My Question About SEX

[Uranus]

So I have heard about all this STI,STD,HIV,ect stuff and how we should always use condoms,o but I've been wondering do we even need to use rubbers if we are sexually active currently, and ever since we've started, to one person? I mean we can't be naturally born with STI'S,STD'S,HIV can we? Like, for example, I am sexually active with my gf, and have only been with her and no one else, and same for her with me. So should we only use condoms just to prevent pregnancy? Also I haven't heard about married couples with std ect....so my question is, do I only need condoms for preventing pregnancy, only? Or to prwvent std ect?

[Blood]

Condoms are used to prevent pregnancy and to prevent the spread of sexually transmitted diseases.

[Remora]

Well *just to be safe* is a good idea. But if you're absolutely sure that neither of you has a std then there other methods than condoms can be used to prevent pregnancy, like the spiral things with hormones. Unless you're sure that it's fine, then yes, you should use condoms.

[Uranus]

Yea no s*** blood...I was saying that I understand they do but I though yi get std ect from having multiple sex partners...I'm saying if I only have had sex with one person and no more, and same for her, do we even need to worry about std, ect, except for pregnancy?

[Bull]

as long as you are both monogamous there is no STD issue, but preventing pregnancy is a major concern for you both! Better safe than sorry. You DO NOT WANT to be a teen age dad!

[crazyBoyjJ]

U need condoms to prevent both. STDs and pregnancy. But if someone is married to a person with std and has children. Its not all the time the std gets transferred.

[Remora]

Yea no s*** blood...I was saying that I understand they do but I though yi get std ect from having multiple sex partners...I'm saying if I only have had sex with one person and no more, and same for her, do we even need to worry about std, ect, except for pregnancy?

No need to be a dick to someone that's trying to help you...
As i mentioned before, if you're absolutely sure neither of you has stds (get tested) then it's fine. If you're not, then it's not, and you should use the condoms.

[Uranus]

All I am saying is neither my gf, or I have been tested for std, sti, hiv, ect. But what I know is stds ect is caused from multiple partners, so if I only ever had one partner, my gf, and same for her, which is me, then, correct me if I am wrong, neither of us should have a std, but should at least use condom for stopin pregnancy, right? So we wouldn't need one for oral? Thx

[Remora]

All I am saying is neither my gf, or I have been tested for std, sti, hiv, ect. But what I know is stds ect is caused from multiple partners, so if I only ever had one partner, my gf, and same for her, which is me, then, correct me if I am wrong, neither of us should have a std, but should at least use condom for stopin pregnancy, right? So we wouldn't need one for oral? Thx

You can be born with one. If your mother or father (mother and father) have one, then there is a chance that their baby is born with one too.

But sure, if you're convinced that you're eachothers' firsts, then it's fine! just don't blame me if you do turn out with an STD anyways :)

[Uranus]

as long as you are both monogamous there is no STD issue, but preventing pregnancy is a major concern for you both! Better safe than sorry. You DO NOT WANT to be a teen age dad!




Looks like you and me are on the same page her....only thing iyour wrong about is, I DO wanna be a TEENAGE dad........when I'm 19. HAHA. :D

[Bull]

Looks like you and me are on the same page her....only thing iyour wrong about is, I DO wanna be a TEENAGE dad........when I'm 19. HAHA. :D

IF that is your plan then there will be no, OMG surprise! :lol:

[welsh91]

So I have heard about all this STI,STD,HIV,ect stuff and how we should always use condoms,o but I've been wondering do we even need to use rubbers if we are sexually active currently, and ever since we've started, to one person? I mean we can't be naturally born with STI'S,STD'S,HIV can we? Like, for example, I am sexually active with my gf, and have only been with her and no one else, and same for her with me. So should we only use condoms just to prevent pregnancy? Also I haven't heard about married couples with std ect....so my question is, do I only need condoms for preventing pregnancy, only? Or to prwvent std ect?


if neither of you has somethng you can't get something
but you have to trust that your partner will not fool with someone else if they do you are going to get whatever they catch

[Blood]

Yea no s*** blood...I was saying that I understand they do but I though yi get std ect from having multiple sex partners...I'm saying if I only have had sex with one person and no more, and same for her, do we even need to worry about std, ect, except for pregnancy?


if you and your gf haven't been tested for anything but you swear up and down haven't done anything with anyone else, you should still use condoms. Why would you want to be stupid and risks getting an std or getting her pregnant anyways? Play it safe so you won't be sorry later on.

[Karkat]

Lol aside from Floof and Blood, SO much misinformation here.

You can be born with:

-HIV
-Herpes
-A few others I think, but am not totally sure of

You can catch Herpes I from kissing, etc. You can spread it to your genitals if you touch your mouth first (if there are cold sores present, but possibly otherwise as well)

You can also spread UTIs, yeast infections, mono I think, meningitis I'm pretty sure (and you don't always have to have the symptoms to be a carrier- and meningitis CAN kill you.) if you have/are carrying them.

And yes, absolutely use a condom to prevent pregnancy, but also make sure you're using it the right way, or it won't be effective.

[Rayquaza]

You should always practise safer sex (safe sex is now a defunct term) by using protection when you can. You can never be sure about your partners sexual activity. Why take a risk at all? There's no need to not use protection if you're not trying for a kid.

[Elysium]

Teen Sexuality :arrow: Questions for Both

[Ricky.h]

If she gets on birth control then you won't need to wear a condom. Me personally, I have a girlfriend who's on BC, and I have an open relationship where she's ok if I fuck other girls, and 9/10 times I DO NOT wear a condom with other girls rather they're on birth control or not (sometimes I get them plan b afterwards ) but I choose to take that risk , and yes I've gotten girls pregnant, but they ended in miscarriages but that's because I like raw sex
So unless you're willing to take the risk....use a condom