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AlisterPSG
June 22nd, 2014, 07:19 PM
When im showering or changing at cadets I can get.boners alot from mosty anything sextual now is it ok or not because it looks gay and how could I cover it up?

Stronger
June 22nd, 2014, 07:47 PM
You shouldn't be embarrassed, because every guy in that locker room has had a boner before, so no it is not gay at all, you shouldn't worry about it.

Swagging god
June 22nd, 2014, 07:51 PM
Yea it's natural, just be chill about it and do what you gotta do. All guys have this happen at one point in time, I would guess, I know I have. I have learned to just go on and let my dick do as it pleases

Hardcatch
June 23rd, 2014, 10:30 AM
Don't worry about it. It happens to everyguy, some more often than others. Just go about your business and act normal. Trust me, your not the only one that will happen to. If you view it as acceptable, others will hopefully think the same way. At this stage, if guys make some stupid comment, its their immaturity surfacing.

Lost in the Echo
June 23rd, 2014, 10:33 AM
As mentioned, it's pretty common. But, to avoid this, just try to think of whatever is non-arousing to you.

fast8
June 23rd, 2014, 10:34 AM
Its natural it happens to more then one guy

AlisterPSG
June 23rd, 2014, 06:00 PM
Thanks for the replys guys its just in some situations it can be cool with some or really badly embarrassing because some of my friends can be very judge mental and luckly for me ive only been the one watching the embarrassing guy so far but im going away for a 2 week camp so things could change.

But i will stick to your advice guys :)

CrazyPerson101
June 23rd, 2014, 09:35 PM
I agree with them ^^ You shouldn't worry about getting a boner in front of people ( No matter how embarrassing are whatever )

pjones
June 24th, 2014, 06:27 PM
past few months when i change with my friends or around anyone really i get hard. doesn't last long but happens all the time. happens to my friends but not as often as i get them.

Canadian Dream
June 24th, 2014, 07:27 PM
It isn't weird at all, almost every guy gets random boners at some point in his life. Best way to avoid it is to try not to think of arousing things.

swimmerguy72
June 25th, 2014, 12:28 AM
Don't be embarrassed, it happens to everyone at some point. Try thinking about other things to prevent it.

Bull
June 25th, 2014, 05:33 AM
Not at all unusual. Nothing gay about it. It is natural. See it a good bit in locker room, and it is nothing to worry about.

VirtualGuy012
June 25th, 2014, 11:52 AM
Im sure others are asking the same question you are. Don't worry about it. Its normal

Fireangel
June 25th, 2014, 12:00 PM
When im showering or changing at cadets I can get.boners alot from mosty anything sextual now is it ok or not because it looks gay and how could I cover it up?

Don't worry It's pretty normal and common. Had you seen other guys with their boners?.. How old are you?

AlisterPSG
June 25th, 2014, 12:58 PM
sure i have seen a couple of times when we were at camp a friend of mine showed his under his boxers but in the shower its kind of different im 15 btw

Ignuzo
June 25th, 2014, 05:35 PM
it is normal but i know how awkward that can feel :) just try and relax and dont think about it, that way you wont think about anything sexual it wont come up :P

AlisterPSG
June 25th, 2014, 06:38 PM
i have found a way to stop getting one by just telling mmyself no dont do it.
as i have said some of the people in cadets can be judge mental and me and my friends are always engaged in conversations whist in the shower and half the time its about sexual things and in the uk if you dont know for some its "you have boner in front of guys showering gay" this is the smack me and my friends would get from guys who are really homophobic (not saying we are gay)

valamar
June 26th, 2014, 12:34 PM
Ya. it just happens

AlisterPSG
June 26th, 2014, 07:31 PM
as anyone been at a camp like thing with their friends in a communal shower before?

peyton2000
July 18th, 2014, 01:47 PM
I get a boner when I shower after wrestling practice with other guys on my team too even when there not hot

eggs2006
July 18th, 2014, 10:40 PM
Don't be embarrassed, it happens to everyone at some point. Try thinking about other things to prevent it.

Yeah, if you think about your grama or something, you might only get a semi boner, and that would only make you look bigger and better.

xTropicDomx
July 23rd, 2014, 08:02 PM
When im showering or changing at cadets I can get.boners alot from mosty anything sextual now is it ok or not because it looks gay and how could I cover it up?

It's normal, I'd just embrace it, nothing you can really do to cover up besides cover it with a towel or with your hands :)