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Babs
June 21st, 2014, 05:32 PM
For me, its my grandma. She's in favor of gay marriage but she still sees it as an abomination...

TheN3rdyOutcast
June 21st, 2014, 06:20 PM
My dad. He beat me this morning because my puppy was on the couch. Imagine what would happen if he found out that his son was gay.

They'd be scraping my intestines off the walls for weeks.

Blood
June 21st, 2014, 06:38 PM
My parents and my grandparents. They would never approve.

Daniella98
June 21st, 2014, 06:58 PM
Oh I thought you meant like middle east or some african countries wherenyou get killed for being gay.

Karkat
June 23rd, 2014, 12:56 PM
My parents. Even if I told them I was asexual (grey-a), they'd think something was wrong with me. Plus, if I got married to my boyfriend, they'd be really confused.

I think they secretly don't want me to marry anyways, but at the same time, they'd think something was wrong with me, you know?

Magg
June 23rd, 2014, 06:04 PM
i'm bi and my family, friends and the entire school knows it, so that's not an issue to me.

CosmicNoodle
June 23rd, 2014, 06:15 PM
Yep, anyone in the world...that about covers it. Also I'm counting people in space

Basically any sentient lifeforms, not comfortable yet.

sqishy
June 23rd, 2014, 07:04 PM
Grandparents.

Nic0 Fiend
June 23rd, 2014, 10:43 PM
My parents... My dad will legit try to kill me...

fast8
June 23rd, 2014, 10:47 PM
Yea all my family and friends

Cognizant
June 23rd, 2014, 11:04 PM
my grandparents.

i don't really have a valid reason, other than
1) they don't really need to know anyways
2) i have a slight hunch they disapprove of it

lumiadots
June 29th, 2014, 12:28 AM
my fucking dad oh my god.
he would literally throw me out on the streets.

Gamma Male
June 29th, 2014, 12:46 AM
I've already come out to my family, but I'm not completely sure whether or not my extended family knows. I don't really talk to them much, but my sisters and parents do, so they might've told them. I'm not sure. Either way, my one remaining grandma is a registered democrat.:)

A few months ago the prospect of anyone knowing I was gay, especially my family, just seemed absolutely horrifying. But now that I'm out it doesn't seem like that big a deal. I don't think my mom likes it very much, but she hasn't really said anything explicitly negative either though. I mean, at least one "it's okay, I still love you" would've been nice and all. I think she's mostly just disappointed that I've derived her of the tough guy, alpha male, countryboi son she's always wanted.

But I'm sure she'll get over it when I'm making $120,000 a year and supporting her because I actually studied and worked hard instead of knocking up some prep and becoming a truck driver. :lol:

Remora
June 29th, 2014, 01:21 AM
Let's see...
Okay, the list of people is too long, i'll post a picture instead.
http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/b/b3/World-map-2004-cia-factbook-large-1.7m-whitespace-removed.jpg

hipster101
June 29th, 2014, 10:10 PM
Yes. My grandparets

Melodic
June 29th, 2014, 10:13 PM
I don't have anything to come out as, but if I did I wouldnt tell half of my family. Bonus points if it happened to be interracial.

Lee360TheCoder
June 30th, 2014, 01:43 AM
My dad! The only person I can come out to is gim. I would never do it!!! Either way... :P

phuckphace
June 30th, 2014, 02:24 AM
parents, family, extended family and about two thirds of my friends and coworkers. so pretty much errybody.

Croconaw
July 2nd, 2014, 02:32 PM
I can't tell my grandma.

Body odah Man
July 2nd, 2014, 02:35 PM
My parents... My dad will legit try to kill me...

I'm sorry :(

ChaseDakoda
July 2nd, 2014, 02:45 PM
I am have nothing but to say to choose your sexual preferance and it is not what your parents expected what do you think the reaction will be?

Boys are to grow up in fathers footstep and produce grandchildren, how do you think when you announce NO Grandchildren by me?

do you understand?

CrazyPerson101
July 6th, 2014, 03:08 AM
My family pretty much.....

dame
July 6th, 2014, 04:11 AM
I have no problem telling people that I'm gay, if you have an issue with it you can suck my dick. You don't need to be in my life if you can accept me for who I am.

Hudor
July 6th, 2014, 04:24 AM
sadly most of my family is homophobic.

xXEverReadyXx
July 6th, 2014, 10:27 AM
My father, because I hate him and don't want him in my life (im not gonna list the reasons why, too many) soooo yea :/
Though my mother is incredibly loving and supportive when it comes to my sexual orientation.

Ben_Frost
July 6th, 2014, 11:19 AM
Anyone in my family, only the closest of my friends do know. I'm not so keen on coming out to anyone anyway.

ECSTASY
July 6th, 2014, 11:44 AM
my sister
her husband
my friends , even the closest ones
all of my relatives
my grandparents would even kill me if they were alive
society

Djm1999
November 29th, 2014, 10:43 PM
My grandmother. She thinks its a choice and counseling can fix it.

Elysium
November 29th, 2014, 10:58 PM
My grandmother. She thinks its a choice and counseling can fix it.
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