Dad's wife

[Armor_King]

So my Dad's wife is a complete bitch.

I met her first 6 years ago, and she has always been this way. She constantly yelled at me for doing the dishes "wrong" (i.e. not exactly the way she would do it) and taking out the trash "wrong" (?????). She constantly yelled at her kids until they cried. This made me very pissed off and felt sorry for them. Of course they still love her :/ . Then worst of all she made lists of everything I did "wrong" and told me that my old stepmom (they were only engaged but I considered her my second mom) who died never loved me.

Now she still yells at me for doing things "wrong". She doesn't let me have hardly any food because she is "saving it" or its "her's". She puts do not eat notes on all of the food, then she gets mad when I eat one without a note. Why put notes in the first place? I swear she wants me to starve.

She also got my dad arrested on a false domestic violence charge. And he won't divorce her because of money. He also now does whatever she says.

So I called her a bitch and a c*** and now I can't eat dinner for the rest of the week. Thats what I get I am the worst person now she really didn't deserve that at all.

I want to go and eat a hamburger which is what they are making and say "try to stop me" when I try to eat it.

I am also trying to convince my mom to let me stay with her for the rest of the year until I'm 18. I don't know if she will or not.

[Bmble_B]

It sounds like your dad's wife isn't the sweetest berry on the bush. Try to talk to her and work things out, communication is key. And if that doesn't work, like you said try moving in with your mom, explain to her how your Dad's wife is treating you. (BTW love the Tekken reference in your avatar and name )

[Armor_King]

I just apologized so I can eat dinner, but I'm still thinking of leaving and never coming back. I think my mom will support it considering what dad's wife did to my dad and what I told Mom.

Not sure though because shcool is much better up here, though If I return to school where my mom lives I can actually see my old friends. I don't have any friends right now.

[TheN3rdyOutcast]

Correct me if I'm wrong, but denying a guardian denying their minor food could be counted as abuse/neglect, right?

[BuryYourFlame]

Live with your mother, it's honestly the easiest way. People like that can't be reasoned with they just get defensive and even worse. My step mother is a bitch too, I moved in with my girlfriend.

[Snydergate]

What I would do is call the cops and tell them she is abusing you and starving you. And maybe throw some more stuff in there just to juice it up, even if it isnt true. Cops take her away and you are good to go. If that cant work out, I would be a complete ass to her and leave to live with my mom. I went through something a bit similar with my dads wife. So now I live with my mom.

[Dalcourt]

As the others say, what your stepmom does is considered abuse so you could involve the authorities.Best would be to just stay with your mom or a friend.
my dad used to have a girlfriend who acted like that, too but my dad had enough sense to dump her, so I'm lucky.

[dirtyboxer55]

move all your valuable possessions to your moms house first (so she has nothing to destroy), then refuse to do any chores, be a slob and make a mess out of everything and eat as much food as you want no matter what she says.

[Dark Blue]

I'd strongly advise you to, A) Leave and go live with your mother, or B) contact the authorities. Neglect is a form of abuse, and her being upset with you about whatever doesn't warrant her to starve you.

[Body odah Man]

The food thing alone gives you enough grounds to file for relocation or call CPS. Neglecting food on such BS charges is more than enough to get someone arrested. Stand up for yourself man!

[Hudor]

So my Dad's wife is a complete bitch.

I met her first 6 years ago, and she has always been this way. She constantly yelled at me for doing the dishes "wrong" (i.e. not exactly the way she would do it) and taking out the trash "wrong" (?????). She constantly yelled at her kids until they cried. This made me very pissed off and felt sorry for them. Of course they still love her :/ . Then worst of all she made lists of everything I did "wrong" and told me that my old stepmom (they were only engaged but I considered her my second mom) who died never loved me.

Now she still yells at me for doing things "wrong". She doesn't let me have hardly any food because she is "saving it" or its "her's". She puts do not eat notes on all of the food, then she gets mad when I eat one without a note. Why put notes in the first place? I swear she wants me to starve.

She also got my dad arrested on a false domestic violence charge. And he won't divorce her because of money. He also now does whatever she says.

So I called her a bitch and a c*** and now I can't eat dinner for the rest of the week. Thats what I get I am the worst person now she really didn't deserve that at all.

I want to go and eat a hamburger which is what they are making and say "try to stop me" when I try to eat it.

I am also trying to convince my mom to let me stay with her for the rest of the year until I'm 18. I don't know if she will or not.

Does she have some mental illness? Did she ever have a check-up? I feel she could be sick.
btw it seems that she doesn't like you and you could probably sit and talk to her about it. There may be some misunderstandings although the chance is slim and if possible try to resort the differences.
IF she is mentally stable and is just being a bitch, then moving out of her house would be best for you and staying with your mother would be the best.

[NeuroTiger]

The food thing alone gives you enough grounds to file for relocation or call CPS. Neglecting food on such BS charges is more than enough to get someone arrested. Stand up for yourself man!

^agree.

Stand up man!! Come on!!