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Caver
June 19th, 2014, 03:23 PM
So, I am almost in last year of school and majority of my secondary school years no one has liked me, nor have I dated anyone. I really crave male attention, if that doesn't seem stupid... Everyone around me, all my friends have had boyfriends, currently got boyfriends and I just feel left out. And, to top it all two male friends that I had got, have been slagging me off being damn right rude about how I look, my accent, and everything about me, but to my face they're friendly, so I decided to confront them.

Jean Poutine
June 19th, 2014, 05:29 PM
15 year old guys are dicks. You are not missing much.

That's what I say to every young person who feels like you, because it's true. I don't think that at your age it's really possible to "love" someone, at least not in the long term. You're just starting to forge your own personality and in the teen years people can drastically change in a matter of months.

Stronk Serb
June 19th, 2014, 05:53 PM
Well, I am in your situation, except I'm a guy. I got used to it. Most of those relationships aren't true anyways. Knowing my generation, most guys who had girlfriends here were pigs who used them for boobs and ass. It's kind of sad really.

Hollywood
June 19th, 2014, 07:05 PM
You shouldn't compare your own situations to everyone else's, that'll always make you feel inadequate. Just because all of your friends are in relationships doesn't mean that you have to be in one. Trust me, I know how you're feeling, it seems like my entire adolescence I was alone watching all of my friends with their boyfriends and girlfriends. But really, what's the point? Guys your age are rarely ready for relationships, whether they think they are or not.

You're 15 years old, Veritê. You have nothing to worry about, you've got your whole life ahead of you and plenty of time to find someone. Maybe now just isn't the right time for you, but someday it will be and you'll be glad that you waited for the right situation.

unknownuser
June 20th, 2014, 12:08 AM
Girl, you're ONLY 15, you really don't have anything to fret over just yet, you've got tons of time. Don't try too hard and don't stress over it, be yourself.
Wait for a more mature guy to come along, because as others have said, those stupid 15 year-olds are immature dicks. ;)

Blood
June 20th, 2014, 02:03 AM
Girl, you're ONLY 15, you really don't have anything to fret over just yet, you've got tons of time. Don't try too hard and don't stress over it, be yourself.
Wait for a more mature guy to come along, because as others have said, those stupid 15 year-olds are immature dicks. ;)

15 year old guys are dicks. You are not missing much.

That's what I say to every young person who feels like you, because it's true. I don't think that at your age it's really possible to "love" someone, at least not in the long term. You're just starting to forge your own personality and in the teen years people can drastically change in a matter of months.

It's not right to assume that all 15 year olds are dicks. Yeah, some are, but not all.

You're only 15, Veritê. Give yourself some time. There's no need to go rushing into a relationship at your age no matter how much you want it.

Caver
June 20th, 2014, 10:06 AM
Thanks guys, I guess it's cause I just lack love from family too...

Jean Poutine
June 20th, 2014, 06:29 PM
It's not right to assume that all 15 year olds are dicks. Yeah, some are, but not all.

I don't know a single guy my age who does not retrospectively think he was a total dick when he was 15, and that's including me.

Blood
June 20th, 2014, 06:42 PM
I don't know a single guy my age who does not retrospectively think he was a total dick when he was 15, and that's including me.

Sounds like a personal issue. I know some really likable and sensible 15 year olds.

Jean Poutine
June 20th, 2014, 06:53 PM
Sounds like a personal issue. I know some really likable and sensible 15 year olds.

I was also likable and sensible when I was 15, but still a total dick. Whether we want to admit it or not, puberty is a really egocentric stage of life everyone goes through. It doesn't stop us from being decent, even great human beings, but id wise, we are dicks.

Anyway, let's not derail the thread further.

Rallo
June 22nd, 2014, 09:47 AM
In short, high schools (for the most part) are all popularity and sh*t, dating anyone around those times is almost useless; it almost always ends in one or both becoming hurt.

Judging by your display picture, you're quite a good looking girl, you'll have no trouble finding a decent guy once they're more mature, wait until you're a bit older before starting to worry about things like that!

StacyD
June 22nd, 2014, 04:03 PM
Somewhere there is someone that is perfect for you. Give it time, be patient, and you will find them. Don't settle for anything less. You deserve only the best, from someone who will love you precisely as you are. :)

Plasma
June 22nd, 2014, 05:02 PM
You'll probably find that person when you least expect it. I sure as hell did. On VT of all places XD

targaryen101
July 18th, 2014, 06:11 AM
Girl, dont worry about! I am an 18 year old guy and have never been in a relationship. But I am sure it will happen and I am sure it will for you too! From your photo, you look stunning so just stay confident (that's the key) enjoy the now, being with friends, being single, doing what you want to do! THEN look for someone.

Waleedbt
July 18th, 2014, 04:56 PM
I just turned 19 recently and never been in a relationship, heck never even kissed a girl or touched one xD!

I still cant find a girl, or the right one i guess.

Dont think too much about it, you are only 15 , you have to so much time! plus, you're are beautiful :) , having a boyfriend or not doesnt effect in anyway of that.