Scared to try anything

[cpkid09]

so this might be kinda long so I'm sorry in advance. So me and one of my friends (guy) have been getting closer lately and he is being more open with me about his sex life and stuff (he is straight). I am basically gay and i think he knows because i talk about liking guys a lot but i'm not positive. Anyway i always stare at his bulge and when he adjusts or itches himself and i think he notices. He has a really nice body and a big cock because I've seen the outline while we are swimming. So last night i slept over and i jokingly said i can't sleep until you spoon me. Then he actually started to and he was in his underwear and about 5 minutes later i think i felt his dick start to get hard. I don't really know where i was going with this but i think i just want to know if i should try to offer him a blow job or just like try something with him when we are alone. I'm just nervous it will ruin our friendship. sorry this is so long

[deregisterme]

I'll always say in these situations, if you want to try something but are unsure how your friend would take a direct question of "do you want to J/O together?", try and bring up the topic more generally and see his reaction. For example use "what is your thoughts on 2 guys J/O together in general?". If he generally seems to dislike the idea, brush it off and leave it at that. If he has a more positive reaction, then you could push a little more

[Zachary G]

I'll always say in these situations, if you want to try something but are unsure how your friend would take a direct question of "do you want to J/O together?", try and bring up the topic more generally and see his reaction. For example use "what is your thoughts on 2 guys J/O together in general?". If he generally seems to dislike the idea, brush it off and leave it at that. If he has a more positive reaction, then you could push a little more

I have to agree with this statement, the direct approach is always the best because otherwise how will you ever find out if he would be partial to the idea or not? If you beat around the bush, you could always miss an opportunity and I am sure you dont want to do that.

[AlisterPSG]

Ok im guessing he wants to have an open friendship if he has made it clear hes straight and thinks you would be the best person to do stuff together because he could think you feel more comfortable rather than a other straight guy ask him if he wants to try more things with you if he says no or even takes offence say sorry forget about it im sure by the way things sound he will gladly say sure

Smiley Face :)

[Just Sayin]

I'll always say in these situations, if you want to try something but are unsure how your friend would take a direct question of "do you want to J/O together?", try and bring up the topic more generally and see his reaction. For example use "what is your thoughts on 2 guys J/O together in general?". If he generally seems to dislike the idea, brush it off and leave it at that. If he has a more positive reaction, then you could push a little more

I couldnt have said it better

[Jake111]

Ok im guessing he wants to have an open friendship if he has made it clear hes straight and thinks you would be the best person to do stuff together because he could think you feel more comfortable rather than a other straight guy ask him if he wants to try more things with you if he says no or even takes offence say sorry forget about it im sure by the way things sound he will gladly say sure

Smiley Face :)

This ^^ you can always just say it how it is and pass it off as a joke depeneding on his reaction

[CrazyPerson101]

Word to the wise, DON"T ask straight up.... Try to bring up the subject in a way where it doesn't lead back to you like " Oh dude, this morning on "such & such show" I saw these to guys kissing and or making put kinda thing and see how he reacts. You can tell alot about a person because they're bodies react to different emotions

[Canadian Dream]

I'll always say in these situations, if you want to try something but are unsure how your friend would take a direct question of "do you want to J/O together?", try and bring up the topic more generally and see his reaction. For example use "what is your thoughts on 2 guys J/O together in general?". If he generally seems to dislike the idea, brush it off and leave it at that. If he has a more positive reaction, then you could push a little more

Like everyone, I agree to this. It's probably your best bet, but if he refuses don't worry about it too much

[Hundred Spirited God]

it sounds like he likes you and you like him,nothing can go wrong if you two really like each other :),just don't take it too far until he's ready

[Stripling]

I'll always say in these situations, if you want to try something but are unsure how your friend would take a direct question of "do you want to J/O together?", try and bring up the topic more generally and see his reaction. For example use "what is your thoughts on 2 guys J/O together in general?". If he generally seems to dislike the idea, brush it off and leave it at that. If he has a more positive reaction, then you could push a little more

I think this is a good idea - and most people seem to as well

[jockeyboy97]

Yes I agree you need to be cautious, however your friend was spooning with you in his underwear and popped a boner. Now we as guys know that when we have boners it feels good to press against something or have your dick touched anyway. I think if he felt uncomfortable with his boner pressing against you he would have immediately turned away. He knew what was happening and what he was feeling, so yeah I think he is curious and maybe wants to experiment. Like some of the guys have said don't be direct by asking him hey you want to experiment, hint around it and try to have another sleep over and try to reenact the moment and see if he does it again, if so then you know he wants to experiment with you. This in my opinion because something very similar happened to me.
Good luck.

[ChaseDakoda]

Do what you want, but make sure its ok with him

[swimmerguy72]

Try to bring it up casually and see what his reaction is

[LokaChris]

I'll always say in these situations, if you want to try something but are unsure how your friend would take a direct question of "do you want to J/O together?", try and bring up the topic more generally and see his reaction. For example use "what is your thoughts on 2 guys J/O together in general?". If he generally seems to dislike the idea, brush it off and leave it at that. If he has a more positive reaction, then you could push a little more

Yea I agree with this guy.. try it out.. or just make a joke like you did when he spooned you

[Hideous]

If he's okay with it and you're okay with it I'd say go for it.

[Liven]

Don't ask to do anything. That could go positive or negative, don't risk it.

Always wait until he says something, otherwise the friendship will go straight down the drain.

[valamar]

Just go with what feels right

[ryne113]

Do what feels okay to you.