Friends place vs me

[The anonymous one]

I hope this is the right place to post this so here goes.

My friend has a really nice house, hot tub pool big tv and a few good gaming systems. He is constantly inviting me over to his place. The problem is that my place is just not that nice and i don't really have much in the way of things to do with other people over here. So when i do invite him over we just end up going back to his place anyway quite soon after. I feel really inadequate as a friend because there is just not any thing we can figure out to do here. I don't have much money and I really want to be able to not feel as if he is the one doing all the nice things and i am just piggy backing on him. Help! What can i do!

[Hudor]

Do something special for him or give him something special that doesn’t necessarily have to be expensive but feels nice and fits his tastes and interests.

[CrazyPerson101]

I hope this is the right place to post this so here goes.

My friend has a really nice house, hot tub pool big tv and a few good gaming systems. He is constantly inviting me over to his place. The problem is that my place is just not that nice and i don't really have much in the way of things to do with other people over here. So when i do invite him over we just end up going back to his place anyway quite soon after. I feel really inadequate as a friend because there is just not any thing we can figure out to do here. I don't have much money and I really want to be able to not feel as if he is the one doing all the nice things and i am just piggy backing on him. Help! What can i do!


I understand what you're going through, My friend Luke had alot of nice things and I didn't have what he had but one thing we did together was ride our scooters and bikes and stuff like that outside. I tried to think of different things I had and he had that we could both do.... Try finding something you both like to do that ya'll can do together :)

[Living For Love]

You shouldn't feel bad about it. If he's a good friend, he's not going to judge you about the fact that you have less things at home than he has. Try to find something you both can do at your place and that doesn't require expensive stuff like gaming stations.

[JamesSuperBoy]

He invites you because of friendship - I guess you get along so its not just you piggy backing.

[Whight]

If he's a good friend, he'll understand the differences and won't mind them. Also, if he's always inviting you over, then you should feel like it's piggybacking. It's his choice. He probably just really enjoys your company and thinks you two will have more fun over at his place.
Doubt he really minds it.

[Menzis]

I hope this is the right place to post this so here goes.

My friend has a really nice house, hot tub pool big tv and a few good gaming systems. He is constantly inviting me over to his place. The problem is that my place is just not that nice and i don't really have much in the way of things to do with other people over here. So when i do invite him over we just end up going back to his place anyway quite soon after. I feel really inadequate as a friend because there is just not any thing we can figure out to do here. I don't have much money and I really want to be able to not feel as if he is the one doing all the nice things and i am just piggy backing on him. Help! What can i do!

Wow, i'm in the EXACT same situation as you are, you can message me if you want and talk about it.