View Full Version : Do your sexual interests differ from your romantic interests?
Cognizant
June 16th, 2014, 09:04 PM
Is what you like sexually different than what you like romantically?
I know I am at least bisexual, but I think I might be homoromantic. In other words, I would have sex with either a dude or a girl, but I think I only see myself being in a romantic partnership with guys in the future.
Elysium
June 16th, 2014, 09:06 PM
Yes. As far as sexually goes, from what I've observed (or haven't observed, rather) I'm more or less asexual. Romantically, I'm undecided. One way or another, I'm not straight.
TheN3rdyOutcast
June 16th, 2014, 09:08 PM
For me, I only get turned on by guys, Homosexual, and though I mostly see myself in a devoted relationship whit another man, I am sort of curious about what it would be like to be in a romantic relationship with a female. Heterocuriousromantic.
To answer the question: Yes.
Forsakenbymyself
June 17th, 2014, 04:38 AM
I'm a Heteroromantic Bisexual
Emerald Dream
June 17th, 2014, 07:20 AM
Interesting question, and I think the answer for me is that there is a very slight difference. I am still not sure - haven't exactly figured out everything about myself yet.
darkangel91
June 17th, 2014, 11:34 AM
It depends upon my mood. Sometimes I almost border on bisexual. But I only could love a guy. I don't feel very horny anymore, ever, really, although I mean I do get turned on, but nowhere near as much as I used to... honestly, I don't want sexual feelings. I would rather they went away.But they won't. I want to be in love, but sex bothers me... but then sometimes it doesn't... ?!
Abyssal Echo
June 17th, 2014, 11:42 AM
I'm gay I'm only turned on and romantically attracted to guys. So no my sexual interests do not differ from my sexual interests.
Camazotz
June 17th, 2014, 08:27 PM
No, I'm straight and I'm only romantically interested in females. Very interesting question, though! I never really thought about it like that.
Sarah18
June 18th, 2014, 12:25 AM
As I recently discovered I *think* I am heteroromantically bisexual. I know I could only ever have a future with a guy, but I'm not completely sure about sex. I've never experienced sex with a woman before, but once I do I can better understand if I would then consider myself bisexual.
dame
June 18th, 2014, 01:14 AM
Is what you like sexually different than what you like romantically?
I know I am at least bisexual, but I think I might be homoromantic. In other words, I would have sex with either a dude or a girl, but I think I only see myself being in a romantic partnership with guys in the future.
I feel the same way as you. I consider myself gay, but I would have sex w/ a girl, I just couldn't see myself getting feelings for them nor be in a relationship w/ one.
Karkat
June 18th, 2014, 04:14 PM
I can't see myself romantically or sexually with most people. I'm sexually attracted to females more, but I enjoy sex with males. I feel like romantically, I'm something between biromantic and neutral, slight bias on being with males. I don't really find guys to be physically attractive that often, but I think most women are gorgeous holy fuck.
I'm kind of all over the place, and nowhere at the same time. It's like someone put a flaming bisexual/pansexual and a set-in-stone asexual in a blender and formed the gooey consequences into another human being.
Bmble_B
June 18th, 2014, 04:43 PM
Okay, I can have sex and be in a romantic relationship with a guy. But, when it comes to girls, I just lack any sort of attraction to them all together...
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