lost our privacy

[ChaseDakoda]

my grandparents moved in for up to 3 months and they are in my twin and my bedroom we have hide a beds in den. When we think we are alone we are not. Jace and I were releaving our stress and grandpa walked in on us and explained we were commiting a sin. I know but we ......................if in shower too long grandma yells and tells us she knows what we are doing snd its a sin.

Told Doctor parents and we are to live with it because of there age so what are we do do? parents tell us a good time to stop for a while.


COMMENTS welcome

[gig-guy]

Maybe explain your situation to a friend, they might let you do it at their house. I know it sounds strange but if they're good friends they'll let you. Desperate times call for desperate measures!

[wfms]

Not truly sure what to tell you man. Your best option is try to get them out of the house to go shopping etc and while they are gone you do your thing.
hope this helps

[hockeyfan]

Surly to God they go out of the house.

How about a trip to the bathroom late at night when everyone's sleeping?

I think it's great that ur so open with ur parents that u would just be like when the fuck can I jack off.

BTW, wat religion r u?

[ChaseDakoda]

Surly to God they go out of the house.

How about a trip to the bathroom late at night when everyone's sleeping?

I think it's great that ur so open with ur parents that u would just be like when the fuck can I jack off.

BTW, wat religion r u?

Cathlic and it is a sin, but if I were luthern it is ok:mad:

[Catholic Guy]

Just tell them you are going to a friends house for something and then find a hidden place in a forest or something and do it there

[Curious.kid]

Cathlic and it is a sin, but if I were luthern it is ok:mad:

I've been through the same thing but with my parents but really my mom not wanting me to masturbate at all. I lasted 10 days until I couldnt handle the feeling any more. It sounds like they have you trapped! And their watching you like a hawk in the shower. Did your grandpa tell you that you could finish when he caught you?

[nklarke]

Tell your grandpa that he did it when he was younger.

[ChaseDakoda]

I got pissed and I told grandpa that I could have SEX with at least 8 girls but because of my faith I don't. But masturbating takes the stress away from having sex so you decide. have sex or leave me masturbate??

[Bull]

I got pissed and I told grandpa that I could have SEX with at least 8 girls but because of my faith I don't. But masturbating takes the stress away from having sex so you decide. have sex or leave me masturbate??

Good for you! And, I don't think it is just Catholic dogma that masturbation is a sin, but the Bible is silent on masturbation, and the Bible teaches us that God forgives sin, so there you are, a sinner saved by grace who has decided to relieve his sexual nature in a way that does not include intercourse with a girl.

[jeans_kid]

Does it usually take a long time for you to jackoff? If it just takes a few minutes your grandma won't discover when you do it in shower... What did your grandpa say when you asked him whether you should have sex or masturbate??

[ChaseDakoda]

Your Dad and I will have a talk. Well Dad is for it

[fast8]

I do it any way nothing wrong with it

[Body odah Man]

Good luck man. I can't really comment to this because I rlly don't know if it is a sin or not. I've heard one thing, heard anohter

[bigp0599]

Go to a friends or just put of the house

[CrazyPerson101]

Good luck, I don't know if it is or not so I can't give you a honest answer ...

[ChaseDakoda]

I talked to parents and my bro and I can do it in evening in parents room or shower. That is our hour of private time and maybe longer I told parents that I want my freedom in my house or home and this is the stage of my life that I am developing and do you want me to wang bang thank you man and leave her? So Jace and I got at least 2 hours of private time.
grandma told dad we are going to hell, dad told her they go to confession and nothing of it.

[jeans_kid]

Wow, that's great! I'm sure 2 hours of private time is more than enough for you to do what you need to do. Have fun!

[ashdaniel]

Well, once thing u need to know is most elders are stubborn. First, you have to find somewhere else to do ur things and second check how long they will be there. If it is very long time. I guess you need to talk to your parent about the situation. I kind of understand ur situation but still talk to ur parents about the problem u are having.

