Have you ever chosen between two people? How?!

[Miserabilia]

Okay.
First of I'm hopeless on this entire area and subject.
I mean maybe in theory I'm not completely stupid but yes in real life I am.


So basicly.
There was this one girl who I've always liked, for sooo long now, and I thought I was over her but I still get awkward around her, and all that stupid stuff.
Let's say girl #1.

Now, there is this other girl, and I think she's great, and she's funny and awesome and basicly just great.
Let's say girl #2.

Now, girls are pretty much a complete mystery to me with this stuff, and whether they want to be friends or more.
So I have no idea, about what they think of me.

Basicly I gave up on #1 a long time ago, because I just couldn't do it. Something may have worked out but I was kinda stupid but mostly just too awkward.
And mostly recently I have started liking girl #2 more and more, and I think (but hey I don't even know) I feel something for her, sometimes alot sometimes a little, and I can really get along with her well.

My situation is that suddenly #1 seems to be talking to me again, even though I've basicly ignored her for a year just to avoid getting myself all awkward, and I've found that now talking to her is actualy okay.

WHAT DO I DO?!?!
How am I supposed to choose between this?
I know saying I'll choose between them sounds selfish and stupid but this is just what the situation is like socialy, I mean I can't talk to one without getting an irrated look from the other.
It's like suddenly there's this whole world opening up to me. Double.

/:

[Body odah Man]

There's no easy way to choose sadly. U must pick one and try your luck I'm afraid. Try following ur heart (cliche ik)

[Karkat]

Hah. Well I've had to do it before, but the choice wasn't easy- not to mention I was WITH one of them kinda sorta. (We were on the way out, my choice was to give our relationship another try or to move on)

I had to look at what I thought I'd be happy with. What would work out the best for me for once- a LOT of what held me back from ending my relationship altogether was that I knew my ex needed someone to be there for him. I couldn't do it at first. But then, eventually, I was faced with the choice and it was not easy at all.

But honestly, in the end, you're the only one who is going to know which decision is the right one to make.

[Plasma]

Which one of the two is just a crush, and which one do you have an emotional connection with? You should always go for who you have a connection with, and that sounds like 2 to me

[Living For Love]

I'd say you should choose girl number two. The fact that girl number one started talking to you again doesn't mean doesn't mean she's interested in you, it could be, but not necessarily. How is the relationship you have with girl number two, though? Do you regularly talk with her or is she just a crush? It's because, if she's in fact just a crush, and if you guys don't even know each other that well, then you probably have more chances with girl number one, but if you didn't have in the past, it doesn't mean you're going to have now. Either way, following your heart is probably always the best decision.

[Miserabilia]

I'd say you should choose girl number two. The fact that girl number one started talking to you again doesn't mean doesn't mean she's interested in you, it could be, but not necessarily. How is the relationship you have with girl number two, though? Do you regularly talk with her or is she just a crush? It's because, if she's in fact just a crush, and if you guys don't even know each other that well, then you probably have more chances with girl number one, but if you didn't have in the past, it doesn't mean you're going to have now. Either way, following your heart is probably always the best decision.

Thanks everyone.
#1 was always more the crush, while I am much more regular with #2, on a friend basis, but not "friendzoned" (kinda hate that term).
Like lately I've been talking to #2 alot and I don't know I really like her and we have fun and I think there might be something there, which I used to think with #1 long ago.

[SillyShyGuy]

If girl 1 is going to make things awkward you should choose number two. Girl 2 seems like she really likes spending time with you. All of the sudden girl 1 comes back into the picture. Seems like girl one is jealous.

[Melodic]

Well, I would tell my entire romances just on that question. Well except for the closet guy I dated. But yeah it has happened. What really helped me in the long run was choosing the second. Because if I really liked the first guy, I really wouldn't have started liking the second.

[Miserabilia]

Well, I would tell my entire romances just on that question. Well except for the closet guy I dated. But yeah it has happened. What really helped me in the long run was choosing the second. Because if I really liked the first guy, I really wouldn't have started liking the second.

that's deep :o