Questions for bi girls?

[Shailene]

As Kinsey figured out, our sexuality doesn't fit in neat little boxes. I've been wondering more about this, and my own sexuality, and hoped I could get a sense of what its like for other girls here. So my questions are:

1) How old were you when you realized/thought you were bi?

2) Was there a defining moment when you knew you were bi?

3) Do you find you are equally attracted to both sexes, or one more than the other?

4) Do you find you tend to date other bi-girls as well, or mostly straight guys or lesbian girls?

5) Do you seek the same non-physical qualities in boys as you would in girls?

6) What do you find physically/sexually attractive in girls?

7) What do you find physically/sexually attractive in guys?

8) Have you ever been in, or would consider an open relationship (dating and being sexually active with other people)?

9) If yes to 8) do you introduce your different partners to one another or keep them separate?

10) What do you think is the most challenging/difficult part of being bi?

11) Do you think there are or would be significant differences for you dating or being in a relationship with a straight boy vs a bi boy? If so what?

12) Do you think there are or would be significant differences for you dating or being in a relationship with a lesbian vs a bi girl? If so what?


Thanks!!
Shay

[evgenia]

1) How old were you when you realized/thought you were bi? About 15

2) Was there a defining moment when you knew you were bi? Yes

3) Do you find you are equally attracted to both sexes, or one more than the other? More towards the girls ... 60/40

4) Do you find you tend to date other bi-girls as well, or mostly straight guys or lesbian girls? Not dating atm because I have a gf but not in a serious relationship

5) Do you seek the same non-physical qualities in boys as you would in girls? Yes, most definitely

6) What do you find physically/sexually attractive in girls? Mutual understanding, tenderness/gentleness, her body

7) What do you find physically/sexually attractive in guys? Same as above but his body but not too muscley

8) Have you ever been in, or would consider an open relationship (dating and being sexually active with other people)? Of course!

9) If yes to 8) do you introduce your different partners to one another or keep them separate? Probably keep them separate

10) What do you think is the most challenging/difficult part of being bi? Explaining to guys that my usual preference is for girls

11) Do you think there are or would be significant differences for you dating or being in a relationship with a straight boy vs a bi boy? If so what? Not really

12) Do you think there are or would be significant differences for you dating or being in a relationship with a lesbian vs a bi girl? If so what? Hmmmm maybe the thought of a lesbian being overpowering and not understanding that I like cute guys as well

It would be interesting to see answers to your own questions Shay!

[Blood]

1) How old were you when you realized/thought you were bi? Around 13 or 14.

2) Was there a defining moment when you knew you were bi? Not really. I just noticed that as I was getting older, I was attracted to girls and guys.

3) Do you find you are equally attracted to both sexes, or one more than the other? I'd like to think I'm equally attracted to both sexes.

4) Do you find you tend to date other bi-girls as well, or mostly straight guys or lesbian girls? I've only ever dated straight guys.

5) Do you seek the same non-physical qualities in boys as you would in girls? Yes.

6) What do you find physically/sexually attractive in girls? Nice boobs, a pretty smile, a nice butt, long hair, being physically fit, and nice eyes.

7) What do you find physically/sexually attractive in guys? Nice arms, a nice smile, nice eyes, and being physically fit.

8) Have you ever been in, or would consider an open relationship (dating and being sexually active with other people)? I haven't been in one but I would consider being in one. Not at the moment though seeing as I'm in a relationship.

9) If yes to 8) do you introduce your different partners to one another or keep them separate? Most likely introduce them.

10) What do you think is the most challenging/difficult part of being bi? Explaining it to people I suppose. And I guess being misunderstood; being bi doesn't mean we're greedy or "confused". We know what we like and it's both sexes.

11) Do you think there are or would be significant differences for you dating or being in a relationship with a straight boy vs a bi boy? If so what? I don't think there would be. The only difference would be that if he were bi we could talk about hot guys and girls together. :P

12) Do you think there are or would be significant differences for you dating or being in a relationship with a lesbian vs a bi girl? If so what? No, I don't really think so.

[DeeHaz]

1) How old were you when you realized/thought you were bi? Probably around 15

2) Was there a defining moment when you knew you were bi? Not really, sort of a gradual realisation

3) Do you find you are equally attracted to both sexes, or one more than the other? Ehhh I'm a little more towards guys, but only a bit.