[chrisawesome]

Do your parents have sex? Well then that's a sin too! If not that must be a boring life, I hope I'm never like that!

[Short Circuit]

At your age, your grandparents and even parents should not just be walking into your bedroom or shower room. Just tell them you need your space, just as they need their space

[Hermes]

To me it seems quite unreasonable for grandparents to arrive in your house as guests of your parents and start compaining about you masturbating. Perhaps you should tell them if they don't want to see it or have to think about it, they should give you some privacy and mind their own business.

[ChaseDakoda]

At your age, your grandparents and even parents should not just be walking into your bedroom or shower room. Just tell them you need your space, just as they need their space

My grandparents are useing my and my brothers bedroom and batrhroom. they stay 2 months with us every year since I was born. Last 2 years we survived but this year we are heavy into masturbation.

[loki2000]

sounds like your grandpa is not doing to let up.. thats so cool that you n your brother are so comfortable with each other that you can masterbate in the same room together... Think you two are going to have to find a save private place away from the house to go.. so you guys can beat off....Thats what i would do

[Connormann]

Well one, it's your damn choice. Politely tell them that whether or not you feel it is a sin, is their opinion. And that they should not interfere with your personal choices. They may be upset for a while, but they will get over it. And if they don't, you shouldn't care because if they don't care enough about you to let you make your own decisions, and not be prejudice then, forget about it, and do what you want. If they know, I can almost guarantee that your parents do too. If they don't being it to your attention that they don't want you doing it, then they want you to make your own decisions.

[Reg_]

Its not a sin in any way,shape, or form to jack-off your grandma is just overly religous no offence if any given

[Urban]

I do love how your parents are supportive about it, as well as having that open, healthy relationship with your doctor; it sets you up for in future when you have other problems to open up about. You could always do it when your grandparents aren't home, go over to a mate's house for it or simply making do to do it really quickly in the shower. It'll all be better when your grandparents leave, so it really won't be forever :)

[riverboy]

I think you have a very smart dad and you were able to find a solution. Another time would be to masturbate late at night.

[Brightwolf]

Why does everyone think masturbation is a sin!! No where in the Bible does it say you can't masturbate. The closest thing to it is the law that God gave to Moses saying that if you "spill your seed" (ejaculate) on the ground, you are unclean for a day! Porn, however, is a sin. But most people already know that.

Rant aside, I'm glad that your parents and you found a solution. I wish I could be that open to my parents!

[NateTheGreat]

Good for you! And, I don't think it is just Catholic dogma that masturbation is a sin, but the Bible is silent on masturbation, and the Bible teaches us that God forgives sin, so there you are, a sinner saved by grace who has decided to relieve his sexual nature in a way that does not include intercourse with a girl.

The official Catholic Church teaching on the matter is that:
\2352 By masturbation is to be understood the deliberate stimulation of the genital organs in order to derive sexual pleasure. "Both the Magisterium of the Church, in the course of a constant tradition, and the moral sense of the faithful have been in no doubt and have firmly maintained that masturbation is an intrinsically and gravely disordered action."138 "The deliberate use of the sexual faculty, for whatever reason, outside of marriage is essentially contrary to its purpose." For here sexual pleasure is sought outside of "the sexual relationship which is demanded by the moral order and in which the total meaning of mutual self-giving and human procreation in the context of true love is achieved."139Quote from the Catechism.

Essentially what all this means is that sex has two purposes like food. Sex has a unity and a procreative nature. (food has a taste and nutritional nature) Masturbation stops both natures. (Bulimia removes the nutritional nature of food and that is why it is disordered (Not saying bulimia is a sin just comparing two things that have two natures that can be misused)). Sex should be procreative and unitive.

[Bull]

The official Catholic Church teaching on the matter is that:
\Quote from the Catechism.

Essentially what all this means is that sex has two purposes like food. Sex has a unity and a procreative nature. (food has a taste and nutritional nature) Masturbation stops both natures. (Bulimia removes the nutritional nature of food and that is why it is disordered (Not saying bulimia is a sin just comparing two things that have two natures that can be misused)). Sex should be procreative and unitive.

