Finally venting out

[Disasterology]

So since I've gone vacation to my sisters house, my boyfriend takes his sweet time replying to me, at the most it takes him 2 hours, and I'm not thinking that he's cheating on me, because I know he's playing League of Legends. Now he says it isn't his priority and that I am, well that sure doesn't seem like it. I did say it's ok if he plays, but he plays soooo much ;-; and got upset cus I didn't play with him when I kept saying I would. I didn't want to tell him I don't want to play cus when I play with him he gets bored after 3-4 games with the bots, so there's no point in me playing. I know we don't have to talk every single day, but it's like we're not even talking, I ask what he's doing and an hour later he says, "sorry I was playing LoL" and I have nothing to say. Annnnd when we're talking on the phone, I say something and sometimes he just stays quiet cus he doesn't know what to say, an ok would suffice -.- so I just stay quiet and he won't talk because I'm not talking. I'm not supposed to be the only one doing the talking. It's just upsetting and uggghh ._. and pretty sure if I actually tell him this, he wont know how to freaking reply..I'm going to try my hardest to not even talk to him today.

[Living For Love]

I think you should try to reduce the amount of time you talk to him via text messages and increase the amount of times you're actually physically with him. Either tell him you'd like him to come over, or you'd like you two to have a walk, go somewhere, etc. He should understand that, since you're his girlfriend, he should pay attention to you, no matter how much he likes to do other activities. He shouldn't change the way he is, or the way he behaves, but ignoring you and your text messages clearly is not the best option. It's a matter of choosing priorities.

[Body odah Man]

So since I've gone vacation to my sisters house, my boyfriend takes his sweet time replying to me, at the most it takes him 2 hours, and I'm not thinking that he's cheating on me, because I know he's playing League of Legends. Now he says it isn't his priority and that I am, well that sure doesn't seem like it. I did say it's ok if he plays, but he plays soooo much ;-; and got upset cus I didn't play with him when I kept saying I would. I didn't want to tell him I don't want to play cus when I play with him he gets bored after 3-4 games with the bots, so there's no point in me playing. I know we don't have to talk every single day, but it's like we're not even talking, I ask what he's doing and an hour later he says, "sorry I was playing LoL" and I have nothing to say. Annnnd when we're talking on the phone, I say something and sometimes he just stays quiet cus he doesn't know what to say, an ok would suffice -.- so I just stay quiet and he won't talk because I'm not talking. I'm not supposed to be the only one doing the talking. It's just upsetting and uggghh ._. and pretty sure if I actually tell him this, he wont know how to freaking reply..I'm going to try my hardest to not even talk to him today.

Wow, that doesn't sound very fun I agree. TBH I think your man has a LOL addiction (you probably guessed that) and, like Dance in the Dark says, you should most likely just hang out with him IRL and get him away from the game as much as possible. Sanitize the relationship if you will. GL with it all.

[Melodic]

I think this would be better suited here

TWPR :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[Disasterology]

I think you should try to reduce the amount of time you talk to him via text messages and increase the amount of times you're actually physically with him. Either tell him you'd like him to come over, or you'd like you two to have a walk, go somewhere, etc. He should understand that, since you're his girlfriend, he should pay attention to you, no matter how much he likes to do other activities. He shouldn't change the way he is, or the way he behaves, but ignoring you and your text messages clearly is not the best option. It's a matter of choosing priorities.

Well right now it's all we can do to communicate either text or talk on the phone because I'm not in california right now. So that's what is bothering me, if I were home I wouldn't care as much cus I'd still see him in person. Too much is going on and I'm just sick of it.