She's Drunk - Yay or Nay?

[AlexanderTheGreat]

Hi!
So yesterday I was at a party and this girl I really like was a little bit drunk. She started kissing and making out with so many people and she is 15 (so am i) the party we were at was full of 18 year olds. I took her aside and tried to talk some sense into her. I gave her the usual drunk friend talk and she took it onboard. Then she went to kiss me and I refused because she was really drunk.
Was this the right thing to do? Should I have kissed her and made out? Let me know so I can stop thinking about it!

[Jackjackattack]

You did the right thing. I know it probably doesn't feel like it because you like her but if she tries that when she's sober then you know she likes you. Good job.

[Daniella98]

Lets hope she remembers and thank you for your noble behavior. There are not many boys like you.

[plebble]

Of course you did the right thing! Kissing her may have been a huge mistake

[Elysium]

You definitely did the right thing. She may have been humiliated once she realized what happened and remember, you can in no way make rational decisions while intoxicated, and therefore you cannot provide consent - even if you're the one instigating it. The other party should have enough responsibility to refuse, as you did.

[Melodic]

I'm actually amazed that you had more maturity than the 18 year olds at that party. I really hope she remembers you doing that.

[Karkat]

Bravo! You absolutely did the right thing.

[PinkFloyd]

While she was drunk, she was not able to make good judgment calls. Even though it wasn't sexual, she wasn't (legally speaking) able to consent. You did the right thing.

[AlexanderTheGreat]

Thanks guys. I feel a lot better now :)

[Karkat]

Thanks guys. I feel a lot better now :)

That's good. You should. :)

[Left Now]

Thanks guys. I feel a lot better now :)

You did exactly the right thing and I appreciate it.However,let me tell another thing to you too;well you know it maybe some kind of personal opinion but I don't think there is any harm in hearing it.

"Never get drunk;Or at least do not get drunk while you are in a crowded place such as a party."

Once again,you did the exact thing which should have been done!I really appreciate that!Good Luck.

[MyPlague2014]

Kissing would have been fine as for doing more just as long as she was the one initiating it it probally wouldnt had been a problem

[CrazyPerson101]

Hi!
So yesterday I was at a party and this girl I really like was a little bit drunk. She started kissing and making out with so many people and she is 15 (so am i) the party we were at was full of 18 year olds. I took her aside and tried to talk some sense into her. I gave her the usual drunk friend talk and she took it onboard. Then she went to kiss me and I refused because she was really drunk.
Was this the right thing to do? Should I have kissed her and made out? Let me know so I can stop thinking about it!


You did the right thing. You didn't take advantage of her and that was the right thing to do, If she did it when she was sober, then it would have been different. How do you think she'd feel... wait know, how do you think you'd feel if you had been her and she took advantage of you ? Great job dude

[Hudor]

I'm actually amazed that you had more maturity than the 18 year olds at that party. I really hope she remembers you doing that.

Yeah this ^

[Body odah Man]

Hi!
So yesterday I was at a party and this girl I really like was a little bit drunk. She started kissing and making out with so many people and she is 15 (so am i) the party we were at was full of 18 year olds. I took her aside and tried to talk some sense into her. I gave her the usual drunk friend talk and she took it onboard. Then she went to kiss me and I refused because she was really drunk.
Was this the right thing to do? Should I have kissed her and made out? Let me know so I can stop thinking about it!

You did the right thing. U tried to stop her from making a fool of herself cuz she'd been drinking, which was nice. Also you didn't take advantage of her inebriated state like most other people would have- shows ur a kind person in the end

[AlexanderTheGreat]

Cheers guys.

[Miserabilia]

yes that is the right thing. As you figured yourself she is drunk and if you let her it would have probably been awkward afterwards.

[Hudor]

You did absolutely the right thing.

[Croconaw]

You did the right thing. You should be proud of yourself. Not many people are like you. :D

[Salader]

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[Menzis]

Hi!
So yesterday I was at a party and this girl I really like was a little bit drunk. She started kissing and making out with so many people and she is 15 (so am i) the party we were at was full of 18 year olds. I took her aside and tried to talk some sense into her. I gave her the usual drunk friend talk and she took it onboard. Then she went to kiss me and I refused because she was really drunk.
Was this the right thing to do? Should I have kissed her and made out? Let me know so I can stop thinking about it!

My first kiss was actually with a drunk girl when I was 15, I was drunk myself too, and I was hugging everyone, but she was kissing everyone. I guess it's not really that big of a deal to kiss people, but you still did a good thing.

[matt_tgr]

Oh yes, this was probably the best decision you could've made at that moment

[ViolinPro]

A request to God or whoever the hell is up there

MORE GUYS LIKE THIS PLEASE^^^

[bob97]

If she remembers it will pay off for you in the end. She knows your a really nice guy and you care about her. If she's smart she'll want to be with you. Good decision

[johny1996]

Yo buddy you did the right thing.. hats off to you.. :coolthumb:

[LouBerry]

Hi!
So yesterday I was at a party and this girl I really like was a little bit drunk. She started kissing and making out with so many people and she is 15 (so am i) the party we were at was full of 18 year olds. I took her aside and tried to talk some sense into her. I gave her the usual drunk friend talk and she took it onboard. Then she went to kiss me and I refused because she was really drunk.
Was this the right thing to do? Should I have kissed her and made out? Let me know so I can stop thinking about it!

You did the right thing. Even if she asked you to and tried to make you do something, she wasn't thinking clearly, and therefor you would be taking advantage of her.

[CharlieHorse]

how is this even a question, of course that was the right thing. :P
taking care of friends and preventing them from doing things they would regret when drunk is what good friends do :)

And good job for being a decent human being when around drunk girls. A lot of douchebaggy guys would have taken advantage of her. It's good to know you're not one of them.

[AlexanderTheGreat]

Thanks guys, today I was with her all day , both of us sober, and we just started making out, I guess it payed off :)