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[firestar85137]

ok theres this girl that lives in my apartment complex.. when it was summer i decided to go to the pool to swim a bit. then she sees me and tells me she has a crush on me. so we been dating for a a few months. then one day she told she was moving away. i feel soo angry and miserable at the same time:mad:: :( what do people think i should do?
move on or try long distince dating?


if this is in the wrong forum tell me.:)

[Gumleaf]

firstly, this is the right forum. anyways, it must feel so bad that this is happening, and i can only imagine how miserable it must make you feel. what i suggest is that you ask her how she feels about a long distance relationship, if she thinks it could work and you still really like her, then maybe you could give that a try. but i do know that long distance relationships are hard (my older sister had one for a while) and after we had moved to sydney for 3 months they broke up because they never saw eachother. so you have to consider whether its worth it or will it just cause you both more pain later on. maybe another option is that you break up and that way you can then have the opportunity to enter into another relationship if the opportunity comes up, because if you are in a long distance one, it closes the doors of a more meaningful relationship with someone who you can see and be with. hope that makes sense. good luck!

[Hippie]

Yeah dude, it must really stink this is happening :(. It all comes down to how you feel. If you are into Long distance relationships then go for it ;), If not then do what you have to do. Well, like I always say my only true advice can be follow your heart :D.


Hippie

[firestar85137]

well we are talking about our relationship and thinking how important to us it is. we are talking about meeting each other every few times in the year.

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