4) Do you find you tend to date other bi-girls as well, or mostly straight guys or lesbian girls? I tend to date guys more

5) Do you seek the same non-physical qualities in boys as you would in girls? Mostly, yeah. I'm a bit more... masculine... than some other girls, so I guess I'm a bit butch. Dosen't work with guys

6) What do you find physically/sexually attractive in girls? I think ive explained it around here :P

7) What do you find physically/sexually attractive in guys? See above

8) Have you ever been in, or would consider an open relationship (dating and being sexually active with other people)? Yes, but only for group or threesome stuff

9) If yes to 8) do you introduce your different partners to one another or keep them separate? See above

10) What do you think is the most challenging/difficult part of being bi? Mostly religious/conservative idiots

11) Do you think there are or would be significant differences for you dating or being in a relationship with a straight boy vs a bi boy? If so what? Watching guys do anal does tend to make me want to suck dick less is about it

12) Do you think there are or would be significant differences for you dating or being in a relationship with a lesbian vs a bi girl? If so what? Yeah not really.

[Magg]

ok, here we go :3

1) How old were you when you realized/thought you were bi? 11. my first kiss with a girl was at 11 actually.

2) Was there a defining moment when you knew you were bi? that fist lesbian kiss :3

3) Do you find you are equally attracted to both sexes, or one more than the other? i love both the same

4) Do you find you tend to date other bi-girls as well, or mostly straight guys or lesbian girls? i date the 3 types. mostly bi girls i think.

5) Do you seek the same non-physical qualities in boys as you would in girls? yes

6) What do you find physically/sexually attractive in girls? abs, lips, breast, ass.

7) What do you find physically/sexually attractive in guys? muscles mostly.

8) Have you ever been in, or would consider an open relationship (dating and being sexually active with other people)? i was in an open relationship once.

9) If yes to 8) do you introduce your different partners to one another or keep them separate? we have known each others for many years, no introduction needed haha

10) What do you think is the most challenging/difficult part of being bi? to most people is telling their family or friends, but thats not a problem to me.

11) Do you think there are or would be significant differences for you dating or being in a relationship with a straight boy vs a bi boy? If so what? i dont think so.

12) Do you think there are or would be significant differences for you dating or being in a relationship with a lesbian vs a bi girl? If so what? i've been in a relationship with both. i think theres no big differences.

[Elysium]

Puberty for Girls :arrow: Teen Sexuality

[Shailene]

Thanks for posting guys!

So here are my answers Evgenia : ) :

1) 15

2) Yes, experiencing another girl go down on me

3) Generally more attracted to guys, but not by much more :)

4) So far I've only had boyfriends, but that will probably change

5) Generally the same non-physical qualities: confidence, being funny, sweet, etc.

6) For girls: pretty face, and a nice butt, I'm a sucker for fit blondes lol

7) For guys: handsome face, some muscles and a nice butt, A nice package doesn't hurt ;)

8) I am kind of in an open relationship right now

9) They all knew each other, before they met me so no surprises for them...

10) I think judgement from parents, teachers, etc

11) While the thought of being with a bi-guy(s) is hot ;) I think I would get jealous..

12) I would probably worry about making my lesbian gf jealous lol

Thanks again!

[christina2707]

1) How old were you when you realized/thought you were bi? around 12/13

2) Was there a defining moment when you knew you were bi? I found girls atractive, like boys

3) Do you find you are equally attracted to both sexes, or one more than the other? For a relationship more for boys

4) Do you find you tend to date other bi-girls as well, or mostly straight guys or lesbian girls? I date mostly boys, but open for the three types
5) Do you seek the same non-physical qualities in boys as you would in girls? yes

6) What do you find physically/sexually attractive in girls? eyes, figure, lips, ass
7) What do you find physically/sexually attractive in guys?eyes, muscles but not to much, ass

8) Have you ever been in, or would consider an open relationship (dating and being sexually active with other people)? i was in an open relationship

9) If yes to 8) do you introduce your different partners to one another or keep them separate? separate

10) What do you think is the most challenging/difficult part of being bi? i don´t know, the understanding from the christian people.... but I think in this times is nothing special

11) Do you think there are or would be significant differences for you dating or being in a relationship with a straight boy vs a bi boy? If so what? I dont think so.

