Friends with benefits

[lifelies]

Hi there. It's been a long time since I last logged in :)
Long story short: I found out that a reaaaally hot neighbour of mine is bi, and we texted and basically met at my place. Then we had sex (I lost my virginity to him which was amazing lol).
The thing is: he clearly told me that he was just looking for sex, like friends with benefits, he didn't want to be in a relationship. To what I said okay.
I'm okay with it, because I'd rather be able to see him and f*ck him than just leave him and have a hurtful crush on him.
But when he left I realized I'm kinda in love with him. I love his smell, I love his looks, I love every single bit of him.
And I really don't know what to do. I don't want this to end.
They say FWB always end badly and one of the parties gets hurt, but apparently I'm the one who started having feelings... But I'm not going to let this end.
Idk what to do, is it possible that he ends up having feelings for me too?
Hugs

[Blood]

He's said he doesn't want anything more than sex. Maybe it's better if you end this now if you think you'll get feelings for him, because that's probably going to end badly. Or you can just go with the flow and try to realize and prepare for the worst. This is a sticky situation. I hope everything works out for you.

[Bmble_B]

He's said he doesn't want anything more than sex. Maybe it's better if you end this now if you think you'll get feelings for him, because that's probably going to end badly. Or you can just go with the flow and try to realize and prepare for the worst. This is a sticky situation. I hope everything works out for you.

I completely agree with her. Try to end it as soon as possible before you get hurt in the end...

[CassnovA]

ride it out

[frenchguy1]

Friends with benefits can also not work..careful :) But when it does, it's heaven )

[MyPlague2014]

Its possible just wait and see what happens he might get feelings for you or he might not

[Bull]

Be patient, be kind, be appreciative. Don't be pushy, don't get mushy, and for pete's sake don't tell him that you love him. If you want the relationship to continue let him lead and be responsive to that. Be a friends who enjoy being and doing all kinds of things together, not just acting like rabbits!

[NeuroTiger]

Friends with benefits are weird...

[honeybear]

if you do it right fwb can be great I have several...just make sure you keep your feelings and emotions under tight control because as others have said if you can't and start developing feelings for them when they won't return it it will suck major

[canonjourno]

Be patient, be kind, be appreciative. Don't be pushy, don't get mushy, and for pete's sake don't tell him that you love him. If you want the relationship to continue let him lead and be responsive to that. Be a friends who enjoy being and doing all kinds of things together, not just acting like rabbits!

Yeah- what he said :P [You overtly smart guy!]

[fast8]

Either end it if u don't think there is any way for u to date so you don't get hurt

[NephilimAzrael]

I think just friends would be better for you in such a case. It'd be hard to give up the benefits, but he's more likely to appreciate you as a person and develop feelings if he doesn't see u as a purely sexual object, and if nothing happens, it'll hurt a helluva lot less without the sex involved man :/ not a good idea to let it go on in that manner if u feel so strongly, ur gonna hurt urself.

[kaydencorey]

As other have said, if you feel like you are developing strong feelings for him then you have to decide if its worth continuing and risk getting badly hurt.
I've got FWB deal with 2 of my friends and I'm completely clear about what that means and how it will go, and so are they id end it if I thought he, or I was starting to develop feelings, too risky, and id not want to get hurt or hurt him.
It would also potentially ruin the friendship we have together.

[SillyShyGuy]

Sounds like the plot of the movie Friends with Benefits: someone ends up falling in love

[anrigirl]

Maybe wait it out a bit before you start having sex with him again, to see what your feelings are doing. The most important thing with friends with benefits is to keep emotions out of it! FWBs can be really fun!