aic123
July 2nd, 2014, 11:20 PM
Okay so Im very good friends with my neighbors they are twin brothers. Im closer with one of them more than the other and I think hes really cute but im still in the closet (not the issue). Anyway I don’t know how to approach the situation he says he is straight yet so many questionable things have happened between us:
-he kissed me on the forehead once but jokingly and we laughed
-one time we were on the bus together and I whispered in his ear “make me touch your dick” and he grabbed my hand and made me caress it over his pants
- another time on the bus I said “put my hand down your pants” and it ended up with me feeling him up (under underwear and all I actually touched/felt his penis)
- he grabs my butt a lot and I do the same and he doesn’t get mad
-he flashed his penis at me all while giggling and what not
-BIGGEST INCIDENT OF ALL: he was at my house playing my new video game standing up in front of the tv and I came up from behind and felt all of his body like arms, chest, butt everything and I eased my way towards his crotch. He didn’t stop try to stop me until my hand was moving his waist band (he was wearing basketball shorts) but I managed my hand in there and he laughed and playfully called me “fag” and we went to the ground wrestling all while my hand was in his pants. This is where I got really lost because if he was 100% straight wouldn’t he have been pissed and try to kick my ass?
He now has a gf and I didn’t think I cared about him until I found out because I was EXTREMELY jealous of her. When I felt this way it occurred to me that it was more than a lust thing I actually did care about him in this way. But hes never told anyone of this stuff and the fact that there has NEVER been any kind of negative reaction to any pass ive made at him and the fact that he willingly did half of these things himself leads me to believe hes not as straight as he claims to be haha.
So the question is do you guys think hes completely straight? How do I talk to him about this? Am I acting out of line? I just need some reassurance and another look on the situation. He is still with his gf and his twin brother is a pretty big homophobe yet the final incident I listed happened after they started dating so im just really lost. Thanks for any advice
-he kissed me on the forehead once but jokingly and we laughed
-one time we were on the bus together and I whispered in his ear “make me touch your dick” and he grabbed my hand and made me caress it over his pants
- another time on the bus I said “put my hand down your pants” and it ended up with me feeling him up (under underwear and all I actually touched/felt his penis)
- he grabs my butt a lot and I do the same and he doesn’t get mad
-he flashed his penis at me all while giggling and what not
-BIGGEST INCIDENT OF ALL: he was at my house playing my new video game standing up in front of the tv and I came up from behind and felt all of his body like arms, chest, butt everything and I eased my way towards his crotch. He didn’t stop try to stop me until my hand was moving his waist band (he was wearing basketball shorts) but I managed my hand in there and he laughed and playfully called me “fag” and we went to the ground wrestling all while my hand was in his pants. This is where I got really lost because if he was 100% straight wouldn’t he have been pissed and try to kick my ass?
He now has a gf and I didn’t think I cared about him until I found out because I was EXTREMELY jealous of her. When I felt this way it occurred to me that it was more than a lust thing I actually did care about him in this way. But hes never told anyone of this stuff and the fact that there has NEVER been any kind of negative reaction to any pass ive made at him and the fact that he willingly did half of these things himself leads me to believe hes not as straight as he claims to be haha.
So the question is do you guys think hes completely straight? How do I talk to him about this? Am I acting out of line? I just need some reassurance and another look on the situation. He is still with his gf and his twin brother is a pretty big homophobe yet the final incident I listed happened after they started dating so im just really lost. Thanks for any advice