Gender Identification

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[Sir Suomi]

Alice, if it truly is what you're wanting, go with whatever makes you feel comfortable. Don't let others make you feel like you need to meet the norms of society. It's your life, live it to the fullest.

As for what you should do, I've no clue on what to say. Although I'm not a fan of it, if you truly wish for it, you can receive a sex-change, granted you've reached the consenting age. However, if that's what you're wanting to go with, carefully decide on it. Things like that will literally throw your world upside down. It's not something to be taken care of lightly. However, I'd suggest if you'd want, you can always act like a tomboy, I actually dated a girl who was sort of one, and she was great. Sadly, that didn't work out, but that was for different reasons.

So anyways, to wrap things up, do whatever you feel like you need to do. If you waste your time worrying about trying to fit in, you're not going to be able experience your life to the fullest. PM me if you need to talk, or have any questions.

Hope this helps.

[Karkat]

Have you looked in to the bigender/trigender umbrella? I can relate a lot to what you're describing, and I identify as bigender. But in all honesty, just express yourself the way you feel fit. Don't feel like you HAVE to have a label, sometimes a label can give you a sense of identity, but if it only frustrates you, just be who you want to be and don't worry about it.