Need advice in coming out to my family

[Frogman1238]

I'm bisexual and I've come out to all my friends (which isn't many since I have like 3), but I want to come out to my family. I know my parents will accept me and not be opposed to it because they thought I was gay a few years ago and told me but it's the rest of my family.

My dad's side is Catholic and my mom's side is Church of Christ with more and a few relatives on her side being very conservative. And to add on to that my parents are currently going through a divorce so I'm scared to add extra stress onto them; but they've been taking ages to get everything over with and I've just wanted to come out more and more lately because it feels like it's causing me so much more stress than it used to.

[jwrj53]

Normally I would say yes, but I think you are right about the divorce thing. Just do whatever makes you comfortable.

[JamesSuperBoy]

Does the rest of your family really need to know?

[Zachary G]

I think coming out to your parents would be a good thing, especially if they are as accepting as you say they are, but as for the rest of the family, I dont think its really any of their business, this should be something between you and your immediate family and no one else. But you have to do what makes you feel comfortable when you think the timing is right. Good luck and know you have support here on VT.

[Shailene]

Hi Vangash, not sure what's the main reason for your stress, but if your parents love you and you feel that they do, I would maybe give them a bit of time to work through the divorce first. I can only imagine the pressure everyone must be feeling right now, but I'm sure your parents will be there for you regardless. If its important for you to tell them now, then its your choice, but I would keep it simple - it doesn't seem there would have to be any drama. Also, if its important to you let your extended family know, then I would open up to your cousins first. They'll probably be more understanding, even if your more conservative aunts and uncles aren't. Best wishes! You have loving parents and good friends, you'll be o.k. :)