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DarknessLeo
June 24th, 2014, 06:23 PM
The girl I love just broke up with me yesterday, ever since then I have been depressed, slightly suicidal, and wishing she never left me. She dumped me for an unspecified reason, which I have no clue too as what it is. Our relationship was fine, but she was unahappy. Help me please.
Microcosm
June 24th, 2014, 07:58 PM
I might need a bit more of a detailed explanation to help you, but I'll do my best. Some people would just say to try to get over her, but I know that isn't possible because I too have loved before. A lot of times if you can't tell why she broke up with you, she might have found someone else. If you really love her, then you just want her to be happy. So just try to be confident and keep your head up. Let her know what she has just lost. No suicide though. Avoid that as best as you can.

Hope I could help you.
dirtyboxer55
June 26th, 2014, 12:56 AM
if youre considering suiciding over her then you were probably too obsessed and thats why she left you
CharlieHorse
June 26th, 2014, 01:10 AM
if youre considering suiciding over her then you were probably too obsessed and thats why she left you

not necessarily
suicidal thoughts can come about after any breakup regardless of over-attachment or not. It's a sad, hurtful event, and a life changing one too. If overwhelmed, suicidal thoughts are not uncommon.
dirtyboxer55
June 26th, 2014, 01:15 AM
not necessarily
suicidal thoughts can come about after any breakup regardless of over-attachment or not. It's a sad, hurtful event, and a life changing one too. If overwhelmed, suicidal thoughts are not uncommon.

i don't see how you could get suicidal thoughts unless you were previously suicidal, or she was taking your house and everything you owned. theres so many other pleasures in life that i wouldn't want to leave those behind just because of one girl but maybe thats just me
CharlieHorse
June 26th, 2014, 01:20 AM
i don't see how you could get suicidal thoughts unless you were previously suicidal, or she was taking your house and everything you owned. theres so many other pleasures in life that i wouldn't want to leave those behind just because of one girl but maybe thats just me

how about you love someone and that person made you feel happy, and with them gone, you feel like you've lost life, and your will to live, as they were so important to you.

Suicide is complicated, and without experiencing the thoughts yourself, it could seem ridiculous.