Friend's sister

[AnonymousAuthor]

So, I have this one friend that I've known for ages. We're really good friends, so I'm often hanging out over at his house for fun. He has a younger sister, about 11 years old I believe, who is rather fond of me as well. Now, this girl is very comfortable around me and other people. She often has the habit of changing in the living room for convenience, or just stripping down for comfort. She'll lounge around with us on the couch or wherever we are, either topless or just completely naked. She also enjoys removing her swimming suit before lying on a towel for the sake of drying off quicker. She's been doing this for years, and shows no signs of stopping. I'm fairly used to it, and it makes her brother noticeably more uncomfortable than it does me or her.
I was wondering, since she's starting to mature (breast growth/pubic hair and whatnot), should I just continue to ignore it, or should I object, or what? I'm conflicted. Thanks for your advice in advance.

[Swagging god]

I think unless you absolutely object and that you should just ignore it, she obviously is very open and comfortable with you seeing her body, so just be chill and go with it. If it does bother you, then talk to her in private and tell her how it makes you and her brother feel. Good luck!

[Zachary G]

I think, if you are really concerned, that you should pull her to the side one day and tell her how you feel and also express how its making her brother feel so that she will get some kind of understanding of the situation. Maybe its time for her to have that girl-to-girl talk and you are the one to give it to her.

[Blood]

Seeing as you're just friends with her older brother and not really her, I don't think it's your place to tell her anything about how she dresses or undresses in her home. That's more of a familial issue if it's an issue at all.

[Living For Love]

Questions for Both Boys and Girls :arrow2: Family and Friends.

[Magg]

if you like it, dont say anything lol
if you dont like it, then talk to her ^^

[Body odah Man]

So, I have this one friend that I've known for ages. We're really good friends, so I'm often hanging out over at his house for fun. He has a younger sister, about 11 years old I believe, who is rather fond of me as well. Now, this girl is very comfortable around me and other people. She often has the habit of changing in the living room for convenience, or just stripping down for comfort. She'll lounge around with us on the couch or wherever we are, either topless or just completely naked. She also enjoys removing her swimming suit before lying on a towel for the sake of drying off quicker. She's been doing this for years, and shows no signs of stopping. I'm fairly used to it, and it makes her brother noticeably more uncomfortable than it does me or her.
I was wondering, since she's starting to mature (breast growth/pubic hair and whatnot), should I just continue to ignore it, or should I object, or what? I'm conflicted. Thanks for your advice in advance.

I really think this is a thing for her parents/brother to handle. I ALSO think you're in a really really bad position here legal wise as her parents are probably not going to be thrilled at u seeing their daughter semi/totally naked at that age. So like I said, this is family business that you should NEVER have been subjected to and that can rlly get you in trouble if parents find out. I'd try to get the brother to tell parents about it so it can be ended as soon as possible-safest way and least chance of trouble
Good luck

[ChaseDakoda]

Do you like her? If so tell friend he has a great sister and want to date her. 1 or 2 years apart is ok.

[Jean Poutine]

I ALSO think you're in a really really bad position here legal wise as her parents are probably not going to be thrilled at u seeing their daughter semi/totally naked at that age.

No she isn't.

Committing a crime requires intent. Here it's just her friend's sister undressing everywhere, whether she is or isn't there. She's not doing anything to encourage or manipulate the girl. She just happens to be there when she does it. She's not taking pictures, not touching her, not undressing her...she's just a bystander.

[Body odah Man]

No she isn't.

Committing a crime requires intent. Here it's just her friend's sister undressing everywhere, whether she is or isn't there. She's not doing anything to encourage or manipulate the girl. She just happens to be there when she does it. She's not taking pictures, not touching her, not undressing her...she's just a bystander.

Oh, wait it's a she. NVM, I failed to look at gender and thought OP was a guy, my bad. In that case I stick to the end of my post- she should have brother deal with it with the parents for best results. An outsider interfering with family matters rarely ends up well.