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fastcar
June 24th, 2014, 03:56 PM
Alright, so my girlfriend and I had sex for the first time the other day but we both had to get to work so we didn't finish. Last night things got steamy and we started having sex. We were going for about 20-25 minutes until things slowed down. Long story short I never orgasmed. I told her it was because I jacked off earlier. This is true, but I still feel like I should've finished! I think I am either bisexual or straight curious because I jack off to gay porn. I don't really know where I'm going with this, but do any of you guys have any advice or thoughts? Thanks.

Stronger
June 24th, 2014, 03:59 PM
What exactly do you want advice on, I'm lost reading this post.

Zachary G
June 24th, 2014, 04:02 PM
Well, I am not sure what you are asking, but I think what you are looking for is a way to get through a sex encounter with your gf so that you finish. If you jack off to gay porn alot and think that this might be the problem with you not being able to finish, then close your eyes while you are doing her and think of some fantasy that you might have had when you were jacking off to a porn video -- see if that helps. Its all I have from what you have given me to go on. Good luck.

Catholic Guy
June 24th, 2014, 04:45 PM
Well even if you do jack off to gay porn that shouldn't stop you from having an orgasm in sex, maybe try again but don't slow down keep going

Just Sayin
June 24th, 2014, 05:05 PM
Well even if you do jack off to gay porn that shouldn't stop you from having an orgasm in sex, maybe try again but don't slow down keep going

Ya this seems like the best plan

beenthere
June 24th, 2014, 06:58 PM
You will be fine, first few times you get so much runnung in you head that its hard to keep focus. Just empty your mind and consentrait on what you are feeling it will happen. don't worry about holding it off and things like that, that will come in time. just relax and enjoy it.

Living For Love
June 25th, 2014, 08:02 AM
Puberty For Boys :arrow2: Relationships and Dating.

Menzis
June 27th, 2014, 07:55 PM
Alright, so my girlfriend and I had sex for the first time the other day but we both had to get to work so we didn't finish. Last night things got steamy and we started having sex. We were going for about 20-25 minutes until things slowed down. Long story short I never orgasmed. I told her it was because I jacked off earlier. This is true, but I still feel like I should've finished! I think I am either bisexual or straight curious because I jack off to gay porn. I don't really know where I'm going with this, but do any of you guys have any advice or thoughts? Thanks.

A friend of mine said when he had sex with a girl for the first time he couldn't orgasm either.

miley
June 27th, 2014, 08:01 PM
hugggg

AllTimeLoser
July 2nd, 2014, 06:27 AM
just keep trying, don't slow down

johny1996
July 2nd, 2014, 06:54 AM
Keep trying buddy, this could happen may be because of your first time and yeah one more thing some guys are like to watch lesbian porn so it means that they are lesbian?? you are just watching gay porn if you try it with someone then we can say you bi or gay.. but for now just keep trying..

Karkat
July 2nd, 2014, 04:23 PM
Keep trying buddy, this could happen may be because of your first time and yeah one more thing some guys are like to watch lesbian porn so it means that they are lesbian?? you are just watching gay porn if you try it with someone then we can say you bi or gay.. but for now just keep trying..

LOL Good point.

numbness
July 3rd, 2014, 11:22 AM
I think if its your first time quite a few guys have trouble finishing just keep trying

SkootuGurl
July 4th, 2014, 10:38 AM
You were probably just a little nervous, which makes it hard for guys to cum. Just relax and enjoy it, if you cum you cum, if you don't its no big deal.

SillyShyGuy
July 4th, 2014, 11:36 AM
It is not wrong to be aroused by guys. You should try saving up because it can help you finish when you are with your girlfriend.