When you just cannot cum... help.

[SillyShyGuy]

It troubles me the thought of not being able to finish. When I was with my ex we were in her room mutually masturbating. It was our first time. Nothing too extreme. I helped her reach climax but when it was her turn she had a bad time. She could not make me cum. I even tried to do it myself and it did not work. After ten minutes of us trying to make me cum it was to no avail.

My theory is that maybe I was too nervous or not that attracted to her.

1. Has anyone else ever had that experience where no matter how much they tried, they could not make themselves cum?
2. Is there a reason why guys cannot cum when they want to?
3. Is it just the way the body reacts?
4. Is this a normal part of puberty?

Thanks, and no sharing techniques please.
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[Swagging god]

1. Has anyone else ever had that experience where no matter how much they tried, they could not make themselves cum? I have had this experience,but like you, I don't know the reason for why this happens
2. Is there a reason why guys cannot cum when they want to?
3. Is it just the way the body reacts?
4. Is this a normal part of puberty?

[Hermes]

Stress makes it harder to cum.

The only times I have been unable to make myself cum have been when that stress is due to illness. I have had situations where someone else has been unable to make me cum and being nervous rather than relaxed is probably the explanation there.

[green white]

Maybe
I'm sorry I never do it

[Catholic Guy]

Maybe you were just nervous and that makes it harder to cum

[bishdontkillmyvibe]

Try using some lotion as lube or try doing it in the shower. When your penis is dry, its just not really as pleasing.