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Snookers
June 15th, 2014, 06:59 PM
Okay, so, I THOUGHT I was a solid 2 on the Kinsey scale (sexuality scale) but recently I had these small crushes on girls and now I face with a huuuge crush on a tv show star. I stopped being interested in men that much and focus on females.I feel like a lesbianosaurus.

So anyway, who was your first same-sex crush? (even if you're straight). And what age were you? How about them? It doesn't matter if they're a celebrity or a friend.

I can't really remember my very FIRST female crush, I only remember that she was brunette, and I saw her in a movie about 2 bad ass lesbians, at the age of 9 c: (she was probably mid 20's, I was a reverse pedo)

The only girl crush that I can remember that I know her name is Deborah Ann Woll :wub: from True Blood

I don't really get crushes on people that I know.

Luminous
June 15th, 2014, 07:02 PM
My first real crush, not just being attracted to someone, was I think in 2011. I was 11 and so was she. We went to summer camp together. I probably had some before them, but I didn't understand or acknowledge them since I didn't know being gay was even possible until I was 10/11.

Elysium
June 15th, 2014, 07:09 PM
A girl I met at the beginning of this school year. She's a year younger than me. I went all year agonizing over it and trying to be friends until, a week before the year ended (so, a little more than a week ago), I asked her to talk and I confessed to having a crush on her. She said she was flattered, but had no interest in girls, and so since then I've been working on getting over it.

TheN3rdyOutcast
June 15th, 2014, 07:16 PM
Unfortunately for me, no. When I had crushes, it was before I knew that "gay" was actually a thing. I had a little crush on my 7th grade Social Studies teacher though, and honestly, now that I think about how he acted, he might've been gay.

All I knew when I was 12 was that I kind of got a tingly feeling when I saw a good looking man, and that was it.

HUSTLEMAN
June 15th, 2014, 08:07 PM
He was a guy I met @ the beginning of the school year and my feelings for him didn't develop until about the last month of school and even then it was more a fantasy of mine but by then it didn't matter as he is going to another school and I was chasing for a girl I had more passionate feelings for.

CharlieHorse
June 15th, 2014, 08:07 PM
not exactly a crush, but i think some guys are good looking

Karkat
June 15th, 2014, 08:22 PM
I don't exactly get crushes. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Closest ones would be maybe Marion Cotillard, Claudia Black, Zooey Deschanel

Croconaw
June 15th, 2014, 08:22 PM
I have, all the time.

churris
June 15th, 2014, 09:09 PM
Mi best friend from childhood, I think I was around 11/12, and so was she. The thing I remember the most is being in a sleepover and suddenly noticing she had boobs, like really nice boobs haha :P I had a crush on her for a while after that and just faded away after a year or two. At the time I was struggling with my sexuality (I've now realized I'm actually straight) and wasn't ready for a relationship or experimenting or anything (even though she is pretty much straight, too) so I never told her.

From movies, huh, first one would be Emma Watson? Maybe.

EDIT.
I don't exactly get crushes. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Closest ones would be maybe Marion Cotillard, Claudia Black, Zooey Deschanel

Marion Cotillard is soooo pretty, gosh <3

Karkat
June 15th, 2014, 09:22 PM
Mi best friend from childhood, I think I was around 11/12, and so was she. The thing I remember the most is being in a sleepover and suddenly noticing she had boobs, like really nice boobs haha :P I had a crush on her for a while after that and just faded away after a year or two. At the time I was struggling with my sexuality (I've now realized I'm actually straight) and wasn't ready for a relationship or experimenting or anything (even though she is pretty much straight, too) so I never told her.

From movies, huh, first one would be Emma Watson? Maybe.

EDIT.


Marion Cotillard is soooo pretty, gosh <3

I know, right?

And she's ADORABLE. She was on Conan, I think, one night, talking about a movie she was making, and she's just so funny and cute! Like, her personality is really quirky and cute. I just love her.

It's hard to believe that someone so cute could play a role like she did in Inception. Holy cow can she act, too.

