15. Trust me, like all parts of your body things hit a ceiling and stop growing. Remember, if you're straight, even guys that are "average at 5.5" only can enter a girl about 3". You're not going to go beyond what she will be able to take. If you're gay, well not going there :yeah: Just relax Floof and let nature take its' corse, it won't fail you.

Your Captain
August 10th, 2014, 06:22 PM
Don't be scared. You just started going through puberty earlier than others. Also its interesting that your penis grows 5 inches longer when getting a boner

Remora
August 11th, 2014, 12:17 AM
Don't be scared. You just started going through puberty earlier than others. Also its interesting that your penis grows 5 inches longer when getting a boner

Yeah, it's like a metamorphosis...

MatiasKun
August 11th, 2014, 03:30 PM
just thank god, you were blessed .

football matt
September 8th, 2014, 09:56 AM
If I was u I'd be happy lol

Semi_IronMan
September 15th, 2014, 04:28 AM
1. because i'm only 14 D: that thing is as long as the tip of my middle finger to the bottom of my palm
2. girls aren't so much my audience :C
3. I AM TRYING NOT TO FREAK OUT

thanks for the reply though C:

are you gay?

Remora
September 15th, 2014, 08:26 AM
are you gay?

i was kind of done with this thread, i'm sorry :$ but i'm not sure about my sexuality, and i don't want to choose yet- and i don't have to choose yet either because i'm still in puberty, all i was saying was that i feel that relationships seem a bit far away and i wanted to avoid them :c

Ben_Frost
September 15th, 2014, 08:43 AM
Looks like you got a productive pituitary gland. You've got good genitals... err, genetics I mean.

Remora
September 15th, 2014, 08:46 AM
this is what's going to happen, everyone is going to keep posting because some random guy decided to bump it, far as i know i'm not even allowed to post on the puberty for boys forum anymore because i set my gender to Neutral.

Zachary G
September 15th, 2014, 12:22 PM
dude, you are stressing about something that you have no control over at all, so there is nothing at all to be afraid of. its called genetics and its just a part of life that you have grown the way you have, so be happy and secure with who you are and call it a day.

RecklesslyMe
September 16th, 2014, 02:39 AM
Ok I'm calling BS. Youre way too literate for a 14 year old.

Catholic Guy
September 16th, 2014, 08:54 AM
You shouldn't feel scared, proud but not scared and you don't need to show it off, you can if you want but depending on how you do it, it might not end well, just be proud of it and use the confidence boosts it gives you

Remora
September 16th, 2014, 01:49 PM
Ok I'm calling BS. Youre way too literate for a 14 year old.

It's called autism. Besides, i'm 15 now :c

Neverender
September 16th, 2014, 02:27 PM
Ok I'm calling BS. Youre way too literate for a 14 year old.

When I was 14 I was reading World History books and the works of Christopher Hitchens. Don't dare challenge the intelligence of young men and women, and certainly not their grammar.

i was kind of done with this thread, i'm sorry :$ but i'm not sure about my sexuality, and i don't want to choose yet- and i don't have to choose yet either because i'm still in puberty, all i was saying was that i feel that relationships seem a bit far away and i wanted to avoid them :c
I can sort of understand your fear. It certainly depends on where you live as well.

But you should keep in mind that no one really cares if you do come out as gay or bi and then switch that decision. It's being human. Everyone will have forgotten anyways within a few years, if they bother to remember it at all. You don't have to choose anything, you just need to go with your basic feelings. Once you do come out or get older and realize how much you fret over so little. I think we all do it


Of course, at age 15 while still in high school, you would be a bit more tentative of dealing with the swarms of youngsters you go to school with every day

Jaseblader
September 16th, 2014, 04:08 PM
1. because i'm only 14 D: that thing is as long as the tip of my middle finger to the bottom of my palm
2. girls aren't so much my audience :C
3. I AM TRYING NOT TO FREAK OUT

thanks for the reply though C:

I'm really scared, i don't know why, and i kind of feel like showing it off, but, laws...

so anyways, i'm 14, was born on the eleventh of September in 1999 (yes, my grandfather rushed in on my second birthday and told us to turn on the television, it was a fun birthday), am 6 feet tall, weigh 160 pounds and, let's get straight to the point, my penis is 7.2 inches long with a girth of 5.5 inches when erect. I'm only 14! Besides, when flaccid it is only about 2 inches with a girth of 2 inches, too. It's a complete METAMORPHOSIS and it just freaks me out!
I only found out two days ago, but it's such a big impact on my life already, it both gives me a burst of confidence but also makes me feel like i am (have) a monster inside(down there).

This doesn't effect my ability to ejaculate though. I mean, it doesn't change it for the better(?), it's just one big glob of semen, but this might be because i spend way too much time masturbating... heh.

I eat healthy, i live healthy and whilst i have a slow digestion system or whatever it is that makes you store more fat, i'm relatively athletic. I exercise, all that shizzle, fitness twice a week and play badminton...

I don't know why i supplied all those details. I thought they might help you guys answering my question;
Is this normal? It doesn't seem normal. It's definitely not normal for me, at least. I'm scared. I shouldn't be scared, should i? Others would be happy and are yelling "ignorant bastard" at me right now trough their screens.

TL;DR i have relatively big genitals and am only 14 years old, is this normal?

nah man don't be scared

thatboykevin
September 16th, 2014, 04:13 PM
haha, you're normal just you hit puberty early!

Zteenagedude
September 16th, 2014, 06:19 PM
Mine is about 5 inches and I am that age.

Luminous
September 17th, 2014, 01:06 PM
OP request. :locked: