My ex is a slut

[depressed147]

I recently broke up with my girlfriend. I loved her very much, but she couldn't stay away from other guys. She'd say the're just friends, but i always thought more was going on. Today i found out that she did sexual things with my two best friends the day after we broke up. Now I am shocked and hurt because i still have feelings for her, but i'm extremely mad that this happened.... I'm just depressed and i don't know what to do...

[BuryYourFlame]

You have to realise mate that you guys broke up. It's understandable that it still hurts a bit because it's so recent, but the fact is, now she's not with you the only person who gets a say in what she does sexually is herself.

You said that you "thought more was going on" as opposed to there actually was other stuff going on. Be careful of jealousy in the future dude, it just pushes people away and it usually just pushes them more and more towards the people you're scared of losing them to.

All that's left to do now is just keep going really, have some time to yourself. Make sure you're comfortable being single before you get back in to another relationship. Use this time to make your friendships stronger and put more time in to things you enjoy doing.

[Karkat]

I'm sorry she cheated on you, but if you're going to be possessive in a relationship, maybe you aren't ready for one.

Edit: Oh, I didn't see the AFTER part.

Ok, I'm going to put this in the nicest terms I know:

YOU DON'T OWN HER, GET OVER IT.

You're clearly not ready for a relationship. Do the ladies out there and yourself a favor and grow up a little first.

you broke up then she went fooling around with your friends?
and you think that's cheating?
you just need to re-evaluate your definitions, and who your friends are.

Exactly.

[CharlieHorse]

you broke up then she went fooling around with your friends?
and you think that's cheating?
you just need to re-evaluate your definitions, and who your friends are.

[Croconaw]

That's not cheating because you already broke up with her. I don't think you're ready for a relationship. You have to move on because you lost your chance with this girl.