Bathing with kid sister

[welsh91]

im 14 she's 8 she still likes taking bubble baths with me
since im pretty much a woman now (no sex yet but.. you know) is this ok?

[Blood]

As long as you're both comfortable with it, I don't see a problem.

[welsh91]

As long as you're both comfortable with it, I don't see a problem.

I don't mind it doesn't bother me and she loves it a lot. Im just worried what other people might think

[Blood]

I don't mind it doesn't bother me and she loves it a lot. Im just worried what other people might think

Well, it's not really other people's business, is it? I mean who cares what they think? If you and your sister are comfortable bathing together, and no molestation or anything is going on, I don't see why other people should care. :)

[welsh91]

Well, it's not really other people's business, is it? I mean who cares what they think? If you and your sister are comfortable bathing together, and no molestation or anything is going on, I don't see why other people should care. :)

No... no molestation lol just bathing and cleaning and washing hair

[Taryn98]

this does not sound normal to me
it sounds like your sister needs to talk to someone about this
at some point everyone needs to grow up

[Lisa R]

I think that's it fine to bath with your sister. Like jess said as long as both are comfortable. nobodys business but your own.Your both are girls and the same girly bits.

[Claire Asteroid]

I think 14s a bit too old. I used to bathe with my little sister but I stopped when I was 13 and a half and she'd just turned 9.

[vickilynn]

I think it is fine. You guys live together. If we can bathe with other in a locker room, why not with another family member. You are showing her the way. This is your guys fun time. In other countries, families bathe and go to the nude beaches together and that's the norm. As long as you are a loving sister and not one of those people we see on tv, it is fine. She will asked questions about the female body anyway. And 50/50, you might have to show her.

[Jennboh]

I dont see a problem with it.

[welsh91]

I think it is fine. You guys live together. If we can bathe with other in a locker room, why not with another family member. You are showing her the way. This is your guys fun time. In other countries, families bathe and go to the nude beaches together and that's the norm. As long as you are a loving sister and not one of those people we see on tv, it is fine. She will asked questions about the female body anyway. And 50/50, you might have to show her.

50/50 I might have to show her what do you mean?

And lololol..no im not one of the tv people.

[sallyfunshine]

Its important to spend time with ur sis. If u stop she may think u dont love her. Just have fun

[Lizzielikesboth]

Im 19 and my sister is 16 we take showers together in the outside shower

[Brigje]

In these kind of forums you get different opinions depending on cultural and geographical background.

I say, when she wants to see more of you and asks questions, go ahead that is were sisters are for, there is no better or safer place to learn about sexuality than between siblings.

[kentucky girl]

I don't see anything wrong with it, I would love to have a sister like that

[shaune]

Nothing wrong my 11 year old sister bathes with me ,she has just got her. first. Pubes so is curious but that's all beter to learn from and ask. questions than from a stranger

[honeybear]

um I don't think there is anything wrong with it normal acts like bathing and nudity do not equal perversion and sex and molestation...you ppl who think so need to get a life...just because you personally don't agree with it doesn't make it wrong or immoral or perverse...I will still sometimes bathe with my mom (or did before she moved) she had this huge whirlpool type bath that could fit 2-3 people comfortably...we'd soak drink wine and talk about things in general...(no not a Jacuzzi either) am I wrong for wanting to do this? no I don't think so and that all that matters

[Stumpygoat]

as long as there's nothing sexual going on, I think its fine

[Catherine]

I assure you, it's completely fine. As long as you're both comfortable with it, I don't see a problem at all. In fact, that's really cool and sweet that you're that close with your sister, and that it's fun for both of you! <3

For the people who are saying this is 'not normal', what exactly is wrong with it? Just because the majority of people don't do it, doesn't mean there's anything wrong with it at all. Just because it's not "normal" or "common" for people to be transgender, for example, does that make it wrong? Extreme example, I know, but it's the same idea.

[ozteen]

l don't see anything wrong with it, she's going to be curious anyway....

[emily-candace]

absolutely nothing wrong with it, my baby sis likes to shower with me, she thinks its like the water park but then she's only 2 1/2 years old too. Ive taken several baths with my mom and her but it was more playtime than anything else for her but we all came out clean but there was water everywhere and YES Im the on that had to clean the bathroom.

[biancachica]

I dont see anything wrong with that

[anrigirl]

I see nothing wrong with it as well

[GlitterRose]

I'm 19 and my sister is 6, she insists on taking bubble baths with me, I personally don't see an issue with it so long as its just you and your sister having a normal relaxing bath together, so from my side go for it :yes:

[vickilynn]

My sister is 18 now. She used to shower and bathe with me. I was a good time. She is a real big sister. She helps me a lot. We had good quality time together. I recommend it.

[welsh91]

My sister is 18 now. She used to shower and bathe with me. I was a good time. She is a real big sister. She helps me a lot. We had good quality time together. I recommend it.

That's what I want, thank you!

