I am too shy to talk to girls

[TheAwesomeCoder]

When I see a girl I am very shy to look at her or talk. Is there any way to get rid of that?

[Microcosm]

Don't worry about it too much. Some girls like shy guys. You just have to find the right girl.

[TheAwesomeCoder]

Don't worry about it too much. Some girls like shy guys. You just have to find the right girl.
I here'd that but when a girl likes me I might freak out

[JamesSuperBoy]

When I see a girl I am very shy to look at her or talk. Is there any way to get rid of that?

Practice - and work at having friends around who can help you out.

[TheAwesomeCoder]

Practice - and work at having friends around who can help you out.
I used to be in a mixed school now I'm in a boys only school but next year I'm gonna be in secondary/High school

[TheAwesomeCoder]

Practice - and work at having friends around who can help you out.
Also I'm shy to talk to my friends about this shyness but some how I'm not in the internet

[Luminous]

I think you'll get better answers here.
Anxiety :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[zbo95]

I'm way older and still have this problem . The thing is i have gotten way better and can be myself around them the more comfortable I am but still nothing. If you don't want to be like me you should stop thinking about it and go . Once you think about talking to her you won't so just go ahead

[PinkFloyd]

Some girls actually fuind shyness cute/attractive so even if the shyness doesn't ware off, you're not in too tough of a spot.

[BuryYourFlame]

It sounds like you may have things around the wrong way a bit mate.
If you're only nervous talking to girls then you're just thinking about possible relationships etc., this really doesn't help anything.
If you treat girls just like talking to and making friends with guys you're going to get a lot further and you'll have more sincere female friends rather than female friends that you're only friends with because you were hoping something would happen. That being said, I've found it is really a lot easier to do after you finish school when social groups aren't really a thing any more and everyone just talks to everybody.
Besides, you're only 13 too, still plenty of time left to become more confident and find some new friends.

[WaffleSingSong]

Like many said, a lot of girls like shy guys, and it's quite normal to have a stage in life where your shy twords the opposite sex. It's puberty. It happens. You might think that a girl doen't like you, of any look or personality between you two, but you can be quite shocked. http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?p=2840665#post2840665 you can read this post about my life as a personal example that im dealing with shyness. And, well, you might be shocked if a girl likes you. Don't worry, If she is worth anything, she won't mind the sudden shock, especially if she knows how you are with being shy and what-not.

However, sometime's shyness is also caused by not enough confidence in one's self. Girls love confidence, and some people say that's why some girls go out with "douchebags" (even though I think most girls just have a hard time reading a guy.) Find a hobby or sport to do in your school, see if you can try to refresh your look somehow, look at your strong points and reflect on how you can highlight that in your personality somehow. Remember, these are just my opinions, you take what you want from them.

[Gunter]

Pretend to be confident, and eventually it comes to you. Worked for me

[audiophile5]

Try spending more time with girls - not only with those who interest you from a romantic point of view - for it is nerve-racking to socialize with them- but try to become friends with some girls. It'll help you understand how they think, how to act around them, without the pressure of screwing up a date or something