Should i just kiss him

[mynameislol]

So basically I like this boy at school but don't know if he's gay or not. So I wanted to know if you think I should just kiss him. Because he won't have any proof, so nobody will believe him and I'll find out if he's gay. I don't mind if he thinks I'm gay and I don't care if anyone else has suspicions so I don't see a down side.

Ps I'm not even sure if I'm gay :what:

[Remora]

Well, one downside is that you're sexually harassing him and even if he was gay, a spontaneous kiss wouldn't be appreciated so-much, he might not be in love with you, you might creep him out (will)... stongly reconsider, please... it doesn't seem like so good of an idea to me.

[Gamma Male]

No. Even if he was gay, you don't just go uo to people you barely know and kiss them.




....unless you're European. :lol:

[Luminous]

Well, one downside is that you're sexually harassing him and even if he was gay, a spontaneous kiss wouldn't be appreciated so-much, he might not be in love with you, you might creep him out (will)... stongly reconsider, please... it doesn't seem like so good of an idea to me.

One little kiss isn't much of sexual harassment, it happens unplanned all the time.

I don't think kissing him is a solution. It will just make things more awkward between you and make him extremely uncomfortable. Try and become friends with him first. Be there for him. And when you feel comfortable with him and believe that he feels comfortable with you, tell him about your feelings - whether you're vague or specific about who those feelings are for is your choice, depending on the situation and how you feel. Hopefully he'll feel comfortable confiding in you as well. If you don't have a romance, at least you have a potential friendship, right?

[mynameislol]

i am friends with him but not that close

i just don't know what to do. i won't get into trouble coz nobody will believe him but there will be the awkwardness between me and him and after a while of him saying i kissed him people might start to believe him. or i could say that he kissed me.

i haven't kissed him yet btw

[Apollo.]

If you have the guts to try and land a kiss, surely you have it in you to just straight up ask him if he's gay? Same thing again nobody would believe him, its a much less awkward way to do it as well. A kiss is something that the moment needs to be right for, whereas you can just out of nowhere tell him you want to speak to him, then give him the little speech about how you kind of like him and then ask if he's gay.

[dirtyboxer55]

damn bro if some dude kissed me randomly...
that's like asking to get hit. is that really the best solution you could think of to find out he's gay?

[mynameislol]

If you have the guts to try and land a kiss, surely you have it in you to just straight up ask him if he's gay? Same thing again nobody would believe him, its a much less awkward way to do it as well. A kiss is something that the moment needs to be right for, whereas you can just out of nowhere tell him you want to speak to him, then give him the little speech about how you kind of like him and then ask if he's gay.

The problem with doing that is then he could tell people exactly what i said and it would be more believable. and what about just going for a kiss?????????

[beenthere]

Its the wrong move Dude, If you really like him you will scare him away even if he is gay. Perception is everything, and even if he likes you, he will get scared of how others will think of him. Become his friend, and take your time. start with something a little more gentle like talking about masterbation. He don't need to know more than that, if he is gay or strait it don't matter.

[Apollo.]

The problem with doing that is then he could tell people exactly what i said and it would be more believable. and what about just going for a kiss?????????

Put it this way if a random guy came up to you and tried to kiss you, how would you feel? Its bound to be a bit creepy man. You might get lucky, its your decision but try thinking of it in reverse!

[The Flash]

If you're willing to kiss him, then you should just ask him. There's less harm in asking, than there is in kissing him.

Don't kiss him. Just ask him.