[Laura Crofty]

I have done with my sis, she's 11 now. Not a prob

[welsh91]

To all the haters out there we took a bath together last night and we had a lot of fun
To the people who support me thank you i feel less guisly

[watermelon_pineapple]

There is noting wrong with that. I think it good so she has some one to talk to when she older. Like about guy or changes with her body

[Pensive]

The only reasons one may object to this are;

a) Not particularly good for getting clean as sharing the same bath water (but just like. Jacuzzi).

b) Whilst being aroused by her nudity (once she has hit puberty) would be understandable and indeed normal, any desire to go further would of course be creepy and horrific.

But just having a plain old bath with her? I'm surprised you had to ask! Absolutely fine, so long as she wants to and doesn't need 'alone time' or privacy.

[jhardy]

If you are both comfortable with it, I don't think there's anything wrong with it.

[AbigailBM98]

nothing wrong with that at all

[ImagineRepublicCity]

In all seriousness, the whole incest thing doesn't really matter but that's not going on obviously.

Back on topic, a lot of people are having mixed feelings, but as long as you feel fine, and your sister feels fine, I reckon it's okay.

It's pretty much the same as those families which pretty much walk naked/almost naked around the house. Personal opinion. Like you said, nothing is happening other than just bathing and cleaning yourselves. It's fine.

[Abbeys]

It would probably be more harmful to her if you suddenly stopped allowing her to bathe with you.
At that age I don't think she would understand why.

You carry on until she doesn't want to.

[Satsuki]

Well yo uare both girls i dont see a problem to take a bath with your sister :P

[Juana]

No problem I think, only when she's getting older she will ask questions of course. And then you can explain topics in a decent way.

[budapest]

you're both female and are comfortable so it's fine

whenever one of you starts to feel uncomfortable then just stop of course

[welsh91]

No problem I think, only when she's getting older she will ask questions of course. And then you can explain topics in a decent way.

She is already asking questions LOTS of them lol not sure how to answer ecept "when youre older Ill explain:

[assassin161]

of course its fine, its not like your doing anything like playing with yourself

[DanielleIU]

Nudity is not sexual unless it becomes more. I agree, it's no big deal.

[Beth]

I don't see a problem. Your both have the the same privates

[San1998]

this does not sound normal to me
it sounds like your sister needs to talk to someone about this
at some point everyone needs to grow up

she is 8. it is totally fine.

[vickilynn]

My family has a pool and a jacuzzi. My dad had to go to another job and it will be all day. So me, my sister and mom were in the jacuzzi together. None of us wear clothes at home anyway. So we were in there naked. We had a great time telling stories. Later, my Aunt came by and she joined in. If my sister is in the shower now, I would still go in there. We talk about anything in there. It is like our secret bubble of information. My parents redid our shower. It is a walk in shower where about 8 people can fit into. So I see it like a school shower type. when I hear her get in, I would still try to join her. It is our bond.

[emily-candace]

I don't see anything wrong with it.
I bathed with my mom until I was like 6 or 7 maybe. My baby sis is 2 1/2 years old now and she bathes with my mom sometimes and sometimes with me and she loves showering with me but we have a hard time trying to keep her in the bathroom to dry off before she runs through the house wet and naked. Hahaha

[assassin161]

of course its normal for an older sister to have baths with there younger ones, as long as you you don't mind it.

[Amy123]

It's very normal if your both comfortable. When I was young I used to Have a bath with my sisters. So no worries

[Sophie.L]

I don't see anything wrong with it, I take bath with my little sister (she's 9 yo) very often

[Brenda1997]

I think there's nothing wrong with it, just you and your sister chilling in bath.

[lonely intrigue]

I think that's a little strange. Why does she want to so bad? I would be wierded out if I had a sister wanting to do that with me.

[lisaann]

My family are nudists and we sometimes shower together, especially at big bathhouses at the resorts we go to.

[welsh91]

of course its fine, its not like your doing anything like playing with yourself

No, lol, I do that when she isn't there... although that's what she asks agaout again i tell her when shes older I will expaion

[Amy15kitty]

That is what sisters are for.

[LoveLessOne]

I think its fine. If you are that comfortable with each other and there is no awkwardness, then it should be fine

[QuebecGirl]

I think its ok too. Its your sister after all.

[Cangirl]

I hope its normal because my sister and I know its something we both like doing and its fun and relaxing just having our time together. And yeah good way to learn about bodies at different ages.

[allisonmyers]

nothing wrong

[mollyjellybelly]

Don't have a sister but my BFF has a really cool older sister and I know they have. Don't see anything wrong with it. She's where we learned almost every thing good from!

[Zsofia]

Perfectly normal. It's family.

[runnergirl]

I think it's totally fine. I still shower with my best girl friend all the time and we are 14. Lol.

[elaina9189]

I don't see why not? If you both are comfortable.. I continued to bathe with my niece until last year, ages are different (I'm 17 and she is 5)

[Isabella_]

On vacations before my parents were comfortable with me showering anne my brother would take me to the campsite shower block with him, the last time they insisted I was 11 he was 14, what's the big deal?

[Emerald Dream]

On vacations before my parents were comfortable with me showering anne my brother would take me to the campsite shower block with him, the last time they insisted I was 11 he was 14, what's the big deal?

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