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[carolinae]

I am the type of person that doesn't hug or kiss all the time.. it doesn't mean I'm not in love, I am. I'm just like that. I don't get all lovey-dovey and whatnot. Recently, my boyfriend has been asking me if I love him, and after being 10 months with him I can say that I do. He says that I never want to hug him or kiss him. I know this is true, but I can't help it. Being hugged/hugging makes me feel suffocated. And really, I've never been one that shows love. I think I have to change this to make him see that I do, in fact, love him. I have already talked to him about this, and he says he understands, but I know it gets him upset to have a girlfriend that rarely wants to kiss/hug him. How can I change this?

[Cece14]

Honestly, you cant really change it... im the same way with people except I dont mind hugging, i think you will evebtually grow out of it.

[CrazyPerson101]

I am the type of person that doesn't hug or kiss all the time.. it doesn't mean I'm not in love, I am. I'm just like that. I don't get all lovey-dovey and whatnot. Recently, my boyfriend has been asking me if I love him, and after being 10 months with him I can say that I do. He says that I never want to hug him or kiss him. I know this is true, but I can't help it. Being hugged/hugging makes me feel suffocated. And really, I've never been one that shows love. I think I have to change this to make him see that I do, in fact, love him. I have already talked to him about this, and he says he understands, but I know it gets him upset to have a girlfriend that rarely wants to kiss/hug him. How can I change this?


Well you can't really change this but it is good that you talked to him about it. Ot maybe a phase so there is always that possibility. I LOVE giving people hugs ( Its just what I do :) ) so I naturally do it on a reagular basis ( Idc gender or whatever ). I used to hate giving hugs and kisses to people but now I don't care and I do it alot actually :)