How do I tell my mom?

[Toptoptop]

Okay, so ever since I was younger my mom would come in my room and clean Jt up and move things around so it was organized. But lately it's been getting to me because she is constantly in my room cleaning and moving things. I always tell her stop and leave my room alone and she won't she keeps coming in picking stuff up and all that. Well she has found stuff that I woke speak off but I repeatedly tell her all the time to stay out of my room. I have to lock my room door so she won't go in but she still does. So how do I tell her to stop going in my room and snooping around and stuff?!?!

[Living For Love]

If you can't avoid her going into your bedroom, make sure you hide the stuff you don't want her to find out. Maybe tell her that she can clean the room and keep it organised as long as she doesn't move your things around a lot.

[JamesSuperBoy]

Okay, so ever since I was younger my mom would come in my room and clean Jt up and move things around so it was organized. But lately it's been getting to me because she is constantly in my room cleaning and moving things. I always tell her stop and leave my room alone and she won't she keeps coming in picking stuff up and all that. Well she has found stuff that I woke speak off but I repeatedly tell her all the time to stay out of my room. I have to lock my room door so she won't go in but she still does. So how do I tell her to stop going in my room and snooping around and stuff?!?!


Hows about you make a deal with your Mom - you will tidy and clean etc so she does not have to.

[Toptoptop]

If you can't avoid her going into your bedroom, make sure you hide the stuff you don't want her to find out. Maybe tell her that she can clean the room and keep it organised as long as she doesn't move your things around a lot.

I've tried that and she still manges to find them

Hows about you make a deal with your Mom - you will tidy and clean etc so she does not have to.

Tried that didn't work she still comes in if it isn't to her liking

[Body odah Man]

I think the whole reason she cleans your room is because:
a. you dislike it so she believes you have something to hide
b. she's realized you have 'naughty stuff' in there so she's worried and wants to find it all by cleaning.

Somehow you're going to have to resolve points a and b before you can fix this

[welsh91]

Okay, so ever since I was younger my mom would come in my room and clean Jt up and move things around so it was organized. But lately it's been getting to me because she is constantly in my room cleaning and moving things. I always tell her stop and leave my room alone and she won't she keeps coming in picking stuff up and all that. Well she has found stuff that I woke speak off but I repeatedly tell her all the time to stay out of my room. I have to lock my room door so she won't go in but she still does. So how do I tell her to stop going in my room and snooping around and stuff?!?!

you cant. as my dad says - when you pay the rent you can have YOUR room. Until then it's my room you are just staying in it

[Body odah Man]

@^
Such cruelty

[gothy]

i just have to say stop and my mom stops and tells me to organize my stuff. y'see my room is messy and my mom hates that so she just comes in every so often and starts organizing stuff randomly. If i want privacy i just have to clean my own room i guess lol.

good hiding spots:
coat pockets
wallets
book pages
under the matress
your pocket
in makeup cases

in containers
garbage under a pile of tissues and paper and pencil shavings
bad spots:

head board shelves
floor
desks
in containers without lids
in coat pockets that face outward if hanging in your closet
in open bags

behind books

under pillows
in pillows
behind large strange objects (i have a skull in my room)

this is just based off of my successes and failures when trying to hide stuff like razor blades and notes and writings from my mom.

though one day she found my razor when i wasnt home, but didnt say anything. i just know because it was there when i left and gone when i came home.

[hockeyfan]

Although u might not want to, if u were closer with ur mom she might not have the need to snope

[fast8]

Just sit down with her and tell her how it make u feel

[CrazyPerson101]

Okay, so ever since I was younger my mom would come in my room and clean Jt up and move things around so it was organized. But lately it's been getting to me because she is constantly in my room cleaning and moving things. I always tell her stop and leave my room alone and she won't she keeps coming in picking stuff up and all that. Well she has found stuff that I woke speak off but I repeatedly tell her all the time to stay out of my room. I have to lock my room door so she won't go in but she still does. So how do I tell her to stop going in my room and snooping around and stuff?!?!

I think the whole reason she cleans your room is because:
a. you dislike it so she believes you have something to hide
b. she's realized you have 'naughty stuff' in there so she's worried and wants to find it all by cleaning.

Somehow you're going to have to resolve points a and b before you can fix this


Exactly ^^ If you haven't got anything to hide, she'll stop

[Celtics]

She is just searching for things, there is no reason she should be in there if you asked her to stop. Just prove you have nothing to hide I guess, or just get really mad like really mad.