12) Do you think there are or would be significant differences for you dating or being in a relationship with a lesbian vs a bi girl? If so what? same as above, The human count, we are all differnt

[Shailene]

Thanks Chrissy :) Think everyone agrees, being around really religious folks is never fun

[killer_queen]

Ooh, I like surveys :) Here we go...

1) How old were you when you realized/thought you were bi? 13

2) Was there a defining moment when you knew you were bi? Not really, it was just kind of a conclusion I came to.

3) Do you find you are equally attracted to both sexes, or one more than the other? I'm more romantically attracted to guys, but that's not to say I can't love girls.

4) Do you find you tend to date other bi-girls as well, or mostly straight guys or lesbian girls? I honestly don't know any lesbian girls, but I've been attracted to bi-girls.

5) Do you seek the same non-physical qualities in boys as you would in girls? Yes.

6) What do you find physically/sexually attractive in girls? Curly, long-ish hair and a nice smile

7) What do you find physically/sexually attractive in guys? Lots of body hair/muscles

8) Have you ever been in, or would consider an open relationship (dating and being sexually active with other people)? Probably not

9) If yes to 8) do you introduce your different partners to one another or keep them separate?

10) What do you think is the most challenging/difficult part of being bi? Facing the family, and being attracted to straight girls lol

11) Do you think there are or would be significant differences for you dating or being in a relationship with a straight boy vs a bi boy? If so what? As long as the straight boy is okay with my sexuality, I don't see any huge differences :)

12) Do you think there are or would be significant differences for you dating or being in a relationship with a lesbian vs a bi girl? If so what? I mean I bi girl would probably know more about what I'm going through, but again, people are people and I can't see any huge differences.

[anrigirl]

1) How old were you when you realized/thought you were bi?14

2) Was there a defining moment when you knew you were bi?Yes, when a girl kissed me and ate me out.

3) Do you find you are equally attracted to both sexes, or one more than the other?About 70%more for girls.

4) Do you find you tend to date other bi-girls as well, or mostly straight guys or lesbian girls? I am single atm, but I have a few FWB which are bi and lesbian.

5) Do you seek the same non-physical qualities in boys as you would in girls? Yes

6) What do you find physically/sexually attractive in girls?Ass, eyes, lips

7) What do you find physically/sexually attractive in guys?Same as above

8) Have you ever been in, or would consider an open relationship (dating and being sexually active with other people)?Yes I would

9) If yes to 8) do you introduce your different partners to one another or keep them separate?I'll do

10) What do you think is the most challenging/difficult part of being bi? To fit in with what society wants with regards to traditions and religion.

11) Do you think there are or would be significant differences for you dating or being in a relationship with a straight boy vs a bi boy? If so what?I would think twice about dating a bi-boy.

12) Do you think there are or would be significant differences for you dating or being in a relationship with a lesbian vs a bi girl? If so what?I have no problem with dating a bi or lesbian girl!

[Babs]

1) How old were you when you realized/thought you were bi?
Initially at 13 ish. I wasn't fully sure until recently

2) Was there a defining moment when you knew you were bi?
It was a gradual process, and I think the process is still... processing.

3) Do you find you are equally attracted to both sexes, or one more than the other?
I prefer girls. Like, 70/30.

4) Do you find you tend to date other bi-girls as well, or mostly straight guys or lesbian girls?
I haven't really dated a lot.

5) Do you seek the same non-physical qualities in boys as you would in girls?
Mostly.

6) What do you find physically/sexually attractive in girls?
Somewhat fit. Good hygiene. Nice smile. Nice eyes. A little Taller than me at least.

7) What do you find physically/sexually attractive in guys?
Again, somewhat fit. Good hygiene. Nice smile. Nice eyes. Tall-ish.

8) Have you ever been in, or would consider an open relationship (dating and being sexually active with other people)? I never been in one, and I doubt I would consider it.

9) If yes to 8) do you introduce your different partners to one another or keep them separate?

10) What do you think is the most challenging/difficult part of being bi?
Monosexism, bi-erasure. Even some people in the LGBT community pass bi folks off as "greedy" or "confused".

11) Do you think there are or would be significant differences for you dating or being in a relationship with a straight boy vs a bi boy? If so what?
Ummm I think a bi boy might be a little more understanding of being queer. Not much difference I would think.

12) Do you think there are or would be significant differences for you dating or being in a relationship with a lesbian vs a bi girl? If so what?
Maybe not much. I could be wrong on that though.