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sassysoul
June 17th, 2014, 03:56 PM
hey, i am a 14 y/o girl and i've never had a boyfriend. all my friend have a boyfriend/girlfriend but i don't have one :( i feel depressed because of that :confused: what should i do?

tbake98
June 17th, 2014, 04:02 PM
Don't force it. Meet new people, and just let it happen naturally.

TheN3rdyOutcast
June 17th, 2014, 04:13 PM
Don't feel bad, I've got the same situation. I'm nearly 15 and I've never had a boyfriend either. Don't worry, eventually you'll find someone that you like, or someone that you end up liking will find you. It'll happen eventually.

Melodic
June 17th, 2014, 04:31 PM
You're only 14. You have plenty of time for relationships!

refrigeratorx
June 17th, 2014, 04:33 PM
you should never force something like that. it will happen when it will happen. the most important thing is to be yourself and people will come. definitely stay away from being somebody you're not just because you want to have a significant other.

Croconaw
June 17th, 2014, 04:55 PM
I wouldn't force anything. You'll meet someone in life who you just connect with. The worst thing you could do is be someone you're not just to have a relationship. You shouldn't feel pressured to get a boyfriend just because your friends have one.

Jean Poutine
June 17th, 2014, 05:03 PM
14 year old boys are dicks. You are not missing much.

Bmble_B
June 17th, 2014, 05:08 PM
LOL, it's okay, it'll happen eventually. Like the first poster said, give it time and meet new people.

Hollywood
June 17th, 2014, 05:12 PM
14 year old boys are dicks. You are not missing much.

Pretty much this. Wait a few years and you'll find that the guys around you are much more suitable for relationships. Rushing into it at your age isn't going to get you anywhere, especially with guys around your age.

StacyD
June 17th, 2014, 05:42 PM
Take your time. When the right boy comes along, you'll know.

Lisa R
June 17th, 2014, 05:57 PM
Like all others have said before me. No need to rush a relationship it will come in do time and when the time is right. You are young and plenty of time ahead of you.

Luisss
June 18th, 2014, 03:49 AM
It's okay. It's not worth it right now. Focus on school lol.

TheRedViper
June 18th, 2014, 03:54 AM
Lol well I'm 17 and haven't had a girlfriend, so don't worry about it at all.

Body odah Man
June 18th, 2014, 05:14 AM
hey, i am a 14 y/o girl and i've never had a boyfriend. all my friend have a boyfriend/girlfriend but i don't have one :( i feel depressed because of that :confused: what should i do?

It's O.K. Ur time will come. Just go with the flow and wait :)

Bull
June 18th, 2014, 05:34 AM
I am 17 and have never had a girl friend or boy friend. I enjoy going out with several different girls and having fun, don't feel the need to just be with one girl. Same with guys. We do a lot of group dating which is a lot of fun and little pressure. So do not be in a hurry to tie yourself to a single individual, you have a lot of time to develop that kind of relationship. In the mean time have some fun getting to know yourself and a variety of other people.

Giando
June 18th, 2014, 09:18 AM
Ehy girl, don't worry.
I am almost 16 and I have never had a girlfriend, and I am ok! Since some months ago, I' ve never kissed a girl too, but I ve always know that there was anything wrong in me! It was a problem of shyness, you can find a boyfriend if you want, and you know.
And don't forget you're only 14, maybe many people have a relationship at 12/13 years old, but are we sure that they are enough mature?

sixguy6
June 18th, 2014, 09:57 AM
hey, i am a 14 y/o girl and i've never had a boyfriend. all my friend have a boyfriend/girlfriend but i don't have one :( i feel depressed because of that :confused: what should i do?

Well don't be sad. I'm sure you'll get one :) and hey I'm 17 and I've never had a gf before :D

frenchguy1
June 20th, 2014, 07:54 AM
Sassy, it's absolutely normal and not weird to be 14 and not have a bf yet ! You got plenty of time, being sinnle is not always bad, and you better take time to chose the right one ... :)