View Full Version : I swear this girl is messed up.
JasonB
June 18th, 2014, 10:28 AM
There's a girl from work that I first met mid-April. I walked out with her to her car and she asked me for my number. She asked ME.
We texted for awhile, talked, etc.
She continuously calls me "bae", says "I love you", and keeps on saying she wants to marry me. All kiddingly, of course, but still seems like this girl likes me. She even told me I was cute the other day, and that she "missed me".
Now she has an new profile pic and it's of some guy kissing her. I found out she has a boyfriend, since June 5. And since June 5, she's still been "flirting" with me.
WTF is wrong? Am I just crazy?
Luminous
June 18th, 2014, 10:54 AM
A lot of girls are very affectionate and clingy and say things like that, but she's definitely going over the top, especially since she's in a relationship. I think you should try to get her to talk seriously with you. Ask her to explain her true feelings towards you, and ask why she 'flirts' with you while in a relationship. It sounds to me like you have feelings for her back or at least would be open to a relationship, but you really do need to keep in mind that she has a boyfriend, and if she's been flirting with you, she'll flirt with someone else if you two were together.
Karkat
June 18th, 2014, 03:39 PM
Clearly she's unfaithful. I'd stop talking to her if I was you. Just cut off ties- she's trouble.
StacyD
June 18th, 2014, 05:33 PM
Yeah, best bet is to keep as far away from that girl as possible. If you were her boyfriend, she'd be doing the same thing to you with other guys. Clearly she is just attention-hungry and little else. Avoid her. You deserve better anyway. :)
TheN3rdyOutcast
June 18th, 2014, 05:35 PM
She's a player. You got to watch out for them.
Melodic
June 18th, 2014, 06:30 PM
Yeah no. That isn't worth it at all.
Not only is it wrong to keep things going because of what she's attempting, but if her boyfriend found out you would be dealing with a lot as well. Its best to just walk away.
sixguy6
June 18th, 2014, 06:44 PM
Well she may just like the thrill of having someone to like her. And she is probably in so cute so she flirts with guys to make herself feel wanted and in turn feel better about herself
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