Snydergate
June 15th, 2014, 11:01 PM
I am straight, mostly straight I guess, but I do have a same sex crush with another guy.

Melodic
June 15th, 2014, 11:06 PM
I once had a little crush on my ex-best friend. I sometimes find girls attractive as well.

Plane And Simple
June 16th, 2014, 12:29 AM
not exactly a crush, but i think some guys are good looking

This would apply for me too :)

CrazyPerson101
June 16th, 2014, 09:23 AM
Okay, so, I THOUGHT I was a solid 2 on the Kinsey scale (sexuality scale) but recently I had these small crushes on girls and now I face with a huuuge crush on a tv show star. I stopped being interested in men that much and focus on females.I feel like a lesbianosaurus.

So anyway, who was your first same-sex crush? (even if you're straight). And what age were you? How about them? It doesn't matter if they're a celebrity or a friend.

I can't really remember my very FIRST female crush, I only remember that she was brunette, and I saw her in a movie about 2 bad ass lesbians, at the age of 9 c: (she was probably mid 20's, I was a reverse pedo)

The only girl crush that I can remember that I know her name is Deborah Ann Woll :wub: from True Blood

I don't really get crushes on people that I know.


Well my first guy crush was my friend Dale. He was 15 , I was 12. He was a VERY masculine ( im more a feminine sorta guy cause I have lived with women all my life so I naturally find masculinity attractive ) Kinda a cowboy in a way, He had baby abs ( which made me melt at the time ) I never had a celebrity crush though

Bull
June 16th, 2014, 09:31 AM
Charlie McDermott, Alex, on In The Middle, is really cute lounging around in his boxers.

Faolan
June 16th, 2014, 12:16 PM
My first same-sex crush was probably one of my friends in 8th grade/quatrieme (I was 13), but I doubt I fully comprehended that it was a crush.

LouBerry
June 16th, 2014, 12:24 PM
The first and really only time I've hard-core crushed on a girl was last summer at Girls State. Her name was Sarah and she was really sweet, but we didn't talk much until the last night, when I was doing my Bible study in the lounge and she came down with a notebook and a Bible to do the same thing, so we talked it and what type of ice cream we liked and if were we stood on Cats vs. Dogs, and we were up all night just talking. She is probably the most kind and beautiful girl I've ever met in my life.

JusticeandMercy
June 18th, 2014, 05:37 PM
I was in eighth grade, so 13 and 14, but I didn't realize it was a crush for about eight months.
She was a seventh grader named Maria.
Eighth grade was a really weird year because it was when I finally accepted my bisexuality and I suddenly realized how many cute girls I knew.
So with that came a flood of little crushes, but the two biggest were the one on Maria, and one on this other girl named Kate.

Nic0 Fiend
June 18th, 2014, 05:44 PM
I had small ones before but I didn't really know what it was because you know i was young but my first real one was 2 years ago, his name was Josh and were both 14. He was really cute and funny and just being with him made me feel all warm inside, I just wanted to be around him all the time. But i moved back to my old city and haven't talked to him since :/

Dalcourt
June 19th, 2014, 12:09 AM
I guess I only had same sex crushes in my life...don't remember any crush I ever had on someone from the opposite gender.

Karkat
June 20th, 2014, 11:28 AM
I feel I need to add Lily Allen, Lady Sovereign, Ellen Page, and Sarah Silverman.

Elysium
June 20th, 2014, 11:30 AM
I feel I need to add Lily Allen, Lady Sovereign, Ellen Page, and Sarah Silverman.
Oh my goodness, Ellen Page. I sat through Whip It pretty much just to stare at her. She's definitely a celebrity crush of mine, too.

If we're including celebrity crushes as well, then I'd like to mention Lorde and Kate Nash.

Karkat
June 20th, 2014, 12:42 PM
Oh my goodness, Ellen Page. I sat through Whip It pretty much just to stare at her. She's definitely a celebrity crush of mine, too.

If we're including celebrity crushes as well, then I'd like to mention Lorde and Kate Nash.

