Guys confessing to girls, guys

[Polo2847]

How would a guy show his affection to another guy? I have a friend, and I like his personality, and his smile..it just warms my heart.

I feel like girls seem more "delicate" when confessing to them about my feelings. (i sound sexist or something...sorry if I do!) And in this society, it's normal to confess to the opposite sex.

At the same time, I feel like I can casually tell a guy I like him because...he's a guy...and guys are viewed to take things better...but in this society, it's still considered taboo for same sex to like each other. I also understand that society's changing views now. It's like I have to be more delicate to guys too because of this situation.

idk if this is relevant, but I like this guy, and also like this girl, we are a triangle of friends. I like both of them, but one of them is moving..you can read about that here: http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=210718 Would it be awkard to confess to both people at the same time?

[Meganium]

It'd be awkward to tell them at the same time, yes. Not even for them so much as for you. 99.999% percent of people can't be "in love" with more than one person. At least not in a way that desires for a relationship to follow.

Don't get me wrong, if you love your friends, love them wholeheartedly. My friends know that I'm comfortable with them knowing how much I care about them, and that goes for male and female. "It all depends on how you feel, I guess." is what I'm trying to say.

I'm just assuming that there's some kind of imbalance and you love one more from a relationship standpoint than the other. Make that point clear for yourself first before you say anything.

[Polo2847]

It'd be awkward to tell them at the same time, yes. Not even for them so much as for you. 99.999% percent of people can't be "in love" with more than one person. At least not in a way that desires for a relationship to follow.

Don't get me wrong, if you love your friends, love them wholeheartedly. My friends know that I'm comfortable with them knowing how much I care about them, and that goes for male and female. "It all depends on how you feel, I guess." is what I'm trying to say.

I'm just assuming that there's some kind of imbalance and you love one more from a relationship standpoint than the other. Make that point clear for yourself first before you say anything.

I can see what you're saying. I agree that a lot of people have many friends, but can only love one person. Now, I'm not really sure what love is...I guess I just feel happy when I see him.

[LouBerry]

I can see what you're saying. I agree that a lot of people have many friends, but can only love one person. Now, I'm not really sure what love is...I guess I just feel happy when I see him.

If you want to tell both of your friends how you feel, I think you should be able to do so, as long as you aren't creepy about it, you know? If you know that it would make either of them uncomfortable, don't. Since you seem to understand that love is more complex than just feeling happy, don't go and throw that word around, that's a good way to make friendships stressed.