Damn this sucks

[audiophile5]

So I've been at a national english competition, and from my school a girl was also coming. We prepared together for it like 4 weeks, we went together across the country to the contest, and of course I started to like her. This was in april, but until a couple of weeks ago I wasn't sure if it wasn't just a crush.

When I did make up my mind that I like her, I found out the one of my friends is into her and she's into him, and now they're kinda a thing. I don't blame him for anything, but it's still hard sometimes for me to hang out with him, when I remember my feelings for her and the fact that she chose him. I know I should be happy for them, and maybe this does make me a bad person, but how am I supposed to endorse such a relationship when it's me who's lonely at the end of the day?

Anyhow, just wanted to ask you guys if something similar had happened to you and how did you manage to pull through?
Oh, and just to make things better, in July the school is organizing a one month trip for those who went at that national competition, so she's coming too, but my friend is not (not that I plan on doing anything!). It's just that my plans of forgetting her are rather thin now, considering I'll have to spend ONE month with her. I'll be d-d.

[HUSTLEMAN]

You waited too long to act and someone else got to her first which was your friend. That's happened to me before and for now you'll have to deal w/ it.

[sixguy6]

So I've been at a national english competition, and from my school a girl was also coming. We prepared together for it like 4 weeks, we went together across the country to the contest, and of course I started to like her. This was in april, but until a couple of weeks ago I wasn't sure if it wasn't just a crush.

When I did make up my mind that I like her, I found out the one of my friends is into her and she's into him, and now they're kinda a thing. I don't blame him for anything, but it's still hard sometimes for me to hang out with him, when I remember my feelings for her and the fact that she chose him. I know I should be happy for them, and maybe this does make me a bad person, but how am I supposed to endorse such a relationship when it's me who's lonely at the end of the day?

Anyhow, just wanted to ask you guys if something similar had happened to you and how did you manage to pull through?
Oh, and just to make things better, in July the school is organizing a one month trip for those who went at that national competition, so she's coming too, but my friend is not (not that I plan on doing anything!). It's just that my plans of forgetting her are rather thin now, considering I'll have to spend ONE month with her. I'll be d-d.

You made up your mind to late and you didn't ask her thats prob why. And look she didn't chose him over you because she did not know you liked her because you did not tell her.
Being Jealous doesn't make you a bad person if it were me I'd try to steal her :P which is prob what you should try and do with that one month trip of yours ;). People will probably say im a douche bag for saying that,but hey if you like someone that much you have every right to fight for them until they say no. And good luck hope my advice works.

And one story I have I'll make short.

I was with a girl and her best friend was jealous but he tried to pretend that he was being protective of her when he rly just wanted her for himself and I asked the guy if he likes her and he said he always loved her and was sad to think he couldn't be with her when I was. So i left her and told her that she was better off with someone who actually loved her and didn't want to have her jus for sex or stuff like that. He was so happy and that's one kinda good thing I've donenlol

[Body odah Man]

So I've been at a national english competition, and from my school a girl was also coming. We prepared together for it like 4 weeks, we went together across the country to the contest, and of course I started to like her. This was in april, but until a couple of weeks ago I wasn't sure if it wasn't just a crush.

When I did make up my mind that I like her, I found out the one of my friends is into her and she's into him, and now they're kinda a thing. I don't blame him for anything, but it's still hard sometimes for me to hang out with him, when I remember my feelings for her and the fact that she chose him. I know I should be happy for them, and maybe this does make me a bad person, but how am I supposed to endorse such a relationship when it's me who's lonely at the end of the day?

Anyhow, just wanted to ask you guys if something similar had happened to you and how did you manage to pull through?
Oh, and just to make things better, in July the school is organizing a one month trip for those who went at that national competition, so she's coming too, but my friend is not (not that I plan on doing anything!). It's just that my plans of forgetting her are rather thin now, considering I'll have to spend ONE month with her. I'll be d-d.

That month is your chance, amigo :) Go for it!
As for your question in the first paragraph, no you never do get over it.

[Stronk Serb]

You made up your mind to late and you didn't ask her thats prob why. And look she didn't chose him over you because she did not know you liked her because you did not tell her.
Being Jealous doesn't make you a bad person if it were me I'd try to steal her :P which is prob what you should try and do with that one month trip of yours ;). People will probably say im a douche bag for saying that,but hey if you like someone that much you have every right to fight for them until they say no. And good luck hope my advice works.

And one story I have I'll make short.

I was with a girl and her best friend was jealous but he tried to pretend that he was being protective of her when he rly just wanted her for himself and I asked the guy if he likes her and he said he always loved her and was sad to think he couldn't be with her when I was. So i left her and told her that she was better off with someone who actually loved her and didn't want to have her jus for sex or stuff like that. He was so happy and that's one kinda good thing I've donenlol

Well, I could steal a girl from a guy I barely know, but from a friend... Friendships usually last. Teenage relationships don't.

To the OP: I guess you can try to steal her, but I personally would do it if I wasn't that close to the friend she is with.

[sixguy6]

Well, I could steal a girl from a guy I barely know, but from a friend... Friendships usually last. Teenage relationships don't.

To the OP: I guess you can try to steal her, but I personally would do it if I wasn't that close to the friend she is with.

If you love her then you will but if you dont like her then what's the point? Even if you don't know the guy? I would prefer the girl I'm with over any friendship might sound mean but I rather have her than anyone else tbh

[Stronk Serb]

If you love her then you will but if you dont like her then what's the point? Even if you don't know the guy? I would prefer the girl I'm with over any friendship might sound mean but I rather have her than anyone else tbh

Whatever floats your boat, but would you steal a girl from your very good friend? I'm not a beacon of morality, so I'll not be giving you a lecture that's for sure.

[sixguy6]

Whatever floats your boat, but would you steal a girl from your very good friend? I'm not a beacon of morality, so I'll not be giving you a lecture that's for sure.

If I rly rly liked her then yes of ccourse. Unless I knew she didn't like me then I wouldn't care.
And haha its ok man I'm just saying from experience lol

[audiophile5]

Well, I myself am a rather old fashioned, hopeless romantic, and to be honest, this way of "stealing my friend's girlfriend" doesn't really fit within my standards & principles. Were I to be with her, I'd do it differently, in a more courting, classy way.
And I'm completely against cheating, so that would be a bit of an hypocrisy, wouldn't it?