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green white
June 20th, 2014, 11:43 PM
I ask my friend, how to change orientation. and he said: "You can change your orientation (gay) with look straight porn and you must always say, 'I'm straight'"
So, start yesterday I always say "I'm straight"
Is it can change my orientation?
:cool:

Croconaw
June 20th, 2014, 11:49 PM
Your friend is stupid. You can't change your orientation.

Hudor
June 21st, 2014, 12:35 AM
I ask my friend, how to change orientation. and he said: "You can change your orientation (gay) with look straight porn and you must always say, 'I'm straight'"
So, start yesterday I always say "I'm straight"
Is it can change my orientation?
:cool:

Your friend is suggesting you to condition your mind to be in denial which is wrong. The bare truth is that you cannot change your sexuality no matter what and denial is only a waste of your energy and your peace of mind.

Dalcourt
June 21st, 2014, 01:00 AM
You can deny your orientation but not change it, sorry. Watching porn won't help at all.

Star Wolf
June 21st, 2014, 01:08 AM
Your friend is suggesting you to condition your mind to be in denial which is wrong. The bare truth is that you cannot change your sexuality no matter what and denial is only a waste of your energy and your peace of mind.

Yes, this is true. Your sexuality is as it is, and you shouldn't have to feel ashamed or like you have to change it for someone else.

CosmicNoodle
June 21st, 2014, 03:06 AM
Your friend is stupid. You can't change your orientation.

Yep ^
Your friends a dum ass.

Gamma Male
June 21st, 2014, 03:27 AM
You can't. It won't work. If you're gay, you're gay. Might as well just try to get over it now instead of going into denial.

HazwoldTheElder
June 21st, 2014, 10:01 AM
You can't, if you think you can, don't try. If your friend says you can, or you should, he's an asshole and/or a bigot and just dumb. You should be happy with who you are, and if you aren't you're just lying to yourself, you won't enjoy relationships because there'll be nothing in it because it's the wrong gender

Babs
June 21st, 2014, 05:11 PM
No, your friend is very ignorant. You can choose to be in only hetero relationships but you can't actually change your orientation. Even if you follow through with this method and you think it worked, it hasn't.
Why do you want to be straight? What's wrong with being gay? Why are you in denial? Embrace it, believe me when I say it will make you feel so much better.

matt_tgr
June 21st, 2014, 05:16 PM
Your friend is one hell of an idiot... You can deny it, but it won't change your orientation.

TheN3rdyOutcast
June 21st, 2014, 06:34 PM
Your friend is full of **** . I've tried to change my oreintation, and looking at straight porn, only made me feel awkward and a bit wrong.

green white
June 21st, 2014, 11:24 PM
deny my orientation, it is wrong?
Because in my religion there are 2 opinions for bi.
One of them is a sin and other opinion is not sin

Babs
June 21st, 2014, 11:34 PM
deny my orientation, it is wrong?
Because in my religion there are 2 opinions for bi.
One of them is a sin and other opinion is not sin

Yes I actually think it is wrong. Its not healthy to deny who you are and your desires.
I'm guessing you want to change your orientation because of your religion says its wrong. Well its not. Hell, people were gay before christianity existed.

Elvalight
June 21st, 2014, 11:46 PM
I'm asexual and I know that I can't simply change that. I can tell myself that I'm truly interested in doing "it"(lol) with someone, but even if I do my body isn't going to be interested. It's like a girl telling herself to have a period or someone telling the sun not to rise. We're all different and difference is beauty.