I love Kate Nash. She's another one of those self-confident, kick-ass artists that are so fun to listen to. Plus she's got a beautiful voice, gosh.

Blood
June 20th, 2014, 02:10 PM
I've had a ton of same sex crushes, but my first was probably Christina Aguilera. I still find her really attractive.

edit: 1700th post bitches.

Plasma
June 20th, 2014, 02:42 PM
I always hear about people having same sex crushes, but I've never been attracted to another guy

Frogman1238
June 23rd, 2014, 10:44 PM
So anyway, who was your first same-sex crush? (even if you're straight). And what age were you? How about them? It doesn't matter if they're a celebrity or a friend.

I have a bit of a crush on a friend of mine, and I'm 15. They know I'm bisexual and I've told them that if they ever wanted someone to experiment with because they've told me they're a bit curious about guys I'd be there for them.

Kayonce
June 25th, 2014, 05:06 PM
I have actually dated some one of the same sex so... yes, that pretty much answers. ;)

Babs
June 25th, 2014, 05:08 PM
A couple ones I know personally, like actual crushes. And several on many different musicians or models or actresses - well, not necessarily crushes but women whom I'm attracted to.
I don't really talk to a lot of people, so I haven't had many crushes but I've had a shit ton more crushes on girls than I've had on boys.

Emerald Dream
June 25th, 2014, 05:50 PM
There was a girl that I liked so much that I cried just about every night hoping she would notice me. Seeing her every day was really difficult. I don't know if it was anything other than wanting her company or whether it was something else, but I consider it a crush I guess.

As far as celebrities go - definitely Alex Morgan all day, every day. Hottest athlete in the world, I swear. :P

lumiadots
June 29th, 2014, 12:20 AM
tbh i can't even remember my first same-sex crush, though i think it was helena bonham carter (don't judge me). i've also had a couple crushes on girls i knew but i never told them, and i really really liked a girl named kate i met on a roleplaying site and we skyped and stuff and started dating. right now, though, i have a boyfriend but i still have prominent female celebrity crushes. mostly on chloe grace moretz and shakira lol.

morsar
July 8th, 2014, 08:41 AM
real life: won't say

celebrity: Jennifer Lawrence, Jessica Alba, Jessica Biel, Allison Hannigan, Halle Barry, most of the cast of The L Word, Scarlet Johanson, Fanning sisters, Jenner sisters, Ava Sambora, Belle Thorne, Anne Hathaway, Natalie Portman, Mila Kunis, Laura Prepon, Zoe Saldona, Tina Fey, Chelsea Handler, Ariel Winter, Kat Dennings, Cameron Diaz, Kate Upton, Amy Adams, Carla Gugino, Mary Louise Parker, Emilia Clarke, Emily Bett Rickards, Megan Fox, Angelina Jolie, Jennifer Aniston, Courtney Cox, Lady Gaga, Miley Cyrus, Katey Perry, Tegan an Sara, Sex & The City cast, Felicia Day, Lucy Lu, Drew Barrymore, Ellen Page...I could type all day...

Laura Crofty
July 17th, 2014, 03:33 PM
For me it's friends, older girls at school. Hey don't judge but have a major crush on one of my moms friends.

carolinae
July 17th, 2014, 05:07 PM
i once had a crush on a girl at school. i'm straight and this kinda made my mind go crazy. i figured after a while that it wasn't anything sexual, i just really wanted to be like her because she was so cool and yeah. i was around 12

dame
July 17th, 2014, 06:01 PM
Ian Somerhalder, Dylan O' Brien, Kris Humphries, & Hayden Christensen. Omg, they can all get it. :P

peyton2000
July 18th, 2014, 06:18 PM
My first same sex celebrity cruse was Harry potter no so much Daniel Ratcliff

Passenger
July 22nd, 2014, 02:34 AM
my first girl crush was probably not until I was 14 and my first boy was when I was 13. But I do have a thing for Troye Sivan and Ellen Page :D

dauntless
July 23rd, 2014, 03:44 AM
My first guy crush was Theo James. I still am madly in love with while I like Ansel Elgort too.