Am I overreacting about a situation?

[VirtualBoy]

Hey, I'm out of town right now with my family and my girlfriend got invited to go to a theme park. She's going with her best friend, her best friend's boyfriend, and a random guy friend of the boyfriend who is tagging along.

I told her I'm not comfortable with that because I don't see why they both had to invite a random guy friend she doesn't know, and and that it bothers me because her best friend and best friend's boyfriend will want to spend time alone together, leaving just those two to hang out.

She thinks I'm overreacting, but I feel like it's just not a social situation I want her to be involved in.
Am I getting worked up over nothing, or is it something she shouldn't be doing?

[dirtyboxer55]

wow thats sketchy
he's definitely gonna try and steal your girlfriend

[Melodic]

She doesn't know him well by what you say, he's friends with her friends boyfriend, and she is trusting enough to tell you where she's going. I doubt anything will happen. Especially with someone she barely even knows.

[Horatio Nelson]

I totally understand how you feel. If you really love her, then you have to believe that she'll probably be fine.

Unless of course you don't trust her in that kind of a situation.

I hope that makes sense. lol

[VirtualBoy]

It's like I want to trust her and I don't especially have a reason not to, but it's just such a sketchy situation, and even then, I just don't like the idea of her going and experiencing a theme park with another guy like that.
Like, what about when they all have a ride? Even if it's just her being polite, she's going to have to sit next to him, right? I don't like that. It's something i'd want to be doing with her, and she's experiencing it with someone else.

[JamesSuperBoy]

Not sure here if you do not trust your girlfriend or you are over reacting. Fact is you are away and friends invited her out.

[BuryYourFlame]

Yeah, you're overreacting dude.
Fact is her life is going to involve, in some way, guys she doesn't know and you can't be there all the time. It comes down to whether you trust her or not to deny any advances made on her by other guys.
She hasn't actually done anything so just chill for now man.

[LouBerry]

Hey, I'm out of town right now with my family and my girlfriend got invited to go to a theme park. She's going with her best friend, her best friend's boyfriend, and a random guy friend of the boyfriend who is tagging along.

I told her I'm not comfortable with that because I don't see why they both had to invite a random guy friend she doesn't know, and and that it bothers me because her best friend and best friend's boyfriend will want to spend time alone together, leaving just those two to hang out.

She thinks I'm overreacting, but I feel like it's just not a social situation I want her to be involved in.
Am I getting worked up over nothing, or is it something she shouldn't be doing?

A few people have kind of already hit on this, but it comes down to trusting your girlfriend or not. My fiance does shit like this all of the time, and it drives me insane. This girl is your girlfriend. She is not your property, and she is not your wife. If she wants to go hang out with her friends, that's her decision. And this mystery man might end up being friends with her, but that's not a bad thing either. You can't try to control who she hangs out with, I promise you it will only end badly for you.

[watermelon_pineapple]

You could be overreacting a little bit but if you really love/like and her and she like/love you back she will not flirt or do anything with this guy and if he dose anything she will shut him down. From a girl point of view you got to trust her. If you love/like you a lot and she with you then your the only guy she wants. Us girl don't go around flirting with other guys when we have boyfriends. Hope this help :)

[Body odah Man]

I'm sure it'll be fine. I get that you're worried cuz you love her and of the random guy friend, but you're gunna have to trust her better judgment and her fidelity.

[Aparna11]

You cant really do anything in this situation.
What if you tell her not to go and she goes anyway , might not end good for either of you.
I would say If you really do trust her then these type of thoughts should never even occur in your mind !
and if you do have your personal reasons to doubt her .. then dont waste your time being with her and find yourself a new girlfriend ...!
Im just giving you multiple scenarios . Hope this helps. :)

[Meganium]

Even if your girlfriend were a complete scumbag, which I doubt she is, I'm sure she wouldn't be unfaithful with a completely random person who she may see no more than three times in her life. So long as you trust her, there is nothing to worry about.