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Toptoptop
June 21st, 2014, 11:43 PM
Have anybody thought you were gay or bi and any other orientation and ended up being straight? Like I feel like I've been bi for about 1 1/2 year but idk what I am

Karkat
June 22nd, 2014, 12:01 AM
My sexual orientation hasn't really ever changed.

Babs
June 22nd, 2014, 12:19 AM
Well, I used to think I was straight so maybe it works both ways.

TurboDieselBandit
June 22nd, 2014, 12:34 AM
Mmmm, well I'm still confused. I find girls attractive and really find some guys attractive but I think I'd have a hard time marrying a guy mentally. The guys I do like are very few and far between; expecially at my school so being in that environment "straightens" me out. :P

Hudor
June 22nd, 2014, 12:39 AM
Have anybody thought you were gay or bi and any other orientation and ended up being straight? Like I feel like I've been bi for about 1 1/2 year but idk what I am

I think that could be possible for a person who felt eager to label themselves when they were young, lacking maturity and driven by hormones. When that person would grow older, the hormonal barrage would recede and their maturity would grow allowing them to completely grasp their sexuality.
For example a guy who may have experimented with another at 13 and labelled himself as gay/bi could grow older and discover he actually had nothing for guys and he's actually straight.
Just a hypothesis, not a generalised statement.

MyPlague2014
June 22nd, 2014, 02:16 PM
Never happened to me

CrazyPerson101
June 22nd, 2014, 02:30 PM
Actually , it was the opposite where I thought I was straight but wound up being bi :)

churris
June 22nd, 2014, 02:40 PM
I did. I didn't really ever labeled myself, just tried to put a name to my feelings. But I did thought that I liked girls and so I was bi, only to realize years later that I'm actually straight and only think girls are pretty :P

I think it works both ways though. Don't force a label on you if you're not ready, you like what you like.

jwrj53
June 24th, 2014, 03:57 PM
I have no clue what I am. Used to be completely hetero (atleast how I felt), slowly becoming biromantic, and now I feel almost bisexual. Shrug, maybe its a phase? i dont care really

Zachary G
June 24th, 2014, 04:32 PM
I used to think I was straight, but then thought I was bi, only to find out that I was gay all along.

Shailene
June 26th, 2014, 04:58 PM
I think no one is perfectly straight or gay. Kinsey said humans have a range of sexuality. I always found girls pretty, but was never sexually attracted to them till recently. While boys generally do it for me, there are some girls that make me weak in my knees lol. I figure as long as you're happy and the other person is too, what does it matter if they're a boy or girl :)