how do i not fall for any girls?

[Hundred Spirited God]

im tired of meeting girls and always falling for them,im god damn tired of it,and the marijuana wore off so im getting upset and pist,and falling for girls makes me weak

[dirtyboxer55]

please mr. rodger, don't be so obsessive

[CharlieHorse]

please mr. rodger, don't be so obsessive

twice so far you've called others obsessive.
obviously the term is relative, but identifying others as such isn't helpful.

to the OP,
I suffer from the same thing. I'll meet a girl, and i'll almost instantly feel attached to her, or fall for her if she's nice to me. I know it's ridiculous, and so i never act on it. It's painful to feel constantly in love with the wrong person. I always end up beating myself up about it anyway.

I'm sorry, I don't entirely know what to do or how to help. I haven't solved it for myself yet. I just thought that it might help that someone else understands.

To be honest though, you're a human, an animal like every other living animal. And the strongest animal instinct is to fuck and make babies. It's natural for you to feel attraction, and i know it can be frustrating and painful :/

[dirtyboxer55]

twice so far you've called others obsessive.
obviously the term is relative, but identifying others as such isn't helpful.

to the OP,
I suffer from the same thing. I'll meet a girl, and i'll almost instantly feel attached to her, or fall for her if she's nice to me. I know it's ridiculous, and so i never act on it. It's painful to feel constantly in love with the wrong person. I always end up beating myself up about it anyway.

I'm sorry, I don't entirely know what to do or how to help. I haven't solved it for myself yet. I just thought that it might help that someone else understands.

oh good catch I guess it's just for lack of a better word

[CharlieHorse]

oh good catch I guess it's just for lack of a better word

that's understandable.
I guess it could be seen as obsessive in some light. And in another way, we're all just obsessed with everything we do, which is why we do it.
:P
we're just hairless apes.

[Body odah Man]

You can't control the chemistry of the heart. Sorry :(

[Lee360TheCoder]

Well, I'm gay and because of that I must distance myself from guys. Just get your "thought process" known. And I've fallen for a guy before, it hurts, and it's going to hurt for awhile. Love, no matter how much will stay with you, your WHOLE life.

[Hundred Spirited God]

i thought about it,it's love that blinds you and makes you fall,what if i didn't have love?

[Living For Love]

OP banned. :locked: