Girl help

[slicnick844]

Ok so there is this girl and we are pretty good friends. Whe go out quite often mostly by our selfs. She also calls me adorable. I want to ask her out but I dont want to ruin the friendship if she doesnt like me back

[Luminous]

Puberty101 :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[refrigeratorx]

its hard because it could really be a risk to do anything about it. however, you could look at it as too risky and wait and see if she makes a move, or you could go for it. You could look at it as a great thing if she accepts, but if she denies and it DOES ruin the friendship maybe u can see it as the friendship wasn't that strong if she just ended it over something like that. But its still risky. idk what i'm saying but I hope i helped in some way.

bottom line: i say go for it. i guess you only live once. but this is me looking from the outside. so its all up to you. make a pro/con list. good luck !

[CrazyPerson101]

Ok so there is this girl and we are pretty good friends. Whe go out quite often mostly by our selfs. She also calls me adorable. I want to ask her out but I dont want to ruin the friendship if she doesnt like me back


I understand what you're saying, If I were you , Id ask her different like : So you like anyone ? or something like that. Hope that helped in the slightest bit.

[CharlieHorse]

ask her out. if she says no, then keep being friends. I've done it. it works if you are honest and communicate.

[StacyD]

Ask her out somewhere kinda basic first. Like for a coffee/mocha or something. See how that goes and talk to her to see how she might feel about taking it to another level. If she doesn't want to, don't let it bother you. If you act weirded out by it them it might hurt thins because you'll start acting differently. But, point being, start with coffee or maybe even a lunch or something. Then take it from there. And just be honest, open and communicate. It's amazing what can happen if you do. :)

Good luck!

[TheRedViper]

Just go for it. I was in the same situation and asked her out and she said no, but we still stayed friends. If anything our friendship got even stronger. It's worth a shot. You will regret it if you don't at least ask, cause then you'll never know if she would have said yes.

[Luisss]

I would stay friends. Like if you go out with her and she dumps you, you still have feelings but chances are you won't talk afterwards. There's nothing wrong with liking her though. Sorry to be rude but friendships last longer than bf or gf. But if you still wanna ask her out then do it.