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green white
July 1st, 2014, 09:42 PM
I think I'm bi. If i come out to my parents, it's can be they angry or disappointed?
And what your opinion about bi?
Blood
July 1st, 2014, 10:28 PM
I don't know how your parents will react if you come out as bisexual. It really just depends on their views on homosexuality and stuff.
I'm not much for labels, but I do identify as being bisexual. I think it's fine, just like being asexual, pansexual, lesbian, or gay is fine. People are going to like different things and there's nothing wrong with that.
Dalcourt
July 1st, 2014, 10:38 PM
Well, it really depends on your parents. Everyone has different views so it is hard to say how they will react.
My opinion? Being bi is totally okay, absolutely nothing wrong with it. I was never really attracted to someone from the opposite gender so I consider myself gay, but who knows maybe I'll find people from the opposite gender I like and turn out bi when I am older.
Gamma Male
July 1st, 2014, 10:40 PM
I don't know Indonesian cultures and attitudes about homosexuality very much. Are they generally accepted there? How unusual is being gay or bi there?
josh_9
July 1st, 2014, 10:43 PM
Everyone's parents are different. If they are conservative, they may seem angry at first, but it's more of a shock I think than something that will anger them. After a while though, I believe they's get used to the idea and support you. Assuming they're more liberal (like my mom), I know she'll support me in whatever I do or whoever I am, so I wouldn't have any hesitations. I'm bi myself and it's completely normal. I thought I might be gay for a little while, but I still liked girls! Good luck :)
green white
July 2nd, 2014, 03:41 AM
I don't know Indonesian cultures and attitudes about homosexuality very much. Are they generally accepted there? How unusual is being gay or bi there?
Bi, gay or lesbian is prohibited in here. And my parents or family is very religious
green white
July 2nd, 2014, 03:44 AM
I don't know how your parents will react if you come out as bisexual. It really just depends on their views on homosexuality and stuff.
I'm not much for labels, but I do identify as being bisexual. I think it's fine, just like being asexual, pansexual, lesbian, or gay is fine. People are going to like different things and there's nothing wrong with that.
My family is so religious, and they oppose with LGBT. I want come out but I scary about that
Blood
July 2nd, 2014, 03:50 AM
My family is so religious, and they oppose with LGBT. I want come out but I scary about that
Well unless you want to have a conflict with your family, I would advise you to wait a little longer until telling them about this situation. My parents are really religious too and they would get pretty heated if they found out I was bi.
green white
July 2nd, 2014, 04:09 AM
Well unless you want to have a conflict with your family, I would advise you to wait a little longer until telling them about this situation. My parents are really religious too and they would get pretty heated if they found out I was bi.
So, when the best time to come out?
ECSTASY
July 2nd, 2014, 04:14 AM
well its totally okay , as a gay,i couldnt accept myself for 5 years . sometimes i really overthink about that and why i have to be like that but well , im getting used to this situation :)
if you wanna come out , try to find out what doyour parents think about beingbi/gay , if they are not supportive, i dont recommend you to come out , because theyre your parents, that doesnt mean that they must know everything about you ;)
maybe comming out to them was the biggest mistake ive ever made
niceguy44
July 2nd, 2014, 04:20 AM
Wait & see .Give yourself time. Wait until you're about 17 or 18
CosmicNoodle
July 2nd, 2014, 04:41 AM
I don't know how your parents will react if you come out as bisexual. It really just depends on their views on homosexuality and stuff.
I'm not much for labels, but I do identify as being bisexual. I think it's fine, just like being asexual, pansexual, lesbian, or gay is fine. People are going to like different things and there's nothing wrong with that.
Couldn't have worded it better ^^....literally.....I'm dyslexic. :P
Blood
July 2nd, 2014, 08:55 AM
So, when the best time to come out?
I'm not sure. It's really a personal decision. But I don't think coming out at a young age is very benefitial, seeing as our bodies and sexual desires/attractions are likely to fluctuate.
Dalcourt
July 2nd, 2014, 09:46 AM
So, when the best time to come out?
It's hard to say. In my opinion you should come out when you are sure about yourself and your sexuality and are comfortable with the way you are. In your case, when you say it is prohibited in your culture to be bi...I would wait till you are old enough to support yourself as it will obviously be rather difficult to be dependent on your parents when they are religious and probably won't support your way of life once you come out to them.
pjones
July 3rd, 2014, 08:25 PM
i was really convinced i was bi until recently. me and my friend, a boy, thought we were in love but we really just wanted to be sexy together. so now i'm totally confused, but that's OK too. i'm only 14 so lots of time to figure it out. i don't know your situation, love, sexual attraction or like mine was, just being horny, but my advice is take your time to figure yourself out before you have to tell anyone else.
fast8
July 4th, 2014, 01:30 AM
I don't know what to tell you how ur mom or dad will react
CrazyPerson101
July 5th, 2014, 10:11 PM
I think I'm bi. If i come out to my parents, it's can be they angry or disappointed?
And what your opinion about bi?
Idk, Some parents are excepting, some aren't. It depends on many different factors. Religion,Beliefs,etc. I hope you can come out to them and they'll except it and be happy for you :)
zeroswerve
July 5th, 2014, 10:27 PM
Im not sure if i am or not but they will execpt you either way
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