The Catholic catechism is not the Bible! Masturbation is not a sin according to the Bible. Enough said!

[Wyatt 13]

Tell your grandpa that he did it when he was younger.


Agree Why they forgot it? LOL

[TomTheThingy]

JESUS I HATE IT WHEN I DONT GET MY PRIVACY! But grandparents are like that. Try to get them out of the house.

[VikingEddie]

Give them 5 bucks and tell them to go catch a movie.

[NateTheGreat]

The Catholic catechism is not the Bible! Masturbation is not a sin according to the Bible. Enough said!

I don't know if you read what I posted. It is a philosophical argument. The Lord asks us to do something and masturbation is contrary to that. There are plenty of verses about chastity. Deu22, 1king1, esther2, job31, proverbs2, col3, prov6, matt5, exe16, matt1, the entirety of both letters to the Corinthians.

Not everything that we believe as Christians comes from the Bible, there are non-scriptural things. If sola-scriptora was true then we would still believe in all 613 commandments and laws of the old testament.

[ChaseDakoda]

Just so you all know all responces are good for me and thanks

[AceofSpades97]

Listen don't take your grandparents serious to much they are from a different era. Do what you like and don't let the complaints get to your head.

[stipan_relix]

Just tell them you're an atheist and they'll leave you alone... lol seriously, they might "hate" you for that tho

[Jeonard]

The Catholic catechism is not the Bible! Masturbation is not a sin according to the Bible. Enough said!

Knowledge for catholics comes from the Bible, the Magisterium and prayer. Therefore the catechism is just as important as the Bible. Your view seems to be from another denomination of Christianity and since ChaseDakoda is in a Catholic environment it is quite irrelevant.

[Bull]

Knowledge for catholics comes from the Bible, the Magisterium and prayer. Therefore the catechism is just as important as the Bible. Your view seems to be from another denomination of Christianity and since ChaseDakoda is in a Catholic environment it is quite irrelevant.

Sorry, God's Word is never irrelevant for any born again Christian. It is His Word for all believers. I have no interest in getting into a theological debate. For me God's Word takes precedence over all others. Period. End of discussion.

[Passenger]

When we think we are alone we are not. Jace and I were releaving our stress and grandpa walked in on us and explained we were commiting a sin. I know but we ......................


They need to give you more privacy whether your masturbating or not. But it's not a sin, that's rubbish, what are they catholic!? If you're too sorry if that offended you but if you want to do it, do it. It's not like anyone will find out, god can't watch everything, there's 7billion people! And just in a politer way tell your grandparents to f**k off, you're a teen and need some privacy :)

[Jeonard]

Sorry, God's Word is never irrelevant for any born again Christian. It is His Word for all believers. I have no interest in getting into a theological debate. For me God's Word takes precedence over all others. Period. End of discussion.

I believe you have misunderstood; I was not saying that the word of God is irrelevant but that his view on on the importance of the Bible in this situation is. Yes, the Bible is important but should be used in conjunction with prayer and the teachings of the magisterium.

[ChaseDakoda]

Billy Who said I was a Born Again Christian? I am all freaking messed up I am scared tto death to touch it now.

[xTropicDomx]

my grandparents moved in for up to 3 months and they are in my twin and my bedroom we have hide a beds in den. When we think we are alone we are not. Jace and I were releaving our stress and grandpa walked in on us and explained we were commiting a sin. I know but we ......................if in shower too long grandma yells and tells us she knows what we are doing snd its a sin.

Told Doctor parents and we are to live with it because of there age so what are we do do? parents tell us a good time to stop for a while.


COMMENTS welcome

Dude, this sucks.

Anyway, I'd probably just do it very late at night and be very quiet. Keep a blanket nearby to cover up if someone walks in :)

[pconnor2001]

All boys do it.